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9 days to go which detox / crash diet ?
kellouloud, 4 July, 2013 at 18:30

Hello so with 9 days to go I need a crash diet / detox to get my teeth into :-) any ideas ?? Xx

RomanticRedDecor2544, monday 4-Dec-17 13 2,406
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Alternative to a ring bearer?
ExpensiveOrangeStationery860, 26 November, 2017 at 15:14

Hi, just wondering if anyone has any ideas of alternatives to having a ring bearer? I'm getting married in April to a Chilean, and in his culture they don't do attendants at weddings, so although I'm...

thespectrumband@hotm, thursday 30-Nov-17 2 929
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Public liability and bands
RomanticOrangeDecor30143, 17 November, 2017 at 10:27

Hello, I was wondering if anyone could help. We're just about to book a band for our wedding. The contract for the band says that we are responsible for damage caused by our guests. That seems to be...

thespectrumband@hotm, wednesday 22-Nov-17 2 1,079 1
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I don’t want a wedding and partner really does
LuxuriousYellowFlowers76605, 16 November, 2017 at 17:34

I feel like a fraud on here as we are not officially engaged though have discussed it - I have always been terrified of the prospect of having a wedding - don’t get me wrong I love going to weddings...

RomanticPurpleDecor7, tuesday 21-Nov-17 4 4,683
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Arguing about paying for the wedding, feeling lost
HappyIvoryFlowers732, 12 November, 2017 at 21:52

When we initally became engaged we agreed on a rough budget of £15 000 and my fiance said he would cover £10 000 and I'd cover the rest. I agreed with this thinking that I'd have plenty of time (18...

Caroline88xx, monday 20-Nov-17 8 2,366 1
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Photographer and Videographer needed for Tuscan wedding
SunnyYellowConfetti843, 16 November, 2017 at 13:32

Hi all, I'm hoping you can offer me some advice. I'm really struggling to find a photographer and videographer team that I like... I've managed to find a photographer who's style i adore (and she's in...

Bruce Neville Photog, sunday 19-Nov-17 1 935
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I’ve changed my mind about my wedding dress ?
Sarasgalaxy, 30 October, 2017 at 07:58

Hello, my wedding is in February, I bought my wedding dress end of September and now I’m not sure it’s right for me. the boutique have said it’s too late to change it, I’ve paid half of it already...

RomanticPurpleFlower, thursday 16-Nov-17 1 3,328
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Plea for help with foundation and primers!
Gemini_Bride, 27 July, 2014 at 17:11

I am currently using illemasque and I am just finding it far too cakey, and just doesn't stay on my face. As a result on photos I am looking a mess and don't want to spend the next 2 months looking...

Juliet Cunnington (M, thursday 16-Nov-17 14 2,649
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Dry hire wedding venue
RomanticGreenDecor945, 11 November, 2017 at 23:44

My partner and I are from different cultures (he’s British, I’m not) and I’m having a nightmare finding/deciding on a wedding venue that will fit everything we want and also suit international and...

RomanticGreenDecor94, saturday 11-Nov-17 396
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Wedding ring dilemma!!
RomanticPurpleFlowers963, 9 November, 2017 at 14:11

My engagement ring is not a straight band and I’ve been finding it almost impossible to find a wedding ring which complements it. I have tried a 2.5mm plain band but I don’t like the way it leaves a...

RomanticPurpleFlower, friday 10-Nov-17 1 610
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How much to spend on a hen do?
Lilacbouquet, 8 November, 2017 at 13:21

I have started looking into my hen do, and the big question is how much are people expecting to spend on a hen do? I have not been on a hen do so have no idea what a 'standard' cost is, how much are...

Sorbet, wednesday 8-Nov-17 1 543
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Top Table Stress
RomanticYellowConfetti938, 6 November, 2017 at 16:13

Hi guys I'm busy planning my wedding and will be having 4 bridesmaids (3 of my best friends and my fiance's little cousin who is 11). I don't know how to set up my top table as my partner really wants...

Lilacbouquet, tuesday 7-Nov-17 1 544
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Wedding Breakfast starters???
Fiona1987, 31 October, 2017 at 19:12

So I'm finding it really difficult to choose a starter for our day. We are having a sit down wedding breakfast with the main as roast beef (maybe a bit boring but it's both mine, my partners and lots...

Paula @ Ollievision, monday 6-Nov-17 3 1,671
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Where to get ready on the wedding morning?
Lilacbouquet, 31 October, 2017 at 09:29

I am having a car to take me to the church, even though I only live about 2 minute’s drive from it (one thing I did really want), then the after-do is only about a minute drive so the chauffeur said...

Lilacbouquet, saturday 4-Nov-17 4 1,493
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High Rocks, Tunbridge Wells - feedback?
ExpensiveOrangeCakes980, 1 November, 2017 at 23:49

Hi, We're considering booking High Rocks for our wedding in 2019 but we're a bit worried about the terms and conditions and how strict they are with the suppliers you use. Does anyone have any...

Chris Giles Photogra, saturday 4-Nov-17 1 639
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2BMrsC's VERY flash heavy report!
2BMrsC, 30 May, 2017 at 22:14

Well, we have our official photos back, so here it comes ladies- my flash heavy report on our fantastic wedding on May 13th! I'd strongly suggest grabbing a cuppa or a glass of wine if you're planning...

