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Hairdresser Let Down
LuxuriousPurpleBridesmaid73066, 29 March, 2019 at 18:51

There is nothing anyone here can do but my hairdresser has just let me down 9 weeks before my wedding and now I’m faced with trying to find a new one. To add to the issue it’s ladies day at the races...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, thursday 4-Apr-19 2 704
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Quick wedding on a tiny budget
MrsCoopz-to-be, 15 March, 2019 at 15:06

Can I be done? My filtb has been diagnosed with a terminal illness, and not looking likely that he has a whole lot of time left. I'm thinking we've got this year with him, so ideally looking at...

Alisha.B, thursday 28-Mar-19 4 1,371
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Seating chart for E-shape layout
JT2B2019, 25 March, 2019 at 15:50

Hi We're having our tables in an E-shape during our wedding breakfast, i.e. three long tables branching off the top table. I'm trying to find somewhere I can buy a seating chart to have displayed in...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, tuesday 26-Mar-19 701
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EXCITING TV OPPORTUNITY - TLC Wedding show
SunnyPinkDiamonds85784, 26 March, 2019 at 10:19

EXCITING TV OPPORTUNITY - TLC WANTS TO CAPTURE THE MORNING OF YOUR WEDDING The final hours in the lead up to your wedding will be shared with those closest to you, from make-up and hair to final...

SunnyPinkDiamonds857, tuesday 26-Mar-19 184
Mrs*W*2B
Is anybody going for an 'afternoon tea' style wedding breakfast
Mrs*W*2B, 3 May, 2012 at 16:16

Im trying to work out if an afternoon tea style wedding breakfast will work for day guests and if it will be cheaper... i don't want to not feed people enough but as it's a summer wedding we don't...

LuxuriousGoldBridesm, monday 18-Mar-19 18 52,246
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Eloping need two witnesses April Lancashire
ExpensiveYellowCars58060, 11 March, 2019 at 07:22

HI everyone, So here it goes.. I’ve decided to go ahead with the whole “elope” get married at the registers office without telling anyone. My partner and I had previously planned out wedding last...

Paula @ Ollievision, thursday 14-Mar-19 1 603
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H2B rude Grandma
Kirrhob2B, 10 March, 2019 at 09:51

Myself (25) and H2B (26) have been together 11 years since school and are getting married in August. My OH’s grandma is 80, is probably seen as the family matriarch, she retired from teaching 20 years...

LuxuriousRedStatione, monday 11-Mar-19 301
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Hair/MUA extra charge for assisstant?
SunnyBrownCars82847, 5 March, 2019 at 08:21

Hello! I've just been told by my hair and make up artist (having already paid £500 for a trial for me, my sister and mum, and a £50 deposit), that as there is so many of us having stuff done on the...

Paula @ Ollievision, saturday 9-Mar-19 5 890
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Suits
PinkButterfly, 2 January, 2014 at 13:47

Why is it so hard to find standard simple suits for hire! I really really really dislike wedding suits (thankfully so does my OH) and I'm trying to find something that looks modern and dapper at the...

HappyPurpleHair1339, friday 8-Mar-19 20 3,347
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Elopement package
Sez4345, 3 October, 2015 at 20:57

Hi, We are wanting to elope, just the 2 of us and our 18 month old baby boy. I have struggled to find a selection of venues that offer a package. All I can find is Gretna Green or Cornwall venues. If...

LuxuriousYellowFlowe, sunday 3-Mar-19 4 4,262
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should I cancel dress shopping?
SunnyGreenStationery81220, 26 February, 2019 at 08:55

Hi I'm extremely nervous about trying on wedding dresses at a particular place in London in a few weeks as I'm a size 14-16 and they only have samples up to a 12. I just feel like I won't be able to...

HappyBlueDecor981, friday 1-Mar-19 6 1,018
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Men's suits - hiring and buying
TreacleTart, 1 February, 2015 at 16:29

I know this has been asked before but I'm not sure about the hitched search the forums function, it seemed to throw up pretty old posts, so I'm gonna re-ask, where are you getting your mens suits...

ExpensiveYellowConfe, friday 1-Mar-19 10 7,323
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Bridesmaid let me down - did I do the right thing?
LuxuriousBlueStationery76190, 23 February, 2019 at 01:32

Hi everyone, I’d really like to get some opinions on a drama with one of my bridesmaids... So I have 6 bridesmaids altogether (2 cousins who I was close growing up with and my half sister (who arnt...

LuxuriousRedStatione, monday 25-Feb-19 1 724
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Best wedding website?
, 30 September, 2015 at 14:28

Hi, I've registered for a free website with Wedding Window but I'm not sure it's the best option. What other sites have people used? Just tryign to get ahead and sort something that I can sort...

ExpensivePinkConfett, wednesday 20-Feb-19 12 6,032 1
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11am too early??
abi-94, 9 February, 2019 at 17:36

Our church has just confirmed with us that the only time they have available for our ceremony is 11am, I am so worried that this will be too early! Will these timings work ok? 11am - wedding ceremony...

Nathalie@ButtercupBu, wednesday 13-Feb-19 2 1,038
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Making own invitations - rubber stamps?
Riablo, 15 March, 2013 at 12:47

Hi, I'm looking at making my own invitations, well that's the idea at the moment, but I'm thinking it could easily end up just as expensive as having them made! So I'm looking for any tips on where to...

