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Kristina
Viewing wedding venu
Kristina, 11 January, 2024 at 08:57

We have a few appointments booked to view wedding venues . I have a list of things to ask but just wondered if anyone already been through this and left appointments without asking some of not so...

Lisa, monday 15-Jan-24 3 95 1
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Wedding Hair Prices !!!!
FlickStar, 17 August, 2012 at 11:53

OMG !!! This is ridiculous ... I have contacted over 10 hairdressers for an updo for a wedding, average price of around £35 ... however, when I tell them I am the bride, the price shoots up to twice...

Kym, sunday 14-Jan-24 15 52,541
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Wine 🍷
Shay, 14 January, 2024 at 18:45

Happy new year everyone and happy wedding year to all the 2024 brides and grooms! We are starting to buy all of our alcohol in! Anyone who has done this how did you do it? We are Ofcourse offering...

Shay, sunday 14-Jan-24 55 1
Charlotte
The She Allstars
Charlotte, 14 January, 2024 at 15:49

Hi, just wondered if anyone has used and can recommend the soul party band The She Allstars? Run by She Music Global. Thanks in advance

Charlotte, sunday 14-Jan-24 6
Caz
rsvp surnames
Caz, 13 January, 2024 at 12:34

Hi, Trying to set up invites, but the RSVP isn't showing full surnames - just an initial - anyway to correct this?

Caz, saturday 13-Jan-24 27
Kristina
Wedding dress online
Kristina, 7 January, 2024 at 09:42

Hello everyone I have been looking online and have found some amazing wedding dresses. Cheaper and more expensive ones. I am sociably awkward at times and just thinking about trying dresses in the...

Kristina, friday 12-Jan-24 10 545
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Cactus in Centrepiece
Charley Louise, 12 January, 2024 at 12:29

I need some help. I am having real cactus' in my centrepieces. I have brought sand but I don't know how long it will survive in the sand. It will have soil from where it's in the pot when I buy it,...

Charley Louise, friday 12-Jan-24 7
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How long does a venue quote take?
2026Bridetobe, 12 January, 2024 at 09:55

Hi everyone, Went to our first venue open day last Sunday and we had pre booked an appointment with them so that whilst we were there we could talk to someone about our ideas and options etc. They...

2026Bridetobe, friday 12-Jan-24 54
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Essex "dry hire" venues
Miss, 2 January, 2024 at 17:37

Hi, not sure where to start or if there are "busier" websites and forums to look at...! But, I'm looking for budget friendly venues in Essex where we can supply out own caterers and supply some of our...

LemonWedding, thursday 11-Jan-24 41
Danielle
No formal speeches?
Danielle, 17 October, 2023 at 16:48

Deciding whether or not to have formal speeches, most of my wedding party are not confident public speakers and I feel awful to put them under that pressure on the day. Has anyone got any creative...

Danielle, thursday 11-Jan-24 10 628 2
King
Ukbride it's a Scam!
King, 11 January, 2024 at 14:48

I have recently signed up to UKBride and unfortunately I get blitzed with emails from venues asking about my wedding plans. I'm all ready married now and they won't remove my details, has anyone else...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 379
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UK Bride ARRRGGGGHHH!!!
mrs_lewis_2b, 16 February, 2011 at 11:24

I registered on this site a few weeks ago just to enter the competition - I've never used it or been on it since - and now...... i'm getting loads of "offers" in the post from various suppliers!!...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 2 1,575 1
Crantock
How did you find your photographer?
Crantock, 10 November, 2008 at 11:07

I'm in the process of setting up a wedding photography business (I've been part-time for a while now, but looking to step it up a gear from January) and I'm looking at marketing at the moment. I'm...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 23 2,305
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What comes first - booking a venue or registrar?! 😵‍💫
2026Bridetobe, 6 January, 2024 at 11:55

Hi everyone, just after some advice as getting really confused with the whole planning process 😭 My fiancé and I are still in the early planning stage but rapidly feeling out of our depth about...

Zachariahkamryn, thursday 11-Jan-24 2 709 2
Hannah
Band
Hannah, 30 December, 2023 at 16:42

Hi, I am getting married July 2024 in Swansea, does anyone have any recommendations for a band. Thanks Hannah

Dane, monday 8-Jan-24 1 44
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Online Cake Company
Claire, 8 January, 2024 at 16:17

Hi all, can anyone recommend a good online bakery that could make and deliver a very simple naked carrot cake with two tiers to Cornwall? Only 26 people at the wedding and we are not overly fussed...

