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'Best Man' is proving to be a bit useless
Mrs-Riley, 17 June, 2016 at 09:22

I'm so frustrated with my H2B's best man ☹️ Bit of background - me & H2B don't really have many friends and if anything we just have our work friends, who we haven't known that long. We're both...

1987RAF, saturday 18-Jun-16 9 3,686
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Venues for humanist wedding in Manchster
HappyIvoryDiamonds568, 17 June, 2016 at 10:37

Morning all! Finance and I are looking to get married next year. Does anyone know of any non-wedding wedding venues in Manchester/Cheshire? We're trying to keep the costs down as much as possible....

Catlady28, friday 17-Jun-16 648
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Struggling with venue?!!
Ker2018, 9 March, 2016 at 20:36

Hi!! Ok so we started the hunt for a venue for our 2018 wedding - I don't know about anyone else but I am struggling to find venues I like enough online to go and look at! We went and saw Gaynes Park...

CantwaittobeMrsDavie, friday 17-Jun-16 41 7,976
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My Dress is going Rusty before the wedding, PLEASE HELP
LuxuriousPinkDecor608, 15 June, 2016 at 16:15

hi Ladies, I have a brand 'new' DREAM wedding dress in which I have collected last month from the shop. My wedding was going to be in 2 weeks but we had to postpone it to September. I've noticed that...

Ash953, friday 17-Jun-16 5 1,519
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Crochet Wedding Bouquet
Womanonabudget, 14 June, 2016 at 14:02

Hi all I have seen a lovely crocheted wedding bouquet on Pinterest and I thought it would be ideal for my bridesmaids and it would save some much needed cash. I have just finished a crochet blanket...

Womanonabudget, thursday 16-Jun-16 6 2,676
TrixieSaurus
Hair and make up trial was a disaster
TrixieSaurus, 11 June, 2016 at 12:40

As above... Wedding is in 10 weeks and I went for my trial yesterday. After 3 hours my hair has dropped and my makeup looks awful. Don't understand how the woman has raving reviews all over the place...

LuxuriousPinkDecor60, wednesday 15-Jun-16 9 2,265
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Help! Torn between 2 venues!
LuxuriousRedCars610, 14 June, 2016 at 13:59

Hi, I am so stuck right now between Birtsmorton Court near Worcester and Ardington House near Oxford. Let me list my pros and cons for each and hopefully I can get some opinions on here! Birtsmorton...

LuxuriousRedCars610, wednesday 15-Jun-16 7 1,576
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"Bake off" style dessert table - caterers not keen
Eat drink dance love, 13 June, 2016 at 17:41

Hi all, We're getting married in Surrey next year and really want to do a "bake off" style dessert table and get about 10 friends to bring cakes which everyone can judge/award prizes to. The venue...

DewiCloughWeddingPho, wednesday 15-Jun-16 9 1,724
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Wedding dress worries
KJHLee, 13 June, 2016 at 13:24

Hey, I only bought my dress yesterday and I'm already not sure on it. I went to an off the peg shop, the only shop I've been to dress shopping, but visited a number of times. The first dress I tried...

Ash953, tuesday 14-Jun-16 9 6,548
TrixieSaurus
Silly question maybe - contracts + MUAs?
TrixieSaurus, 10 June, 2016 at 15:41

Hi All, Just wondering - do you have a contract with your makeup artists? I'm going for my trial this afternoon (leaving in about 30 mins eek!). I've paid a £40 deposit, with a further £25 to pay...

TrixieSaurus, monday 13-Jun-16 7 1,245
Stephisaur
Just for fun - how long did it take for you to get your dress?
Stephisaur, 8 June, 2016 at 09:45

Hi Ladies (sorry gents, I don't think this is one you'll care for!) I just thought I'd start a topic on how long it took for your dress to come in once you ordered it. I know that when I first got...

Stephisaur, monday 13-Jun-16 35 3,243
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Tipi wedding - FIRST POST :D
Jaxcat86, 10 June, 2016 at 03:23

Hello all! First post - hurrah! I've only recently gotten engaged, so we've only just started to think about all the different millions of avenues we can go down. One is - hiring a tipi. If we do, I...

Chapples, monday 13-Jun-16 12 2,813
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Beatles!
anjenla, 12 May, 2013 at 18:49

Hi All! I've planning a very British wedding- afternoon tea, bunting, etc etc. And we reeeaaaalllly want a Beatles tribute band. Any idea how much one would cost? (Wedding's in Dorest in May next...

ExpensiveGoldCakes59, monday 13-Jun-16 9 2,880
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Justin Alexander dress alterations? Helpppp!
Much_ado_about_weddings, 12 June, 2016 at 15:13

Hi everyone! I bought a beautiful Justin Alexander dress in a second hand shop a while ago. I just tried it on again and, while I do really like the dress, it doesn't fit quite right. I have (I...

Ash953, monday 13-Jun-16 6 1,701
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How to tell a bridesmaid she isn't maid of honour...help!
SunnyRedCakes594, 11 June, 2016 at 08:31

I'm in serious need of some advice on how to break the news to one of my bridesmaids that she isn't who I've chosen for my maid of honour. She's quite sensitive and has got it in to her head that she...

2BMrsC, sunday 12-Jun-16 8 3,592
Bobbys_Girl
No matron/maid of honour?
Bobbys_Girl, 9 June, 2016 at 23:15

I have six bridesmaids, including my elder sister, she has naturally fallen into the place of MOH (not much planning done yet so not actually specified this) but I don't want her to be MOH. Has anyone...