HappyGoldFlowers1569, friday 8-Feb-19 2 8,251
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Sparklers?
Princess Bride 2013, 19 April, 2015 at 20:52

Just wondering if any of you have or plan on using sparklers on your wedding day?

Wedding Photography, saturday 2-Feb-19 15 2,785 1
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UK hen weekend
ShellG, 3 September, 2016 at 20:32

Hi, Could anyone share their hen weekend plans in the UK? Looking to cater for about 18 but struggling to find somewhere that accepts hens. Newquay would be a preference but open to other suggestions!...

Fairy5, thursday 31-Jan-19 13 2,434
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Where's the best place to buy artificial flowers??
grace85, 16 January, 2011 at 20:33

I was originally going to do my own flowers are we were going to go for a wild flower sort of look but then i started thnking go with the cala lilies like the bouquets but my florist said today that...

LuxuriousIvoryCakes7, monday 28-Jan-19 17 10,901
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Highchairs and age
jesikab4u, 4 June, 2015 at 15:56

Just came to me that we will need to supply high chairs for the little ones. My mum said they would probably bring their own but we are providing transport which won't have the room and I think it...

SunnyBlueConfetti919, tuesday 22-Jan-19 8 2,280
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Gifts for brother of the bride
dolly2010, 28 November, 2009 at 10:01

Hi am new to this so apologies if i get it very wrong!! My brother is giving me away due to family issues and i would like to get him a gift does anyone know if you can get brother of the bride...

LuxuriousPurpleDiamo, thursday 17-Jan-19 5 2,327
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Manor by the Lake or alternate venue?
Inheaven2019, 12 January, 2019 at 22:47

Found what would be the ideal venue Manor by the Lake but felt it was missing the slight WOW factor, as we drove past a supermarket with a building site next door to the turn in. It took me by...

Chris Giles Photogra, tuesday 15-Jan-19 1 612
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12pm ceremony, will guests get bored?
loves-young-dream, 26 May, 2014 at 08:38

We are having a 12pm ceremony and I'm afraid guests will get bored? Any ideas of how to fill some time? We haven't got much money left to spend, maybe some garden games but the garden is quite small,...

SSGSAM2019, saturday 5-Jan-19 13 14,122
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Bridesmaids...how many is too many?
Kylie541, 21 February, 2012 at 21:11

How many are you all having? I'm having 4 but really want a 5th ? is it too many?

LuxuriousBlueStation, thursday 3-Jan-19 49 8,311
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MOB Outfits (trouser suit alternatives to dresses)
Itsthemostwonderfultime2021, 1 January, 2019 at 22:22

Hi everyone, So basically looking for ideas/suppliers or reviews of trouser suit alternatives for mother-of-the-bride. My mum would not be comfortable in a dress of any sort and is very self...

Itsthemostwonderfult, tuesday 1-Jan-19 197
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Dog friendly mini moon in the UK
MrsI2Be, 22 May, 2013 at 22:32

OH and I have now decided (with just over a month to go) that we want to go away on a mini moon the week after the wedding, just us and our lovely border collie! So now am desperately trying to find...

LuxuriousRedHair6266, tuesday 1-Jan-19 13 4,954
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Evening Only (Ceremony at 5pm)
ChristmasJazz1920s, 18 July, 2017 at 16:07

Hi All, We are in the very early stages of planning but have chosen to have our ceremony at 5pm (28th Dec 18) and have an evening only reception in an attempt to keep costs down. We are extremely...

ExpensivePurpleHair3, saturday 29-Dec-18 6 3,177
Chippet
DIY table plan
Chippet, 13 August, 2013 at 17:38

Hi I'm trying to get supplies for our table plan, I already know roughly what we want; map of manhattan with pins of major landmarks which each table with be named after. What I'm struggling with is...

RomanticPurpleDiamon, tuesday 18-Dec-18 10 2,360
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Do you feed the photographer?!
the future mrs h, 24 February, 2009 at 12:43

Hi I'm just doing my table plan, and I hadn't thought about this, but should I be paying for my photographer to eat the meal? And if so, should I include them on the seating plan?! Thanks!

HappyBlueCars582, wednesday 28-Nov-18 16 19,717
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Bridesmaid Drama
SasenachBride, 19 November, 2018 at 20:47

Anyone else had issues with their bridesmaids not quite getting along? I have 4 bridesmaids, 2 are my oldest friends, one is my Godsister as we put it as my mum is her godmother and her mum is mine....

SasenachBride, wednesday 21-Nov-18 5 1,216
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Worried about how he'll look at me in dress
HappyBlueDecor17204, 17 November, 2018 at 22:55

I'm getting married next year and I've gone to about 4 wedding shops now. I can't decide between going for a more fitted wedding dress that hugs my curves and shows off my figure or go for a more a...

SasenachBride, tuesday 20-Nov-18 2 806
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Marquee wedding- street food? Something else?
HappyOrangeBridesmaid846, 5 June, 2017 at 14:17

I'm getting married next year (registry office then a marquee in my parents' garden). We are having 140 guests. I've been thinking about whether to have street food vans rather than a formal meal. The...

ExpensiveGoldHair534, monday 19-Nov-18 5 1,505 1

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