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Am i a Bridezilla?!
HappyBrownStationery13789, 20 May, 2019 at 13:37

My sister is 4 years younger than me and is getting married in a year.. I am getting married in 8 weeks. I just want the focus to be on my wedding for now, but she won't leave hers alone, she is...

RomanticPinkDecor319, sunday 26-May-19 1 400
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Any Chilham Brides?
, 26 May, 2011 at 15:26

We've just booked our wedding for August 2013 at Chilham Village Hall (near Canterbury in Kent) .... We both loved this venue when we went to see it but i can't help feeling a bit like people will...

LuxuriousRedConfetti, saturday 25-May-19 54 16,931
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Witnesses Needed for a Shotgun Wedding Ceremony
RomanticOrangeBridesmaid39507, 20 May, 2019 at 17:43

Hi hitchers, Myself and my partner Noel are planning a shotgun wedding on the 8th July this year. ?? We've been together since we were 16 (10years now) and have been engaged for over a year and we've...

Paula @ Ollievision, friday 24-May-19 615
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Venue allowing outside caterers!!!
Cece100, 13 May, 2015 at 17:36

Hi ladies, I have not created a post before but have commented on others so hope I am doing this correctly! My OH and I would like to incorporate both our cultures into our day and would quite like to...

Fey, wednesday 22-May-19 19 10,787 1
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Wedding reception in bluebell wood
Fiercekytten, 30 August, 2012 at 09:27

Hello all I am new to the site and this is my first post, I'm hoping someone will be able to help me. After nearly 5 years of engagement and 2 children I am finally planning our wedding! What I would...

Paula @ Ollievision, friday 17-May-19 5 2,042
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Bridesmaid dresses - help!
ExpensiveGreenBridesmaid43290, 14 May, 2019 at 16:09

I've spent hours looking for dresses! They are either too expensive or cheap and coming from somewhere overseas which doesn't allow returns and has awful reviews. I want to spend about £100 for an...

emily00, friday 17-May-19 453
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Wedding dress alterations!
LuxuriousBrownCars864, 10 May, 2019 at 14:31

Hello, my wedding is now only 6 weeks away and i am trying to keep to my budget as far as possible and plan all money due out when to ensure we have everything we need. now my wedding dress fitting...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, sunday 12-May-19 2 611
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Is it ok to request bridesmaids find own shoes?
Meg101, 11 October, 2017 at 12:33

Hi, I'm looking at dresses at the moment for my 2 adult bridesmaids and 1 junior but haven't budgeted it even thought about shoes. I'm already paying for dresses, make up and hair. Us it ok to ask...

Alisha.B, sunday 12-May-19 14 3,817
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Fusion Weddings
slightobsession, 16 January, 2012 at 15:12

I have Indian heritage and would love to mix that in to my wedding. I'm thinking mostly jewel colours and perhaps some of the patterns on invites and placeholders etc, but what I would really love is...

ExpensiveGreenDecor4, friday 10-May-19 9 3,398
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Chinese knock offs - any success stories?
SunnyOrangeCakes81714, 25 April, 2019 at 08:09

Good news... I've found the dress of my dreams Bad news... Its from a designers collection years ago and was about £6k when I want to spend £200 max I've found an ebay store making a knock off, I'd...

SunnyOrangeCakes8171, friday 10-May-19 3 789
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What has been your most laughable invite decline, or reason for not committing to attend?
Missus_Mop, 23 April, 2019 at 15:28

Firstly, I'm starting this thread more for amusement, because it seems to me that the best way of coping with some of the wedding planning that doesn't go the way you think, is to be able to just...

Missus_Mop, thursday 2-May-19 18 2,486
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Suits with Bow Ties
SunnyRedDiamonds88570, 30 April, 2019 at 14:12

Looking at the potential of wearing bow ties for all groomsmen at our wedding. Do I need to look for a particular suit to go with a bow tie or can I wear a normal lounge/evening suit? We were hoping...

Wedding Photography, tuesday 30-Apr-19 402
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Looking to hire gold/copper cutlery??
RomanticBlueDecor26568, 4 February, 2018 at 15:42

Hello, I am looking to hire some gold or copper cutlery for our wedding in April. We are getting married in Suffolk. Can anyone recommend a supplier?? I am struggling to find someone and our caterer...

RomanticOrangeFlower, tuesday 30-Apr-19 473
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Wed2b Bridesmaids dresses
MrsTurnerToBe2019, 30 March, 2019 at 14:56

Hello lovely brides to be! I’m new to the forum, getting married 14th September 2019 ☺️ My current task is finding my bridesmaids dresses, I’m looking for light blue/dusty blue colour and I have 5...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, monday 29-Apr-19 4 3,536
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Dad's new girlfriend - what to do?
SunnyIvoryCars84586, 23 April, 2019 at 09:27

Hi, I'm getting married in less than a year and I'm planning all the usual bits (exciting!!) So whilst drawing up my guest list myself and the Mr have hit a snag... Her... My dad's new girlfriend, we...

SunnyIvoryCars84586, wednesday 24-Apr-19 3 686
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Two queries in one day... bad venue review
Sturt2b, 30 October, 2013 at 13:56

Hi there, I wondered if anyone had booked a venue and then read a bad review about it? We've recently found the perfect place, totally fell in love with it and reserved it. I then googled it and read...

