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Rima
Hitched Panel & £50 Voucher for You! 💜
Rima, 5 May, 2026 at 09:23

We’re looking for couples currently planning their wedding to take part in a short, friendly online panel taking place this week 💜 We’d love to hear about your experience planning your wedding, how...

JerrySmith, thursday 22-Oct-26 69 1,106 11
kharding2014
Awkward moment in Primark
kharding2014, 15 March, 2014 at 13:14

So I went into Primark this morning to browse and ended up buying a ton of flip flops for my flip flop basket. I got to the checkout and the guy asked me why I was buying flip flops. I told him for my...

Jack, an hour ago 18 3,843
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Table plan and VW camper ideas
excited bride2015, 17 March, 2015 at 13:20

Hi I am having a wedding with a slight VW camper van theme running through the reception. Not too much but am using it for table names, favours , cake and would like the table plan to have it too....

Hazel, an hour ago 44 2,065
Guestlistissues
Sister stated no children at her wedding. Am i wrong for kicking off?
Guestlistissues, 8 August, 2025 at 22:33

My sister is due to get married next year and we have recently received our save the date. My OH messaged her to indicate we, along with our two children would be in attendance but was advised at that...

Hindi, an hour ago 45 743 1
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Buffet for wedding breakfast
lisalufc, 2 December, 2017 at 16:27

Hi all. I'd love to hear your opinions of having a buffet for the wedding breakfast. I did think I wanted a proper three course meal for the day guests as they're more formal and 'weddingy' but...

Jack, an hour ago 30 1,166
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Photographer - how many hours/pics?
FutureMrsT123, 18 May, 2017 at 08:55

Hi all, My partner and I are getting married next summer and are starting to look around for photographers. We've found one that we love, the style really seems to suit us, so he's definitely our...

Talha, an hour ago 11 1,406
Tracey86
Water Beads/Aqua Beads Question
Tracey86, 1 July, 2012 at 07:33

These are my centrepieces (this one was just a practise) The purple stuff in the base of the vase is those aqua/water bead thingy's, we're making the centrepieces ourselves and wondered if anybody...

Cars, an hour ago 11 10,279
hannioli
Cake size question
hannioli, 18 July, 2011 at 21:27

I've been getting quotes for cakes and have realised that I don't know what size we want/need... One lady has quoted on a 12" fruit, 10" chocolate and 8" sponge cake. Am I right in thinking that the...

Garedol, 2 hours ago 8 1,977
*Ducky*
Foam or silk flowers?
*Ducky*, 30 January, 2012 at 14:14

Hi Ladies, I have decided on a cream/ivory tulip bouquet for myself, and a smaller version for my BMs. Can you recommend which looks better, foam or silk flowers? I will send for a sample when I have...

Jack, 2 hours ago 31 4,175
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Street food
Kelly, 29 July, 2023 at 16:07

Hi, we are looking at having street food vans for our food at the reception. Does anyone have experience of this, like what works/doesn’t? Do I need more than one van? Do I need ‘inside’ food as well?...

Practice, 3 hours ago 40 442
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reply slips/wedding food choices wording help wanted!
beckyakabetty, 13 September, 2008 at 14:48

I have a menu for the reception and need to tell guests the choices of food available also want to incorporate music requests, reply slip (eg if they are coming or not). Has anyone got any examples...

Project, 3 hours ago 47 3,617
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Wheelchair accessible venue
Christiane, 23 August, 2009 at 19:45

I'm new to this forum and I'm searching for a nice and wheelchair accessible wedding venue in Kent or SE London, which seems like a mission for me. I'm the bride and a wheelchair user. Also other...

Jack, 4 hours ago 31 2,849
Annie
Accessibility for venue
Annie, 22 October, 2025 at 13:18

Hi I have my venue booked in the south west for 2027 given family health my mum will be in a wheelchair, it's not the most accessible venue mainly the outside being stones and there is a ramp but it...