Claire, monday 8-Jan-24 28 1
Desta
How do i tell my Dad he’s not walking me down the aisle?
Desta, 7 January, 2024 at 10:41

I’ve been engaged since September 2022 and we’re getting married in October this year. I decided a while ago that I’d like my mum to walk me down the aisle. I have an amazing step dad who’s done a lot...

Desta, sunday 7-Jan-24 93
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Can i ask what everyone’s budget is for flowers/decor and your thoughts on faux flowers/combination?
Jade, 4 January, 2024 at 14:50

Hi everyone, I’m getting married in September and just wondered how much I should be spending on flowers/decor? What is reasonable? We have about 100 guests and are open to all layouts/low or high...

Jade, thursday 4-Jan-24 58
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Questions!
Ebony, 3 January, 2024 at 22:47

Hi all, I'm very new with this and have absolutely no idea where to start. We are going to view a possible venue on the 14th, what questions should I be asking? Tia

Ebony, wednesday 3-Jan-24 26
Katherine
Buttonhole politics
Katherine, 21 November, 2023 at 21:25

I have asked my groom to wear a buttonhole to tie him nicely into the wedding party and help it look cohesive My groom has thrown a hissy fit about how much he hates buttonholes, he doesn't get the...

Ravina, wednesday 3-Jan-24 9 614
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Alternative to Weddings
Olivia, 3 January, 2024 at 13:05

I am at a loss for what I want to do to celebrate my marriage. I don’t want anything big. The idea of a party or anything like that I feel like I’m doing for other people, not me. I’d be on edge the...

Olivia, wednesday 3-Jan-24 56
Carianne
When to send save the date cards
Carianne, 2 January, 2024 at 10:00

Hi All, I would love some advice. I am getting married on the 4th July 2026 in Cornwall, we and our wedding guests live mostly in Essex. When would you send your save the date cards? Considering it is...

Carianne, tuesday 2-Jan-24 35
Jennifer
Keeping the big day under wraps
Jennifer, 1 January, 2024 at 18:54

Hi all. I need to sort out the wording for our invites soon. We don’t want our day shared on social media before we get the chance too as we are not able to have everyone we would have liked. Does...

Jennifer, monday 1-Jan-24 19
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Something old, something blue something borrowed
Katrina, 1 January, 2024 at 18:52

Will any of you brides be following this tradition? I just thought about it. Not sure I will be following it. What are your thoughts?

Katrina, monday 1-Jan-24 20
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Indecision on a venue!
Sophie, 1 January, 2024 at 11:07

Hi all, we have viewed a few venues and each has been better than the previous. We were very excited to view one yesterday and then ended up viewing one a couple of days before. We hadn’t thought too...

Sophie, monday 1-Jan-24 17
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Not enough people to invite to the wedding...
Sammy, 30 December, 2023 at 12:46

Hi, this is a bit of a strange one but we don't have enough people to invite to our wedding. Our reception is in a village hall and the coordinator there said we'd need at least 54 people for our...

Sammy, saturday 30-Dec-23 45
Valyria
Dried Flowers
Valyria, 29 December, 2023 at 19:14

Hey everyone! I was wondering if anyone has done dried flowers for their weddings, and if so who you went to for them? I've seen a company called hidden botanics online, but just wanted to see if...

Valyria, friday 29-Dec-23 31
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Wedding venue helppppp
Sarah, 29 December, 2023 at 00:06

Hi everyone, I’m spiraling down a deep hole searching for venues! Our problem is we have family in London, Birmingham, stratford upon Avon. We need a venue with accommodation the night before and...

Sarah, friday 29-Dec-23 31
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9 month countdown!!!
Shay, 14 October, 2023 at 23:08

Hi everyone! We are in the quiet spell of the run up to the wedding! Everything is booked!! Save Save Save! To the point it feels like we aren’t even getting married it’s all so quiet!! Of course I...

Shay, wednesday 27-Dec-23 14 588 2
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Christian centred wedding
Katrina, 27 December, 2023 at 13:11

We want to have a small micro wedding close family only. We want to have our own touches. We went to have a Ceremony and have a lunch/meal after it. We don't want the party and dancing element of a...

Katrina, wednesday 27-Dec-23 174
M and M
Budget venues West midlands
M and M, 26 December, 2023 at 16:32

Any ideas on a venue that won't cost a fortune? We were thinking of lichfield registry office and to save on costs somewhere we could have a buffet and drinks rather than the formal meal. Castle Hotel...

M and M, tuesday 26-Dec-23 42
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Wedding favours
Mrsswain2Beagin, 18 December, 2023 at 11:14

Hi, When doing wedding favours do you do ones for the bride and groom? Or just the guests? TIA

Nani, tuesday 26-Dec-23 1 102

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