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Wootton
Snacks on your wedding day
Wootton, 18 January, 2024 at 19:18

Hello We are on a budget and getting married at 2pm, BBQ at 3:30pm, the catering at the moment is almost £4,000 so we can't stretch our budget for canapes, our wedding venue host mentioned a snack...

RomanticGreenStation, monday 22-Jan-24 2 112
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Venue - King’s Lynn Norfolk
Amy, 21 January, 2024 at 19:18

Hello! We are looking for our venue and have found a couple of potential venues but looking for any help / guidance as seem to be struggling (budget playing a big part!)… we are looking to have our...

Amy, sunday 21-Jan-24 25
Abi
Advice in poole
Abi, 12 January, 2024 at 15:33

Hello all we are newly engaged and looking fir suggestions on how to keep the cost down

Katrina, saturday 20-Jan-24 3 106 1
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East Midlands Venues
Ashlea, 2 January, 2024 at 22:41

Hi all! We're newly engaged and are potentially looking at a fairly quick wedding. I'm wondering if anyone could help with venue suggestions that meet the following: No wedding breakfastNo...

Sonu78mn, friday 19-Jan-24 7 200
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Website - Guests confirming food after rsvp
Claire, 12 January, 2024 at 22:40

Hi all, I'd like to get the website sent to our guests ASAP for the RSVPs but haven't decided on menu choices. Has anyone figures out if there is way of requesting this information from guests via the...

Ivana, wednesday 17-Jan-24 1 111 1
Sarah
Wedding for 8k?
Sarah, 17 January, 2024 at 21:14

So I've seen this package for 4.2k, is it possible to get everything else I'd need for another 4k? Or is that not doable. Thank you

Sarah, wednesday 17-Jan-24 51
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Future mil drama
Sarah, 16 January, 2024 at 16:41

Looking for some advice on how to handle this situation. For reference myself and my partner have been engaged for 8 years, we originally planned to get married in 2017 but with the surprise arrival...

RomanticGreenStation, wednesday 17-Jan-24 2 243
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Late curfew / no curfew
Izzy, 6 January, 2024 at 19:08

Hi , I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas/knew of any venues in which we could dance the night away (not all going home at 11:30pm!) Thanks ! Izzy x

Ivana, wednesday 17-Jan-24 4 238
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Church Wedding - What time?
Zoë, 12 January, 2024 at 09:49

Hello, Just wondering what time people are getting married. We’re in the process of finalising our plans and looking to set a time for the wedding. I was thinking a 12:30pm start for the wedding...

PhotographybyBillHad, tuesday 16-Jan-24 1 135
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Ceremony Only
Rebecca, 13 January, 2024 at 07:54

Hello! Does anyone have any recommendations of venues in the East Midlands, preferably Nottingham, that offer ceremony only other than a registry office? Thank you 😊

PhotographybyBillHad, tuesday 16-Jan-24 1 33
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moh planning to get pregnant
Siobhan, 13 January, 2024 at 21:57

Hi everyone - I need advice! I am bridesmaid for my younger cousin this summer and she will be my MOH for my wedding in 2025. We recently set a date for Sept 2025 and when I told her she said she...

Natasha, tuesday 16-Jan-24 1 59
Orli
Newly engaged and wondering when to start
Orli, 7 January, 2024 at 13:02

We have just got engaged last week, how quickly after you got engaged did you start planning the wedding? I’ve had pinterests boards of the wedding plan for years as most ladies do but I still seem to...

Lisa, monday 15-Jan-24 2 102
Kristina
Viewing wedding venu
Kristina, 11 January, 2024 at 08:57

We have a few appointments booked to view wedding venues . I have a list of things to ask but just wondered if anyone already been through this and left appointments without asking some of not so...

Lisa, monday 15-Jan-24 3 90 1
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Wedding Hair Prices !!!!
FlickStar, 17 August, 2012 at 11:53

OMG !!! This is ridiculous ... I have contacted over 10 hairdressers for an updo for a wedding, average price of around £35 ... however, when I tell them I am the bride, the price shoots up to twice...

Kym, sunday 14-Jan-24 15 52,499
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Wine 🍷
Shay, 14 January, 2024 at 18:45

Happy new year everyone and happy wedding year to all the 2024 brides and grooms! We are starting to buy all of our alcohol in! Anyone who has done this how did you do it? We are Ofcourse offering...

Shay, sunday 14-Jan-24 49 1
Charlotte
The She Allstars
Charlotte, 14 January, 2024 at 15:49

Hi, just wondered if anyone has used and can recommend the soul party band The She Allstars? Run by She Music Global. Thanks in advance

Charlotte, sunday 14-Jan-24 6
Caz
rsvp surnames
Caz, 13 January, 2024 at 12:34

Hi, Trying to set up invites, but the RSVP isn't showing full surnames - just an initial - anyway to correct this?

