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Anyone had a wedding dress that wasn't white/ivory?
HappyBlueDecor849, 10 July, 2017 at 16:17

Hi! Currently just browsing online for ideas of dresses. I've seen a beautiful mink coloured lace dress with open back - in my opinion it's stunning. Has anyone else gone for a non-traditional dress?...

SunnyBlueDecor836, thursday 20-Jul-17 4 801
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Hair and Makeup Airbrush - Sussex
FutureMrsT123, 20 July, 2017 at 09:37

Hi all, This might be a bit specific, but does anyone have any recommendations for hair and makeup artists in West Sussex that use Airbrush? I've found one I love but would be good to look around a...

GeorgieBea89, thursday 20-Jul-17 2 669
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Reassurance - lack of bridesmaids and hen do
SomethingBlue11, 7 July, 2017 at 23:00

Keep having to justify why I don't have bridesmaids, people are shocked every time! I don't have sisters, or female cousins, and the truth is as I moved away for uni and never went back to my hometown...

RomanticRedFlowers88, wednesday 19-Jul-17 13 9,265 1
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Wedding venue contract - template
Copperheart, 17 July, 2017 at 14:28

Hello, I have a wedding venue but no contract. I'm aware that if anything falls through I'd have needed to have a formal contract in place in order for my insurance policy to be valid. All being well...

HappyBrownConfetti84, wednesday 19-Jul-17 1 1,625
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wedding evening invites - plus one
HappyGreenDecor711, 18 July, 2017 at 15:03

Hi, I have all my wedding invitations ready to go but the way they're worded it doesn't let you write anywhere plus one. I could have written them on the envelopes but i got labels printed with the...

HappyBrownConfetti84, tuesday 18-Jul-17 788
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Bridesmaids - should you choose sisters or friends?
Travellingbride2b, 14 July, 2017 at 20:05

I am sure this is a topic that has been overly discussed in this fourm, but what do you do about choosing bridesmaids. Bascially I have 4 sisters, who I love dearly. I am not close to all of them...

HappyBlueCars582, sunday 16-Jul-17 4 4,075
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Involving the mother of the groom in planning
SurreyBridetoBe, 10 July, 2017 at 10:02

Hi, Just a quick one.. it's come to light that my FMIL is annoyed that she's not involved in wedding planning, and is feeling left out. Truthfully, I'm super organised and have really loved organising...

Bacchant, wednesday 12-Jul-17 3 1,028
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Bridesmaid trouble!
TenerifeSea123, 21 June, 2017 at 08:01

Hello, i was was wondering whether anyone else is having bridesmaid issues. I picked my bridesmaids quite early and I definitely regret it. One that I picked has been one of my best friends for the...

HappyBlueCars582, sunday 9-Jul-17 13 2,749
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Make Up and Hair Timings
Blondie_bride, 7 July, 2017 at 17:17

Hi all, There has been a lot of posts about timings of the day which has caused me to have a mini stress. There is myself and 5 bridesmaids having hair and make up done on the day. My ceremony is at...

GeorgieBea89, sunday 9-Jul-17 2 1,290
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Planning a small wedding
RomanticPurpleConfetti835, 2 July, 2017 at 21:38

Hi! Just got engaged last week and looking at venues is frying my brain. I am talking to my friends and they have spent £16/£20k to get married which we can no way afford. We are only planning a small...

Paula @ Ollievision, friday 7-Jul-17 3 1,384
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What are your timings for your wedding day?
SomethingBlue11, 1 July, 2017 at 22:37

Hi guys! Our wedding will be a church ceremony followed by country pub reception, and as we aren't allowed to arrive at the pub until 5.3 (they are doing lunch service then decorating, then it's...

GeorgieBea89, friday 7-Jul-17 7 1,592
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Recommendations for drinks reception entertainment
GeorgieBea89, 3 July, 2017 at 06:50

Hey all, I'm struggling to find acoustic entertainment that I like for my drinks / canapes reception. Everyone I find online is quite cringy and old fashioned. I'm after someone young, cool and fresh...

GeorgieBea89, thursday 6-Jul-17 5 1,245
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Wedding dress wobbles!
BlossomKatie1993, 25 June, 2017 at 09:59

Hi all, so on Friday I went wedding dress shopping and ended up buying the dress of my dreams. I knew it was the one because I smiled so much, I got teary and this sounds silly but the name of the...

BlossomKatie1993, wednesday 5-Jul-17 14 2,360
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End of May - too early for an outdoors wedding?
SunnyYellowConfetti672, 18 May, 2017 at 21:31

Hi all, I was wondering if I could get some advise/opinions on whether the end of May is too early for an outdoors wedding? My dream venue which we have pencilled in for 31st May next year (a...

RedHair82, wednesday 5-Jul-17 8 1,566
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Downsizing and moving our wedding forward...........Help
itsawaitinggame, 30 June, 2017 at 10:24

So my FI and I booked our wedding for next Oct, at first I was happy and now it seems to have gotten to the point where I am dreading getting married. So my thought process is: Can we move the wedding...

RomanticBrownCakes68, saturday 1-Jul-17 3 701
MahCallsMeFred
small budget venue (/wedding) in south Essex, Help!
MahCallsMeFred, 16 June, 2017 at 13:33

Hi, I know there was another post that was about low cost venues in Essex but the suggestions on there didn't all help. We are looking at Rooms in the Rodings but am still unsure if we can afford it....

