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I need a Free / Budget wedding photographer: April 2013 in London
Sarald, 2 October, 2012 at 09:41

Hi everyone.. Can anyone please help us?? We are getting married in April, a very sweet day with just the two of us as we are eloping !! We are staying next to St Pauls so have the cathedral as a back...

LuxuriousGoldFlowers, sunday 21-Jan-18 16 4,544
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Any experience with directional sound system? Is 95db enough?
Theade, 19 January, 2018 at 18:56

Hello, The wedding venue we want has just given us the details of their sound system. Apparently it’s restricted to 95db but he says it’s in the roof of the marquee and points down at the dance floor....

Theade, friday 19-Jan-18 105
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Help! Etiquette re: wedding reception 1 year after rushed wedding due to illness
Little_magpie, 18 January, 2018 at 11:05

Hi I'm looking for suggestions, advice and blunt opinions on how to hold our wedding reception 1 year after the wedding please!! We planned a very small wedding ceremony with immediate family and a...

Sandra-Dee, thursday 18-Jan-18 483
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Venue Help! (Yorkshire and surrounding areas)
Bride2019, 29 December, 2017 at 14:27

First post! Just wondering whether anyone knew of any rustic-type wedding venues (preferably with a barn) available that I may have overlooked? Completely googled out and going around in circles! We...

RomanticBrownHair710, wednesday 17-Jan-18 8 1,087
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Spray tan or sunbed
JessNav, 9 January, 2018 at 16:39

Hi all, Getting hitched end of May and like everyone I want to look my best and have that "just stepped off a plane" glow. With it being May I doubt the Great British weather will allow me to get a...

Paula @ Ollievision, sunday 14-Jan-18 1 979
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My parents are ruining my wedding and the whole experience
LuxuriousIvoryFlowers685, 5 January, 2018 at 15:53

I am getting married in 5 months and it is now where we have to confirm mostly everything to our suppliers. Myself and my husband to be are paying for the wedding with no help from our parents.But my...

Sorbet, saturday 13-Jan-18 3 3,203
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Cheaper wedding venues Hertfordshire
HappyRedCakes777, 4 January, 2018 at 21:31

Hi looking for cheaper wedding venues around Herts if anyone knows heard Hertford Castle was quite good value but wondering about ceremony and reception there food drinks etc thank u

RomanticOrangeStatio, saturday 13-Jan-18 6 1,933
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Are there ANY nice registry offices around here?!
RomanticBlueConfetti879, 9 January, 2018 at 11:21

Hello, For a few reasons we've decided to get married fairly quickly so we're just going to do a registry office and then maybe a meal and at a later date we'll do more of a blessing and wedding when...

spargo17, thursday 11-Jan-18 889
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Flat wedding shoes
LuxuriousPinkDecor833, 5 January, 2018 at 12:30

Whats everyone thoughts on flat wedding shoes? Im 27 and like to think quite a glam girl but shoes are a big hate point of mine. Im 5ft 11 and hate it, If i could get 5 inched chopped off my legs i...

SunnyYellowCakes9820, thursday 11-Jan-18 8 1,498
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Name differs on decree absolute
LuxuriousBrownBridesmaid72569, 10 January, 2018 at 18:00

My H2B changed his name (by one letter!) over 30 years ago, but not by deed poll. All documents (passport, driving licence, bank, council tax, etc.) are in his new name. His Decree Absolute is in his...

LuxuriousBrownBrides, wednesday 10-Jan-18 228
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Wedding dress dry cleaners in London.
qwertystarr, 9 January, 2018 at 20:20

Can anyone recommend a professional dry cleaners that clean wedding dresses? I purchased a dress from a sample sale and I feel it needs to be refreshed. I have come accross treasured posssessions but...

qwertystarr, tuesday 9-Jan-18 642
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Wedding cost breakdown
BanditBrideBandit, 16 December, 2017 at 12:37

Hi lovelies, I wonder if anyone would be so kind to share their costs of the wedding and details of each cost? I'm trying to show my partner how much weddings can cost in the realistic sense, and I...

LuxuriousGoldCakes77, monday 8-Jan-18 10 3,024
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Wedding ring nightmare - truly need advice and other perspectives please
RomanticPurpleFlowers963, 6 January, 2018 at 17:29

Sorry for how long this post is. It feels good to get it all out.... to sum up I don’t know whether to post back a badly made ring with my engagement ring so I can get a refund of about £470 or just...

shanmia35, sunday 7-Jan-18 552
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PA. system for speeches
SunnyBlueHair913, 1 January, 2018 at 15:57

Hi guys looking for help. Me and the OH get married in April and are coming towards the final stages of planning. Just wondering if any of you know of a budget pa system for the speeches or a way for...

Peter, wednesday 3-Jan-18 4 1,231
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Wedding Abroad - Tipping Etiquette
ExpensiveGreenBridesmaid58372, 2 January, 2018 at 22:39

Hi All I'm getting married in Florida, September 18. I was wondering if anyone could give me advice on tipping? I'm trying to complete a budget but have absolutely no idea how much to hand out in...

ExpensiveGreenBrides, tuesday 2-Jan-18 228
BonnieLass
Photographer recommendations in Northern Ireland needed!
BonnieLass, 18 March, 2009 at 14:03

Just starting to look for photographers for the big day & wondered if anyone knew of any good ones. No particular price range, I know alot of togs have a variety of packages etc. TIA! xx

ciara2bemrs, monday 1-Jan-18 10 4,512
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Free wedding stuff for DIY wedding!
LuxuriousBrownCars665, 28 September, 2016 at 15:32

Hi Brides! My wedding day is over now, and I did a lot of the decor myself. It was a rustic hessian/burlap themed wedding and I have quite a bit of stuff leftover. I would love to give it away FREE...

