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Grubman

Ash, Kent · From August 2025

Happily married 🎉

29 January, 2020

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Harriet
Bridesmaids dresses
Harriet, 6 July, 2024 at 15:18

Hi, I’ve been really stuck between 2 ideas for my bridesmaids’ dresses. I either want them to all wear different style dresses that are the same colour (I’m thinking yellow) or the same dress style...

Sunita, yesterday at 14:54 40
K
Veil or no veil
Katie, 13 February, 2024 at 21:40

I get married on Sunday, I've always been adamant I don't want a veil but everyone keeps saying I'll regret not wearing one. I feel like my dress is very detailed at the back so don't want to cover it...

JuYi, wednesday 24-Jun-26 13
Sian
Photo Albums
Sian, 16 April, 2025 at 18:42

Just a quick one! We're currently about to book our photographer, between two of the offered packages. They're £600 different and the only change is a physical print album. Has anyone else decided...

Yu Zhang, wednesday 24-Jun-26 51
Aimee
Bridesmaids
Aimee, 20 February, 2025 at 17:03

Hi, Me and my partner are getting married in May next year and we are stuck on bridesmaid costs. Does anyone have advice on who pays for dresses/hair/makeup? Thanks,Aimee

Kyeh, wednesday 10-Jun-26 33 1
A
Help with photography styles and what to do when you've booked a photographer and regret it
Amy, 29 May, 2025 at 15:05

Hi! I think I panic-booked a photographer for our 2027 wedding, paid a £1200 deposit and now I've found another photographer whose style I think I prefer (the new person I've found is a bit more...

Grubman, sunday 24-May-26 12
Amber
qr code invites-rsvp
Amber, 7 April, 2025 at 19:44

Hi all, can anyone recommend a website that prints invites & has a QR code that guests can log their rsvp, dietary and accessibility requirements?

Brucebann01, monday 8-Jun-26 50 3
M
Wedding dress cleaning
Mrs-H-to-be, 7 September, 2024 at 19:57

Hi All. I'm desperately looking for some help please? I had stored my wedding dress at my Mum's since my wedding in 2015. Unfortunately, I lost my mum 2 years ago and it has come back to me. I thought...

Juhi, thursday 25-Jun-26 15 1
Louise
Wedding reading help needed.
Louise, 12 July, 2024 at 14:33

Hi! I’m really struggling to find a nice reading for the wedding that has a deeper meaning, is about love and might have the odd funny line in. Have any of you found the perfect reading that sounds...

Ho Manh, tuesday 2-Jun-26 26
Cora
What would be the ideal start time for a ceremony within a venue?
Cora, 25 September, 2025 at 12:27

We are having our ceremony in the venue and was curious when you should have the start time? and if anyone else has done this previously would you advise staying at the location the night before?

Loca, tuesday 23-Jun-26 41
Georgia
Hen Party Ideas
Georgia, 21 April, 2025 at 17:18

Hi, I’m looking for some ideas on hen parties! I’ll be 27, I love dancing, clubbing and drinking. But I went to a night club for my 21st and it was just full of youngsters I felt out of place. I also...

Jay, thursday 11-Jun-26 58
N
Wedding dress sleeves or cape
Natalie, 20 April, 2025 at 22:27

I really need some help, I have my dress which I love but it's strapless and I want to add a detachable sleeve or cape to hide my arms a little. Any ideas of what would work?

Jiangliu, saturday 23-May-26 37
Jessica
Evening Wedding Dress??
Jessica, 3 April, 2025 at 10:13

Hi All, At the moment I am thinking of having 2 dresses as this would be ideal as we are wanting to do a dance routine. However, my main dress for the big day is a little restricted and would not...

CatchallLuxe, friday 5-Jun-26 87 4
Charlotte
Azazie Bridesmaid Dress Experiences??
Charlotte, 20 October, 2025 at 20:34

Hey Everyone, I have been looking at Azazies Black Satin Stretch bridesmaid dresses and wondered if anyone has experience with this shop? its always scary ordering online and i have a variety of...

Der, thursday 18-Jun-26 52
T Godwin
Proper Etiquette
T Godwin, 14 May, 2025 at 00:41

We are hosting our daughter’s welcome reception for all our out of town guests after the rehearsal dinner. Since we’re having this get together which includes drinks and hors d’oeuvres, is it still...

Mohan, thursday 16-Apr-26 16
Eleanor
Unusual Dress
Eleanor, 5 October, 2025 at 16:06

I want something unique and eye-catching and colourful seems to be the way to go. I tried on a gorgeous floral dress at the Wedding Dhow this last weekend but I've only found one shop in...

Castle, yesterday at 08:25 179 5
Mannasah
Plans
Mannasah, 19 November, 2025 at 23:06

Let’s do this

Ken, wednesday 10-Jun-26 18
H
Hen do ideas in Birmingham
Hannah, 29 January, 2025 at 16:21

Hello, I’m just popping a message on to ask if anyone knows if any ideas to do for my hen do? I’m thinking of having in the city of Birmingham but I don’t know where to start looking for ideas as...

Bumper, sunday 31-May-26 15
Honey
Colourful wedding dresses 💐🌺🌸
Honey, 17 March, 2025 at 13:44

Hi! I am starting to browse wedding dresses, and I am looking for floral, colourful designs. Does anyone have any recommendations on where to look?

Tonyma, tuesday 16-Jun-26 153 2
Allison
Wedding shoes that won’t cripple me?!
Allison, 30 October, 2024 at 19:56

Hi everyone! I’d love to know where you all brought your wedding shoes from… I brought these beauties from Dune (with 75% off!) which I absolutely LOVED, but they were too high and uncomfortable so I...

Rekaz, yesterday at 09:12 20
C
How do i change the design of my wedding website?
Clare, 11 July, 2024 at 11:21

I picked a design thinking I could change the colour scheme of the flowers but I can't, and now I can't see a way to change the design or start from scratch at all, can anyone help?

bsli, wednesday 17-Jun-26 149
Emma
Wedding Dress Shopping in London for Curvy/plus-size that doesnt require a mortgage
Emma, 5 June, 2025 at 15:32

Hi all, I am wondering if I can get any recommendations for plus size / curvy wedding dresses in London that I can actually go to and try on that won't break the bank. My budget is £500-£650 and...

Retro, monday 13-Apr-26 29 3
C
ER white gold and scratched
clevercroc, 4 May, 2015 at 21:31

Hi all, last week my boyfriend proposed to me me with the ring we chose together. It's a blue topaz with diamonds in a 9ct white gold band. I've only worn it a week and today I noticed the underside...

Docvriezen, sunday 24-May-26 25
Daniella
Confetti
Daniella, 27 October, 2024 at 13:57

Hiya, We've been told by our venue that we can have dried lavender flowers for confetti if we are having our ceremony outside. We do hope to have our ceremony outside (weather permitting) but I'm not...

Sheen, sunday 21-Jun-26 86
Louise
Alternative to flowers
Louise, 9 August, 2025 at 22:50

Hi, Is anyone considering having really minimal flowers/no flowers at all? If so, what are you using for walking down the aisle, button holes, and decoration instead?

Kartik, saturday 18-Apr-26 38 2

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