Caz, saturday 13-Jan-24 26
Kristina
Wedding dress online
Kristina, 7 January, 2024 at 09:42

Hello everyone I have been looking online and have found some amazing wedding dresses. Cheaper and more expensive ones. I am sociably awkward at times and just thinking about trying dresses in the...

Kristina, friday 12-Jan-24 10 533
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Cactus in Centrepiece
Charley Louise, 12 January, 2024 at 12:29

I need some help. I am having real cactus' in my centrepieces. I have brought sand but I don't know how long it will survive in the sand. It will have soil from where it's in the pot when I buy it,...

Charley Louise, friday 12-Jan-24 6
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How long does a venue quote take?
2026Bridetobe, 12 January, 2024 at 09:55

Hi everyone, Went to our first venue open day last Sunday and we had pre booked an appointment with them so that whilst we were there we could talk to someone about our ideas and options etc. They...

2026Bridetobe, friday 12-Jan-24 48
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Essex "dry hire" venues
Miss, 2 January, 2024 at 17:37

Hi, not sure where to start or if there are "busier" websites and forums to look at...! But, I'm looking for budget friendly venues in Essex where we can supply out own caterers and supply some of our...

LemonWedding, thursday 11-Jan-24 40
Danielle
No formal speeches?
Danielle, 17 October, 2023 at 16:48

Deciding whether or not to have formal speeches, most of my wedding party are not confident public speakers and I feel awful to put them under that pressure on the day. Has anyone got any creative...

Danielle, thursday 11-Jan-24 10 610 2
King
Ukbride it's a Scam!
King, 11 January, 2024 at 14:48

I have recently signed up to UKBride and unfortunately I get blitzed with emails from venues asking about my wedding plans. I'm all ready married now and they won't remove my details, has anyone else...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 358
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UK Bride ARRRGGGGHHH!!!
mrs_lewis_2b, 16 February, 2011 at 11:24

I registered on this site a few weeks ago just to enter the competition - I've never used it or been on it since - and now...... i'm getting loads of "offers" in the post from various suppliers!!...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 2 1,574 1
Crantock
How did you find your photographer?
Crantock, 10 November, 2008 at 11:07

I'm in the process of setting up a wedding photography business (I've been part-time for a while now, but looking to step it up a gear from January) and I'm looking at marketing at the moment. I'm...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 23 2,305
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What comes first - booking a venue or registrar?! 😵‍💫
2026Bridetobe, 6 January, 2024 at 11:55

Hi everyone, just after some advice as getting really confused with the whole planning process 😭 My fiancé and I are still in the early planning stage but rapidly feeling out of our depth about...

Zachariahkamryn, thursday 11-Jan-24 2 696 2
Hannah
Band
Hannah, 30 December, 2023 at 16:42

Hi, I am getting married July 2024 in Swansea, does anyone have any recommendations for a band. Thanks Hannah

Dane, monday 8-Jan-24 1 40
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Online Cake Company
Claire, 8 January, 2024 at 16:17

Hi all, can anyone recommend a good online bakery that could make and deliver a very simple naked carrot cake with two tiers to Cornwall? Only 26 people at the wedding and we are not overly fussed...

Claire, monday 8-Jan-24 24 1
Desta
How do i tell my Dad he’s not walking me down the aisle?
Desta, 7 January, 2024 at 10:41

I’ve been engaged since September 2022 and we’re getting married in October this year. I decided a while ago that I’d like my mum to walk me down the aisle. I have an amazing step dad who’s done a lot...

Desta, sunday 7-Jan-24 91
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Can i ask what everyone’s budget is for flowers/decor and your thoughts on faux flowers/combination?
Jade, 4 January, 2024 at 14:50

Hi everyone, I’m getting married in September and just wondered how much I should be spending on flowers/decor? What is reasonable? We have about 100 guests and are open to all layouts/low or high...

Jade, thursday 4-Jan-24 56
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Questions!
Ebony, 3 January, 2024 at 22:47

Hi all, I'm very new with this and have absolutely no idea where to start. We are going to view a possible venue on the 14th, what questions should I be asking? Tia

Ebony, wednesday 3-Jan-24 26
Katherine
Buttonhole politics
Katherine, 21 November, 2023 at 21:25

I have asked my groom to wear a buttonhole to tie him nicely into the wedding party and help it look cohesive My groom has thrown a hissy fit about how much he hates buttonholes, he doesn't get the...

Ravina, wednesday 3-Jan-24 9 612

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