MetalBride, thursday 2-Nov-17 28 5,658
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Wedding Singer - East Midlands
joanna9dm, 20 October, 2017 at 17:58

Evening all, I am getting married in May 2019 and looking for a wedding singer (solo or duo) to sing when we arrive at our wedding venue (after the church) and during photographs. We are marrying in...

Bands For Hire, thursday 2-Nov-17 2 735
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Registry Office Wedding
RomanticOrangeBridesmaid917, 29 October, 2017 at 00:06

Hi everyone, I’m looking for some reassurance really. I’m due to get married in 3 weeks time, we’re having the ceremony at our local registry office with 30 guests, then a big party afterwards. I am...

MrsWtoB, wednesday 1-Nov-17 4 2,086
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Afternoon tea wedding struggles...
Blondebride27, 26 October, 2017 at 10:11

Hi guys, Having an afternoon tea for my wedding breakfast (4pm) with canapés before, and a hog roast in the evening. Afternoon tea will include warm scones, sandwiches, brownies or shortbread, and a...

Chapples, monday 30-Oct-17 4 2,157
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Yoga Retreat Hen Party in Ibiza!
HappyOrangeFlowers954, 26 October, 2017 at 14:13

Hi, I'm new to the site. Has anyone organised a yoga retreat hen party in Ibiza? There's so many companies out there, so would be great to get any reviews! Thank you so much in advance! Helen xx ...

JessNav, monday 30-Oct-17 345
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Oyster coloured wedding dresses
Gerz807, 29 October, 2017 at 20:38

Hi Has anyone worn an oyster coloured wedding dress? If so what colours did you choose to go with it? Any pictures would be greatly appreciated.. I really need help! Thanks ?

Gerz807, sunday 29-Oct-17 284
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Help! Aubergine or plum Bridesmaid dresses
Coopertobe, 27 October, 2017 at 20:48

Hi all, I'm having a bit of a nightmare on the bridesmaid hunt. My colours are Aubergine or deep plum, I've search literally all over the uk for a certain 'Olivia' dress from house of Fraser with no...

Mrs_Conduct, sunday 29-Oct-17 1 560
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House hire venue - please help!
LuxuriousBrownBridesmaid935, 27 October, 2017 at 16:57

Hi, We've had an idea to hire out a large house / whole venue with accomodation for our wedding either Friday to Sunday or 2 days in the week We will have around 40- 50 people and would like to have...

LuxuriousBrownBrides, friday 27-Oct-17 150
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Informal wedding ideas - having a meltdown!
Toelopeornottoelope, 18 October, 2017 at 21:54

Hey there everyone, We are having a huge conundrum... We'd like a pretty informal wedding, civil ceremony and then a little food but no 3 course meal, no speeches and no couple dance, and focus...

Sorbet, friday 27-Oct-17 7 4,964
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Spanner in the works
SunnyGoldHair679, 24 October, 2017 at 20:22

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SunnyGoldHair679, wednesday 25-Oct-17 3 933
girlaboutbarbs
Getting married in the UK VS Married Abroad??
girlaboutbarbs, 24 February, 2014 at 13:39

This is me and my fiance's dilemma right now! He's keen to get married abroad, but I think it would be more realistic to get married in the UK? Sway us??

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Getting married before friend
ExpensiveRedCars840, 6 May, 2017 at 20:23

I'm hoping I can get some advice. My other half and I have decided to get married next year. We have a date secured. We are currently keeping this on the downlow because my friend is getting married...

ExpensiveRedCars840, tuesday 24-Oct-17 9 3,382
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Ring sizes
venart, 18 February, 2012 at 18:01

Hello ladies, just thought I'd ask a quick question about ring sizes. How loose/tight is your engagement ring? Obviously our fingers swell and shrink depending on the temperature and other factors,...

HappyPurpleDecor979, friday 20-Oct-17 14 2,610
*Linda*
Glasgow Rangers Football
*Linda*, 19 October, 2017 at 18:18

Hi there, I know Ive seen this before but having just done a search I cant seem to find it now......does anyone have the contact details for Glasgow Rangers Football Club as would love to contact them...

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Gifts - Is it okay to ask for money?
Lilacbouquet, 17 October, 2017 at 15:02

Me and my fiancé have been living together for over 4 years (over 5 when we get married) so we are set up for the house, so it seems a shame for people to buy us the traditional house items when we...

Meg101, thursday 19-Oct-17 7 1,585
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Sylen lake llanelli
nikkinash11, 19 October, 2017 at 13:09

Does anyone know how much the hire fee is for sylen lake llanelli please?? Ive messaged the venue alot but havent had a response yet Thank you

nikkinash11, thursday 19-Oct-17 337
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Bridesmaid Troubles
ExpensiveGreenCakes922, 17 October, 2017 at 19:09

Over a year ago my partner and I got engaged and we couldn’t wait to start planning our big day. We booked our venue and asked a selection of the special people in our lives to be part of our bridal...

April2018Bride, thursday 19-Oct-17 3 1,036

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