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Jeffrey
Jeffrey

Londonderry, Co Londonderry · From July 2025

Happily married 🎉

5 February, 2020

2268days 1hours

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Laura
Digital Invites yes or no?
Laura, 27 September, 2023 at 15:27

Digital Invitations, yes or no? I feel they are more sustainable, easier to send as I don't know half the addresses and linkable to the wedding website for RSVP?

Jeffrey, thursday 26-Feb-26 11 2
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rsvp Cards
Lauren, 2 August, 2023 at 15:31

Are RSVP cards really worth the money spending? Do guest actually respond to them ? Or is it a risk you have to take?

Jeffrey, wednesday 28-Jan-26 10 1
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Run out of money ...!
MayDay, 18 July, 2008 at 17:02

[:'(] Having just paid an £800 deposit for my dress and over £300 for the registrar, I have officially run out of money for the time being and am feeling very upset I can't go and buy more things this...

Jeffrey, tuesday 27-Jan-26 17
Sara
Toxic friendship
Sara, 13 May, 2024 at 00:23

Evening so I’m getting married in 14 days, and I haven’t spoken to this friend for a month, I’ve known this friend for 35 years we been to the same schools, collage, we had the same friends, Ive been...

Tnsusu, sunday 19-Apr-26 31 1
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Wedding Venue - Refund!!
ExpensiveYellowConfetti904, 20 July, 2017 at 17:00

Hi all! I was wondering if anyone has any advice. My wedding venue appeared to be all I wanted during their sales pitch, however since paying the deposit I was sent a contract that did not hold all of...

Jeffrey, sunday 25-Jan-26 4
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Issue with wedding photographer
fionachey, 9 April, 2015 at 22:56

We got married nearly 7 months ago, but we haven't seen any of our images. We have paid in full, and have been sending emails regularly. We get all kinds of excuses and now she's completely ignoring...

Jeffrey, sunday 25-Jan-26 33
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looking for help & advice as unhappy with 'bespoke wedding dress'
ExpensiveOrangeCakes16, 15 July, 2014 at 19:07

Hello, hoping someone can help me! In january i was pushed into getting a 'bespoke' wedding dress by a local boutique, promised that it would be a wonderful dress, tailor-made & anywhere else it...

Jeffrey, saturday 24-Jan-26 10
Hannah
How Much Would You Pay For a Hen Do?
Hannah, 10 March, 2022 at 09:57

Good morning everyone! It's Hannah here- The Community Manager for Hitched.co.uk We are currently gathering feedback from our users and want to hear from you! Today's topic is all about HEN DO'S Our...

Jennifer, friday 10-Apr-26 9
lauren700
How far in advance can you buy the sweets?
lauren700, 25 January, 2011 at 14:34

Hi all, We are having a sweetie buffet and I was wondering - when can I start buying the sweets to spread the cost without them going off!

Jeffrey, friday 23-Jan-26 19
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money saving tips on drinks needed
Princess Bride 2013, 9 March, 2015 at 14:08

Hi, Anyone have any advice on how to keep our alcohol bill down to a minimum? We have to purchase all alcohol through our venue and to be honest the prices are extortionate! We need welcome drinks,...

Jeffrey, thursday 22-Jan-26 16
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So upset :-(
Baker16, 20 May, 2014 at 10:55

Ok so we got married 5 weeks ago yesterday and we're not happy with husbands wedding ring. We feel we've been totally mis-sold it from independent shop in Bluewater, Kent. They told us palladium was...

Morgan, saturday 14-Feb-26 16
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Money/Vouchers instead of Gift list
Rosco, 7 June, 2009 at 12:26

Hi, We aren't having a gift list, as we are not kitting out a new home and we wouldn't have anywhere to put things. We have decided to just go for Money/Vouchers, then we can use it on what we like....

John, monday 6-Apr-26 20
Victoria
Are Hitched vendors Legit? And Vetted by Hitched?
Victoria, 20 August, 2024 at 14:33

Are the vendors at Hitched vetted by the platform? I really like a vendor I found on Hitched but it has no online presence and no reviews. How can I know it is legit and not a scam?

Jennifer, monday 16-Feb-26 20
Gurzle
On the receving end of an invite with a money poem...
Gurzle, 7 July, 2011 at 19:01

So I have always thought that these poems were okay, and I guess I sort of don't really care one way or the other BUT today, I got an evening invite with a money poem attached! I actually thought that...

Jeffrey, thursday 25-Sep-25 75
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Wedding Gift/Money
S and S Wedding , 9 December, 2015 at 18:28

Hi All I am looking for any thoughts or ideas on gift list. We are hoping to have an extension in the next 18 months so could write a list of things for our new bedroom. Downside to this is we will...

Morgan, sunday 25-Jan-26 14
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Videographer taken deposit - now no contact!
RomanticBlueCars190, 13 April, 2016 at 11:50

Last June we booked a videographer based on a recommendation (for our wedding in May this year) and asked the vendor for a booking form. This was sent back to us and deposit paid as per normal. We had...