HappyYellowConfetti1, sunday 31-Dec-17 17 4,816
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My friend stole my idea!
ExpensiveRedCars840, 24 October, 2017 at 00:34

Ok so my friend got married earlier this year. She only recently got her photos back and was not happy with them. She booked a different photographer for a reshoot and got some photos back.. I had a...

SpecialEdition1987, saturday 30-Dec-17 5 1,686
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Is it feasible to alter Justin Alexander 8878?
DebbieW, 25 December, 2017 at 07:44

I'm in love with JA 8878 online (https://www.justinalexander.com/en/justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/8878/) and found a good bargain on Ebay. I'm usually UK size 8 but I think the dress I...

MetalBride, thursday 28-Dec-17 578
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searching for a cheap dry hire venue or pretty village hall in Essex - help needed!
wilskiwedding, 12 December, 2017 at 21:05

Hi everyone, I'm new on here and am seeking your help. I have a small budget for our wedding and I'm really struggling to find a venue we like. We either want a pretty village hall or a dry hire venue...

RomanticIvoryDiamond, wednesday 27-Dec-17 617
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Signing the register after the wedding day
SunnyPinkConfetti83540, 27 December, 2017 at 09:42

Has anyone had experience of signing the register a few days following the wedding? We are having a celebrant ceremony in a field and we’ve decided to sign the register in a small ceremony following...

Peter, wednesday 27-Dec-17 1 490
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Inviting people to your hen do not invited to Wedding?
HappyOrangeHair17089, 22 December, 2017 at 00:18

Hello all, So basically I wanted to hear everyone’s thoughts on inviting people to Your hen do that potentially won’t be going to your wedding? Bit of background, H2B and I don’t want a terribly big...

Paula @ Ollievision, wednesday 27-Dec-17 1 707
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RSVP help...
Fireworkandfairylightwedding, 20 December, 2017 at 19:54

Hi all, I don’t want to spend a huge amount on wedding stationary as, let’s face it, it ends up in the bin and we’re on a tight budget. I’d rather spend the money elsewhere, on things that the guests...

Fireworkandfairyligh, saturday 23-Dec-17 1 964
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Final numbers
ExpensiveRedDiamonds820, 15 December, 2017 at 20:36

Hi Girls, Wondering if you could share your thoughts, As you may all know the venue doesnt normally ask for final numbers until about 2-4 weeks before the actual day. But my question is, i am an...

ExpensiveRedDiamonds, thursday 21-Dec-17 1 500
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First dance song
Coopertobe, 26 November, 2017 at 22:04

So excited it's only 2 months until we get married but we haven't decided on a first dance song! For us the lyrics have to mean something and we don't really have a "our song". we have narrowed it...

thespectrumband@hotm, tuesday 19-Dec-17 8 1,750
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Expensive celebrants
SunnyPinkConfetti83540, 12 December, 2017 at 06:52

Hiya I’m newly engaged and very excited.... We’ve set a date for our wedding in June 2019 and we gone for a laid back marquee ceremony, reception and evening do all on our friends farm. We are...

Bruce Neville Photog, sunday 17-Dec-17 3 811
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Fearing wedding planning ; My family dislike him
HappyGreenDecor947, 9 December, 2017 at 21:50

My family dislike my fiance and he in turn dislikes them. Its started since we first dated...my dad said mean comments about him to me calling him jabba the hut because of his size. Then in March this...

HappyGreenDecor947, wednesday 13-Dec-17 5 883
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Long overdue and very long flash Wedding Report! 03-06-17
Mrs_Conduct, 28 October, 2017 at 18:49

Wedding Report Wednesday 31st May I was really nervous, and anxious about everything. We took a lot of our wedding things to Mytton Fold ready for them to set up on the Saturday. I’m so glad we...

Mrs_Conduct, tuesday 12-Dec-17 11 2,246
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Hair & Makeup Advice
RomanticYellowConfetti938, 6 December, 2017 at 16:01

Hi everyone I've been researching hair and makeup artists for the big day and have realised just how expensive they are! I'm having 4 (potentially 5) bridesmaids and the average cost of getting their...

ExpensiveYellowConfe, tuesday 12-Dec-17 7 1,040
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Buffet for wedding breakfast
lisalufc, 2 December, 2017 at 16:27

Hi all. I'd love to hear your opinions of having a buffet for the wedding breakfast. I did think I wanted a proper three course meal for the day guests as they're more formal and 'weddingy' but...

Wedding Photography, friday 8-Dec-17 3 807
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Mother of the Bride outfits
Becklarrr, 18 March, 2013 at 10:39

My Mum has asked me to ask you lovely ladies (& gent) whether her outfit has in anyway got to match the bridesmaid outfit i.e. does it have to have a similar colour in it or can she go with...

HappyGreenConfetti13, thursday 7-Dec-17 13 3,902
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Elopement party - can I wear my dress?
SunnyOrangeCakes94729, 3 December, 2017 at 14:22

Hi there, we are planning to elope without any guests and get married up a hillside in the north of Scotland. All our arrangements have been made and when I picture our wedding day I can't imagine it...

RomanticYellowConfet, wednesday 6-Dec-17 5 1,209

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