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Gift for Mother of the Bride for a destination wedding
RomanticPinkHair36287, 9 March, 2018 at 12:14

My family is traveling abroad for our upcoming wedding so I don't want to get my mum the traditional bouquet as a thank you as that will be wasted. Any suggestions for possible alternative thank you...

LondonSquirrel, monday 23-Jul-18 3 496
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I am a loser! With no bridesmaids....
tulipbella2018, 30 March, 2018 at 18:49

Hi, just thought I would write a post, I am getting married in a few years and am struggling choosing my bridesmaids, I know I have a while yet but it’s always something you think about. I don’t...

LondonSquirrel, friday 20-Jul-18 21 6,111
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coach hire
madmo247, 24 June, 2010 at 19:01

Hi all, i am new to this site. i was just wondering if anyone was having any problems with coach hire for their wedding. i have been quoted crazy prices. any help is much appreciated. maureen? ...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, tuesday 17-Jul-18 13 2,155
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Dry hire / barn / woodland venues in Kent/Surrey/Gloucestershire
RedHair82, 30 May, 2017 at 09:00

Hi everyone, I know there are some posts on here about dry hire venues but they are fairly old, and the search function hasn't been very helpful, so I am looking for some help! We want something a...

SunnyGreenConfetti96, sunday 15-Jul-18 3 3,066
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artistic motion videography
hallowedding, 5 June, 2014 at 20:02

Has anyone used artistic motion videography? I came across their website, watched a few of their youtube videos and really liked them. I called to speak to them today, turns out they are based in...

staceylnolan@hotmail, sunday 15-Jul-18 36 11,399
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How much cash for wedding?
RomanticIvoryConfetti38894, 3 July, 2018 at 19:46

Hi, It's my besfriend wedding this weekend but I dont know how much money to give. They put a poem in the invitation, asking for money instead of gifts. The thing is I'm a student and I only work part...

HappyBrownDecor18059, friday 6-Jul-18 2 989
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One Bride, Two Sets of Bridesmaids
DanniWoodthorpe, 12 November, 2017 at 15:51

Hi everyone, I am in need of some advice regarding bridesmaids and dress colours but just to give fair warning I'm going to be the bride although technically I'm the groom, if this offends you or...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, friday 6-Jul-18 1 609
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JayneE wedding report from Lapland.
Jayne E, 12 January, 2016 at 19:26

Ok ladies and gentlemen, you've waited patiently long enough (?). I warn you this will be long. It may take me a couple of days to finish and you may not get all the pictures in the right order and...

HappyYellowFlowers13, thursday 5-Jul-18 68 7,615 1
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Bridesmaid dresses - help me!!
SunnyGoldBridesmaid95947, 27 May, 2018 at 10:25

Hi all! I'm getting married in November this year and am really struggling to find the right bridesmaids dresses for my girls. I have 5 bridesmaids and one flower girl and I'd like them all to be in...

Billie06, wednesday 4-Jul-18 1 886
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Hair & Make Up - Extortionate!
infinity2018, 21 November, 2017 at 17:44

Hi everyone! I'm just looking into booking someone to do my hair and make up and I am astounded at the amount people charge. I understand that companies charge extra as soon as you mention the "w"...

Billie06, wednesday 4-Jul-18 3 765
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Venue for Asian Fusion Wedding (Western Ceremony/ Asian Reception)?
AnnJolie, 23 March, 2012 at 11:32

Dear all, me and my h2b would like to have an Asian Fusion Wedding. I would like to have a classic western civil ceremony, then change outfits and continue with an South Asian themed Reception and...

RomanticPinkConfetti, wednesday 4-Jul-18 8 2,189
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Hen Heaven - "hen do specialists"
treacle0811, 4 July, 2012 at 14:26

Hi there, Does anyone have any experience of using Hen Heaven the hen do organising company? I have used then to book by best friends hen do and from the moment they got our booking theyve been awful....

HappyOrangeCars11660, monday 2-Jul-18 7 2,251
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Group shots
Cupcake26, 29 June, 2015 at 12:46

Hi Just started putting my list together - our photographer has recommended no more than 10 of these. Any must have ones you think I should add to my list? xXx

Peter, friday 29-Jun-18 14 2,761
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Changed my mind about the wedding venue!
SunnyGreenCakes99139, 22 June, 2018 at 16:11

Help! I have found a venue that i have fallen in love with, after i have already booked another venue and paid my non-refundable deposit. I was advised at the time of handing over my deposit that it...

LondonSquirrel, thursday 28-Jun-18 890
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Blessing or vow renewal
HappyPurpleDecor19460, 14 June, 2018 at 22:53

Hi there, hope someone can help! We got married at a registry office on 2016 and are having a ‘proper’ wedding day in August so all our friends and family can join us. We’re having it in a hotel and...

Thiebauld_WildRoses, tuesday 19-Jun-18 1 289
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DIY the wedding flowers
Lauriel18, 6 June, 2018 at 11:31

Hi everyone, Calling all DIYers for their tips and ideas ? My fiance and I have started planning our wedding, it's all going pretty well so far (except for our wallets but oh well...). We want a...