Jeffrey, thursday 25-Sep-25 5
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Wedding gift - money
HappyBrownCakes385, 15 August, 2015 at 13:30

Many of our guests are asking if we will have a gift registry or gift list, we haven't yet sent out the invitations and don't want to offend our guests but rather then gifts, for those who insist on...

Kuai, monday 1-Dec-25 18
Vickydrip
Wording for gifts/money
Vickydrip, 8 December, 2011 at 18:43

HI All I am getting married in July and am currently making our wedding invitations but I am having some trouble with some wording. Like most couples, me and the grom to be have our own house and...

John, monday 6-Apr-26 57
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Money from guests for honeymoon
markandkatieswedding, 25 November, 2012 at 18:42

Has anyone else asked guests to contribute towards their honeymoon. How did you do it and did you get enough? We would like to ask guests, but are worried about booking a honeymoon in case we don't...

Jeffrey, sunday 14-Sep-25 16 1
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Help! Fiance freaking out over money
Dotty Pants, 6 October, 2011 at 21:20

Hi ladies I'm new to the whole wedding planning experience. We are getting married on 28th April 2012 we've got loads of ideas and I am keen to book things ASAP as only 7 months away. However my...

Markus, monday 5-Jan-26 22
jjsmum
Money/holiday as wedding gift...
jjsmum, 21 March, 2011 at 13:09

I really hate to do it cos I always like to buy someone a present for their wedding but we are planning on asking for cash to fund our honeymoon (2 nights away on our own then 1 week away with our 2...

Jeffrey, friday 12-Sep-25 19
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Money gifts acceptable in Scotland? How do you ask? How much on average?
RomanticBrownDiamonds829, 9 May, 2017 at 00:40

Hello ladies, This question might be strange, I hope not. My fiancé is Scottish and he tells me there it's not customary for family or guests to give money gifts at weddings. In Spain, weddings cost...

Петр, friday 19-Sep-25 11
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Pale Bridesmaids!
anna89, 7 April, 2012 at 21:52

Hi, I'm have a medium/tanned skin tone, but both of my bridesmaids are very pale - what colour dress would you recommend? Thinking of either navy or a pale green colour - not a huge fan of...

Riki22, thursday 26-Feb-26 25
overtherainbow
Speeches at late afternoon weddings
overtherainbow, 3 March, 2011 at 13:33

Our daughter is marrying at 3pm and is running straight through into the 'evening' do rather than having a separate session as such and they want to have the speeches before the meal rather than...

Jennifer, sunday 25-Jan-26 13
samidolls
Printed.com
samidolls, 1 December, 2014 at 22:50

We are designing our own invites as H2B works in graphic design it seems silly not to! We have been looking for somewhere to have our designs printed, and I finally found printed.com that seems to do...

Alice, wednesday 14-Jan-26 14
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Pass the Parcel
amy00003, 27 July, 2011 at 19:46

Im bored and have been googleing. Ive seen a website selling a 'pass the parcel" game to be put on each of the tables at the reception as a way for the guests to get to know each other, and I'm quite...

Voocccie, monday 8-Dec-25 6
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Can it all be done on 10k?
RomanticGreenHair738, 10 February, 2017 at 10:18

Hi all, this is my first post on here (probably first of many!) We are looking to get married in June next year. We was going to wait a few more years but my partners dad died of cancer in 2014 and...

Exaucee, sunday 7-Sep-25 11
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So...when couples ask for money towards their honeymoon fund how much do you give?!
Wife In Training, 10 June, 2014 at 19:35

Hi there! I know there is probably no specific answer to this question but my friend is getting married in a few weeks time and has asked for contributions towards her honeymoon fund. How much do I...

Andriy, saturday 14-Feb-26 27
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Anyone know any good family party games?
pinkcat31, 30 December, 2008 at 18:52

We're having a small gathering tomorow night, just five adults, 11 year old and a 14 year old and we need some really daft games to play! The sillier the better please cos we need lots of giggles as...

William, friday 17-Apr-26 48
Giulia
Wedding vendor trying to charge more money than agreed
Giulia, 3 January, 2025 at 12:00

Hello all, In a bit of a pickle at the moment: I’m getting married in Italy but have done my invites here in the UK as I thought the process would be a lot easier. I had found a vendor, contacted her...

Nytwordlehints, saturday 28-Mar-26 20
Jessica
Elegant centre piece
Jessica, 1 May, 2025 at 09:01

Hi, I am looking for ideas for an elegant centre piece, we are having a small vow renweal so want something I can use for the ceremony and the breakfast. Xx

John, tuesday 6-Jan-26 7
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Any tips on how to make a wedding run smoothly
Allessa, 7 July, 2025 at 20:05

Me and my partner are getting married next year, we are 22 and 23 years old. If anyone has any tips or advice, or even suggestions I would love to hear!

CarmenCHunt, thursday 12-Mar-26 11

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