HappyBlueCakes878, friday 30-Jun-17 3 1,247
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Wedding budget help!
DanaN, 25 June, 2017 at 08:15

Hello, I'm a newbie! We just got engaged last week, and we're already looking to plan our wedding for 2018. The trouble is, I have absolutely no idea how to manage our budget. We have a very strict...

GeorgieBea89, friday 30-Jun-17 5 1,040
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Which shops sell mini mason jars?
MrsPtoB, 24 June, 2017 at 19:00

I live on a small island so there's very little shopping options here and postage from mainland UK can get a bit crazy. We will be in Aberdeenshire in July and I'm wondering if anyone can give me some...

JoAndRob2018, thursday 29-Jun-17 5 957
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Anna Campbell Dresses!!!!!!
thedawnbringer, 23 January, 2014 at 01:36

OMG I just literally stopped in my tracks. I am in LOVE with a dress by the designer Anna Campbell. I managed to track down a UK stockist but it seems they only do the Ivory collection and the dress I...

HappyOrangeFlowers63, tuesday 27-Jun-17 16 28,664
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Who's paying for the wedding?
SunnyGoldHair813, 7 June, 2017 at 09:41

Hi all, Finally writing a post after months of lurking, reading through everyone elses threads! I’m getting married in a month and extremely excited. This forum has helped me loads with questions I’ve...

Scottish_Sarah, monday 26-Jun-17 36 4,114
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Hotel wedding venue - anyone else considering/booked one?
HappyPinkCakes845, 21 June, 2017 at 19:01

We're thinking of getting married in a hotel due to guests needing places to stay and budget. Is anyone else thinking about a hotel venue, and if so, do you have any concerns about this choice of...

BlossomKatie1993, sunday 25-Jun-17 3 693
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Caterer - Can you haggle?
FutureMrsT123, 22 June, 2017 at 10:01

Hi all, were due to meet our caterers for the first time on Sunday, and this is where a large chunk of the budget is going as our venue insists on using their own in house caterers. I just wondered...

FutureMrsT123, friday 23-Jun-17 5 2,143
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Any hidden or unusual costs?
Lilacbouquet, 14 June, 2017 at 13:13

I am having (yet again) money panics and would like to know if anyone has found any hidden costs or something you don't think about? Such as do we need to tip suppliers in the UK? Thank you letters...

laurafish, friday 23-Jun-17 15 3,191
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Hair and makeup
ExpensiveGoldDecor821, 5 June, 2017 at 16:08

Does anyone know of any good but reasonably priced, companies or people that do hair and makeup in London? Ones that travel would be good to know as well. Thanks in advance.

SunnyYellowDiamonds8, friday 23-Jun-17 2 803
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London venues lower than £13k, including booze?
ExpensiveGreenBridesmaid839, 21 June, 2017 at 10:58

Does anyone have any ideas for London venues that will cost less than £13k for the venue, catering and wine? I have received quotes from 20 venues, and I feel like they have colluded to all price...

ExpensiveGreenBrides, thursday 22-Jun-17 5 3,159
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Veil length - can't decide!
FutureMrsT123, 11 June, 2017 at 20:47

Hi all, I ordered my dress last week, it's a lace fit and flare by Enzoani. When I first went into the shop and found it I tried a fingertip veil, which I loved (I knew I wanted a veil - makes me feel...

Lilacbouquet, monday 19-Jun-17 9 1,957
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I feel like I'm over budget on everything :(
Meg101, 15 June, 2017 at 13:43

Hello, I'm trying to stick to a budget of 15k but everything is so much more than I thought. I originally had a budget of 10k but when the cheapest venue that we liked I could find was half that I had...

Lilacbouquet, monday 19-Jun-17 8 1,640
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Mother of bride / groom -doesn't like dresses
HappyBrownConfetti849, 13 June, 2017 at 22:33

So both the MOB and MOG don't particularly want to wear dresses on the big day, aaannd 90% of the outfits advertised involve a skirt of some sort. We have a tight budget and I'm struggling for decent...

PadBin, wednesday 14-Jun-17 1 1,941
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Distance to wedding. Hire a coach?
HappyOrangeBridesmaid844, 2 June, 2017 at 15:14

Hey My fiance and me are looking to get married in a few years and are looking at a venue in Somerset. We live in south west London as do most of our family and friends. Somerset to where we are is...

Happily_married_mrsM, wednesday 14-Jun-17 3 865
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Negotiating on prices with vendors - is it common?
TheOverlyOrganizedBride, 12 June, 2017 at 12:05

Hi all! For some, this question may sound silly, but please bear in mind that I come from a culture where negotiation is mandatory or you end up being played! We are planning on throwing a tipi...

SunnyGoldFlowers824, tuesday 13-Jun-17 8 1,532
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Order of Service help
missbiscuits, 31 May, 2017 at 10:12

Hi everyone. I cant believe I only have 24 days left to go!! It's coming around so quickly. I'm in a bit of a panic at the moment, as I've realised I haven't started our orders of service yet!!! And...

missbiscuits, tuesday 13-Jun-17 3 1,368
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Bridesmaid dress web page
Adc, 11 June, 2017 at 23:13

Hi..I have been looking at 3 bridemaid dresses on a page called Mix Bridal..it is advertised on Facebook.. The dresses look ideal for what I want.. I ordered some swatches which arrived in really good...

HappyBrownConfetti84, monday 12-Jun-17 798

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