Bobbys_Girl, saturday 11-Jun-16 9 1,301
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Bridal shoes - how much to spend?!
cantwaittobemrsb, 8 June, 2016 at 10:05

Hi I've been looking for the right pair of bridal shoes and have spotted two lovely pairs, one half the price of the other but I cannot seem to find the least expensive ones in my size or colour! I...

o0o_Charlie_o0o, friday 10-Jun-16 22 5,720
NorthernLights
Lets all do a ring *FLASH*!!
NorthernLights, 24 May, 2016 at 14:52

Hey Guys, So, I got an Idea Inspired by OneHartOrTwo's Engagement Ring flash post (which was only like 30 mins ago) Why don't all us lovely Wifeyyys-to-be give our engagement rings a flash! Not...

Vixy1987, friday 10-Jun-16 30 5,514
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10 person discrete wedding
HappyBlueStationery581, 7 June, 2016 at 21:14

Hi all, I am hoping to draw on your wedding knowledge to help me put together a small discrete wedding for me and my fiancée Emma. We are looking to have a very small/ discrete wedding somewhere...

2BMrsC, thursday 9-Jun-16 1 890
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Custom wedding ring arrived and it's all wrong...
Annaangeluk2016, 6 June, 2016 at 21:39

I ordered a custom fitted wedding ring from a company in America as my beautiful engagement ring is a bit of an awkward shape! It's very flat to my finger so all standard wedding bands weren't...

MetalBride, wednesday 8-Jun-16 6 2,547
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HELP!! Bridesmaids dress Edinburgh
ali-hamm, 8 June, 2016 at 13:12

Hi there, we are looking for dresses for our bridesmaids and don't really know where to start. I was wondering if anyone can recommend some shops to try in Edinburgh/Glasgow. We are on a budget so...

RhonaH, wednesday 8-Jun-16 2 592
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cream/ivory 4x6 card for table plan
hotcookie, 7 June, 2016 at 21:47

I'm tired, and my brain can't google-please help! I have bought a multi-photo frame to display table plan on-it's for 4x6 photos, and we are going to print out the table lists and put them in there....

hotcookie, wednesday 8-Jun-16 9 1,275
kizzi10000
Dress alterations - time needed?
kizzi10000, 6 June, 2016 at 22:55

So, having bought my dress (shop sample) a year ago I had 3 st to shift to be where I wanted to be and be able to get in it properly. Fast forward a year, and I still don't have much less than 3 st to...

kizzi10000, tuesday 7-Jun-16 6 7,254
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OMs - Post Wedding Blues
HappyBlueConfetti257, 6 June, 2016 at 13:24

Hi Everyone, First of all, I don't think us newlyweds should be called OMs...or Old Married, I'm not old haha! Or is that not what it stands for? Secondly, Does anyone have any advice for those who...

Ash953, tuesday 7-Jun-16 2 905
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Hair extensions
Much_ado_about_weddings, 2 June, 2016 at 06:46

Hi all, I booked my hair/makeup yesterday! this was causing me a bit of a headache as there's not much choice where I'm getting married (it's remote-ish; well, to a Londoner it is anyway!) and I was...

Karen84, monday 6-Jun-16 7 2,259
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food vans
Stephie81, 23 May, 2016 at 09:24

Hi all, My fiance and I are getting married next May. We are having a DIY wedding and so rather than a sit-down meal, want to get a fish 'n' chip or burger van. Has anyone done this? What kind of...

NathalieSB, friday 3-Jun-16 7 2,088
JayneysGettingMarried
Anyone ordered from thedaintyard on etsy?
JayneysGettingMarried, 6 May, 2016 at 14:14

So I'm looking at ordering my bm dresses from this seller, she has awesome reviews. I'm waiting on colour swatches to be delivered. However, how much will the customs charges be? Will it just be...

SpreadsheetsRUs, friday 3-Jun-16 24 4,008
Karen84
Father-Daughter dance?
Karen84, 27 May, 2016 at 09:16

This hadn't even come on to my radar but I was at a wedding last weekend where they did one, and then the next day my dad dropped a hint that he would like to do one (he hadn't been at the wedding, so...

AnthonyWinyardEntert, friday 3-Jun-16 10 1,959
soraneko
Pre-Wedding Shoot *Flash*
soraneko, 1 June, 2016 at 21:49

So we finally got out pre-wedding shoot photos! I love them, it's made me feel even better about our TOG (who we love anyway!) If anyone can tell that I'm not wearing my engagement ring, it's because...

jayannfernandez, friday 3-Jun-16 5 1,511
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matching bridesmaids and flower girls
ElmoPoppySukiCat, 2 June, 2016 at 09:05

Hi, I'm planning on having my sister, sister-in-law to be and best friend as bridesmaids, and 3 younger family members as flower girls. My bridesmaids are all different shapes and sizes and the flower...

SunnyPinkConfetti310, thursday 2-Jun-16 535
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Bridesmaid dress- shop messed up measurements?!
ExpensiveOrangeStationery250, 1 June, 2016 at 17:46

We have 8 weeks until the wedding, picked up our bridesmaid dresses at the weekend, and the dress shop have measured one of my sisters completely wrong! They measured her 3 inches short (she's 14 and...

Mrs-Riley, thursday 2-Jun-16 3 1,032
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Early Ceremony... Time fillers?
SunnyPinkStationery608, 31 May, 2016 at 11:54

Hey Ladies, This is my first post, so be nice We recently booked our perfect venue in the month we wanted, couldn't be happier. Called to book the registrar and they can only do a ceremony at either...

SunnyPinkStationery6, thursday 2-Jun-16 14 2,825

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