SunnyRedBridesmaid92, saturday 20-Apr-19 24 3,649
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Happy Wedding Anniversary Wishes For Wife With Beautiful Images
RomanticGoldCars37799, 19 April, 2019 at 17:40

Happy Wedding Anniversary Wishes My dear, you don’t need to worry about how hard life is, because I will always be by your side to go through it. Happy anniversary, my love. I will never forget the...

RomanticGoldCars3779, friday 19-Apr-19 168
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Anyone else get/getting married with no bridesmaids?
staranise, 14 October, 2012 at 23:37

I never really thought about it until we decided to get married but I don't really have anyone I regard as close friends, not close enough to be a bridesmaid, so I decided that I wasn't going to have...

HappyBlueDiamonds464, thursday 11-Apr-19 21 22,072
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Sweetheart table etiquette?
HollyHavisham, 6 April, 2019 at 20:52

Hi all, My fiance and I have decided to have a sweetheart table just for the two of us at our wedding to avoid awkward situations with my parents (divorced and don't get along well) but I was just...

RomanticBlueHair3675, tuesday 9-Apr-19 1 679
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Confetti
RomanticBlueHair36750, 7 April, 2019 at 09:30

His, Getting married second time both in our early 50s not too sure about things. Do you provide onfetti for the guests to throw. Also we have provided favours, ror is that still old fashioned? Also...

RomanticBlueHair3675, tuesday 9-Apr-19 1 486
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Not the wedding i want
LuxuriousYellowStationery43464, 17 March, 2019 at 03:07

As a wedding and events planner i have done so many over the years and have loved making peoples special days become reality. Im getting married in october its booked for the day before my 40th...

LuxuriousPurpleConfe, monday 8-Apr-19 5 1,195
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Bridesmaid Shrug help
MrsG2B28.7.12, 5 May, 2012 at 17:00

My bridesmaid has this dress and some shoes which are like these https://www.next.co.uk/g373276s7 My bridesmaid would really like something to go round her shoulders but I am really struggling with...

RomanticOrangeDiamon, saturday 6-Apr-19 4 2,493
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Sister ruining wedding
ExpensiveYellowDecor47096, 3 March, 2019 at 17:38

First-time poster. So, this past week of wedding-planning has been particularly tough. The main culprit is my sister, who agreed to help with the planning but has been so absent. Granted, she has a...

Alisha.B, friday 5-Apr-19 7 1,630
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Hairdresser Let Down
LuxuriousPurpleBridesmaid73066, 29 March, 2019 at 18:51

There is nothing anyone here can do but my hairdresser has just let me down 9 weeks before my wedding and now I’m faced with trying to find a new one. To add to the issue it’s ladies day at the races...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, thursday 4-Apr-19 2 702
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Quick wedding on a tiny budget
MrsCoopz-to-be, 15 March, 2019 at 15:06

Can I be done? My filtb has been diagnosed with a terminal illness, and not looking likely that he has a whole lot of time left. I'm thinking we've got this year with him, so ideally looking at...

Alisha.B, thursday 28-Mar-19 4 1,369
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Seating chart for E-shape layout
JT2B2019, 25 March, 2019 at 15:50

Hi We're having our tables in an E-shape during our wedding breakfast, i.e. three long tables branching off the top table. I'm trying to find somewhere I can buy a seating chart to have displayed in...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, tuesday 26-Mar-19 698
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EXCITING TV OPPORTUNITY - TLC Wedding show
SunnyPinkDiamonds85784, 26 March, 2019 at 10:19

EXCITING TV OPPORTUNITY - TLC WANTS TO CAPTURE THE MORNING OF YOUR WEDDING The final hours in the lead up to your wedding will be shared with those closest to you, from make-up and hair to final...

SunnyPinkDiamonds857, tuesday 26-Mar-19 184
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Is anybody going for an 'afternoon tea' style wedding breakfast
Mrs*W*2B, 3 May, 2012 at 16:16

Im trying to work out if an afternoon tea style wedding breakfast will work for day guests and if it will be cheaper... i don't want to not feed people enough but as it's a summer wedding we don't...

LuxuriousGoldBridesm, monday 18-Mar-19 18 52,213
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Eloping need two witnesses April Lancashire
ExpensiveYellowCars58060, 11 March, 2019 at 07:22

HI everyone, So here it goes.. I’ve decided to go ahead with the whole “elope” get married at the registers office without telling anyone. My partner and I had previously planned out wedding last...

Paula @ Ollievision, thursday 14-Mar-19 1 603
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H2B rude Grandma
Kirrhob2B, 10 March, 2019 at 09:51

Myself (25) and H2B (26) have been together 11 years since school and are getting married in August. My OH’s grandma is 80, is probably seen as the family matriarch, she retired from teaching 20 years...

LuxuriousRedStatione, monday 11-Mar-19 301
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Hair/MUA extra charge for assisstant?
SunnyBrownCars82847, 5 March, 2019 at 08:21

Hello! I've just been told by my hair and make up artist (having already paid £500 for a trial for me, my sister and mum, and a £50 deposit), that as there is so many of us having stuff done on the...

Paula @ Ollievision, saturday 9-Mar-19 5 890
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Suits
PinkButterfly, 2 January, 2014 at 13:47

Why is it so hard to find standard simple suits for hire! I really really really dislike wedding suits (thankfully so does my OH) and I'm trying to find something that looks modern and dapper at the...

HappyPurpleHair1339, friday 8-Mar-19 20 3,347

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