Marshmellow, saturday 16-Jun-18 7 1,180
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Wedding Photographer Gone AWOL - 18/08/18
ExpensiveGoldDecor53543, 9 June, 2018 at 20:06

Hi, Our wedding photographer has vanished into thin air and we are now in a panic! Wedding is in Torquay on 18/08/18 Budget is £800-£900

NathalieSB, saturday 16-Jun-18 4 1,120
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Family and Wedding Dress problems...help???
tjNdespair, 14 May, 2018 at 10:10

I never knew how horrible wedding planning was... The first problem and most important for me is my family. My Mom has 7 living brothers and sisters. Of those 7, 1 is for sure coming to my wedding, 1...

LuxuriousGoldCakes77, thursday 14-Jun-18 5 1,224
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Where to even begin?
RomanticGreenCars20432, 31 May, 2018 at 15:02

Afternoon all, my first post here and I'm a total wedding newbie. I've never been a big wedding type girl, never dreamed of my wedding day, find attending other people's weddings a chore and think the...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, sunday 10-Jun-18 3 795
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Comfortable shoes - Too much to ask?!
AJC211, 1 May, 2013 at 20:06

I don't think I'm asking for much. I'm not one of those girls who wears heels regularly, I have big feet & long toes, and collapsing arches, so is this REALLY too much to ask... Where are all the...

HappyBrownDecor18059, monday 4-Jun-18 29 17,953
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Has anyone used Smooch for they're wedding rings?
MrsR2B18, 24 October, 2016 at 13:18

Just wondering if anyone has any experience of Smooch for their wedding rings? I want a wedding ring to fit my shaped engagement ring and I have seen Smooch at a few wedding fairs but have read mixed...

ExpensiveGreenFlower, thursday 31-May-18 7 4,013
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David's Bridal - worth the visit?
Chapples, 14 June, 2016 at 16:03

So at the beginning of July I'm going to a dress shop in London in the morning that has a specific type of dress (a lot of tea length styles), & so to make a bit of a day of it, I've booked an...

ExpensiveGoldBridesm, thursday 31-May-18 11 2,644
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Wedding Website Builders - recommendations please!
Have_you_met_Mrs_Jones2019, 24 May, 2018 at 12:32

Hey, I'm going to be setting up a website where guests can RSVP and get info on everything from directions to accommodation. Ideally I'd like a site that I can customise with pictures and backgrounds,...

Fireworkandfairyligh, wednesday 30-May-18 6 1,193
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Is it rude??
LuxuriousIvoryFlowers889, 1 August, 2017 at 16:40

Is it rude to ask your bridesmaids to pay for their dress? I have 6 bridesmaids and 3 flower girls.. heard some people say It's not rude but other people seem to think it is.. really stressing me...

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Plus size wedding dress retailers
maywedding19, 13 April, 2018 at 16:03

Hi, I’ve just found this lovely website. I’m getting married next May and need to start weddings dress shopping. I’m a plus size bride so feel a bit Apprehensive had a search of the forum but it...

RomanticBlueDiamonds, monday 28-May-18 6 1,314
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Flower girl dress help!
bloodninja, 19 May, 2018 at 07:53

So, after you amazing ladies got some dress shops spot on for the wedding dress, I need some serious help. Wedding is on 6th September and I need to find the flower girl dress. Ideally bristol/Cardiff...

PirateWench, saturday 26-May-18 2 1,006
Charlotte@hitched
Calling all couples who are planning to renew their vows (or already have)... fancy being featured on hitched?
Charlotte@hitched, 3 June, 2016 at 16:47

Hey everyone! Are you and your partner planning to renew your vows? Or perhaps you've already done it? This month I'll be writing a guide to renewing your vows and would love to include stories from...

HappyGoldHair19218, friday 25-May-18 2 20,846
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Outdoor food ideas - help!
AltBride13, 21 April, 2018 at 08:32

Hi! We are getting married in a fairly inaccessible place! The wedding is all outdoors and camping. We don't have access for any kind of portable food van etc. We were going to do a BBQ but then...

Dave@LeFunkWeddingBa, friday 25-May-18 2 885
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Last minute photos
DS-BE, 19 May, 2018 at 07:02

Hi all, We're getting married next Saturday! Little bit stressed now trying to coordinate everything but most things are sorted. We did decide to get a photographer in the end but also want to ensure...

DavidAdamsPhotograph, tuesday 22-May-18 1 869
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3 months to go. Sudden Catholic church fee. Agghh!!!
SunnyBlueDecor836, 17 May, 2018 at 23:19

We've had our date with Catholic church booked since June last year. We were under the impression it was just a donation to the church, as this was the case with others we know who have been married...

SunnyBlueDecor836, monday 21-May-18 5 2,685
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Dress regret - help!
Latesummerbride18, 11 May, 2018 at 09:00

Hello! I need some help and ideas from all you creative types with vision! I purchased the Maggie Sottero dress Greer, but I am now having major concerns that I've made a big mistake. I'm not sure if...

bloodninja, saturday 19-May-18 4 1,413
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Photographer cancelled wedding in 8 weeks!
LuxuriousOrangeHair771, 27 April, 2018 at 06:38

So my photographer (through no fault of her own) has cancelled last minute. I managed to find another through bark. Who said he cad a couple push their wedding back a year and he can do me a £1500...

Dave@LeFunkWeddingBa, thursday 17-May-18 8 1,508

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