Sophia, 4 hours ago 22 198
rubyfirecracker
HELP - Vinyl Record Label Template
rubyfirecracker, 9 November, 2012 at 19:09

I am looking for a template in word or publisher to make our own custom 7" single record labels (poss table centres). Any ideas?

OwenPrescott, 4 hours ago 15 10,199
MrsLtobe
'Daisy' wedding dress?
MrsLtobe, 30 May, 2011 at 19:18

Hey all My wedding theme is 'Daisies' and I'm looking for a dress with some daisy details.. but I think I'm looking for the impossible... closest I found was Alan Hannah's 'Anais' but they're not...

Jack, 5 hours ago 30 9,822
Kolawole
How do i validate my guest on event day?
Kolawole, 5 May, 2025 at 11:57

How do i validate my guest on event day?

Harper, 5 hours ago 8 81
Kirsty
Cars
Kirsty, 14 February, 2025 at 20:10

Can someone please tell me why wedding cars are massively expensive?! I am happy to pay a high price if I was needing the cars for going to and from destinations but I literally need them to go from a...

Harry, 6 hours ago 22 181
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Buttonhole Politics...!
Jennie228, 20 December, 2012 at 14:25

Hi All, Been looking on here for a while, so thought its about time I get involved! Here's my dilemma... I want buttonholes/corsages to be worn by the wedding party only, to distinguish who they are....

Jack, 6 hours ago 30 19,529
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order of service font
narie, 4 September, 2011 at 18:19

Hi - am now drafting the order of service to show the reverend on Tuesday... what would you say is the best font to use for the words for the hymns in the order of service? Need to be big and clear...

Thomes, 9 hours ago 37 11,744
Mrs_Rolfe_2b
Cost of wedding flowers?
Mrs_Rolfe_2b, 15 April, 2011 at 14:18

I am trying to do my budget, and i have no idea how much flowers cost! I know its a broad question and i know it will vary according to location (im in west midlands) flower type etc. I'm having small...

Harenok, 10 hours ago 28 171,122
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wedding cake
Lou37, 1 November, 2016 at 12:11

Hi I just dont know what to do about the wedding cake! Never really thought it was a biggy in terms of other things for the wedding. I would like chocolate sponge as hate fruit cake but H2B says if...

Superdia, 10 hours ago 17 1,745 1
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Light hearted readings for ceremony
rach_S_, 1 June, 2014 at 19:35

Hi There, I want to find a reading that I can read to my H2B during the ceremony, I would like it to be light hearted, any ideas? thank you Rachel

Voocccie, 12 hours ago 11 3,410
Mrsjones2024
Getting ready timings on the day
Mrsjones2024, 30 July, 2016 at 22:36

Hi all, My hairdresser has a friend's wedding on the same day as my wedding. She has just contacted me to ask what time I am thinking of having my hair and make up done so that she can plan her day....

Voocccie, 12 hours ago 11 2,389 1
Victoria
Alternatives to walking down the aisle
Victoria, 1 October, 2023 at 12:02

Afternoon all! My girlfriend and I are getting married next December and we’re struggling with the walking down the aisle part. Neither of us have parents around to perform this and besides, neither...

Voocccie, 12 hours ago 15 906 2
xoxoxo2017
Is upsizing a dress by 1 (maybe 2) sizes possible if you have the exact same fabric?
xoxoxo2017, 15 July, 2014 at 15:15

So following on recent dilemmas and another post just now….. I have ordered 1 extra dress in error. I am wondering if I should keep this dress in case a dress needs upsizing more than the hem will...

Voocccie, 12 hours ago 7 1,527
Nessa_EssexBride
Ceremony TIMING?? 12 PM OR 1 PM??
Nessa_EssexBride, 15 January, 2015 at 14:01

Hello everyone, So I'm a bit behind with my wedding planning. I need major help over these next few days. I'm sure I’ll be asking for loads of advice like crazy(sorry). We've just moved into our new...

Voocccie, 12 hours ago 15 3,004
Stacie
Venue pricing
Stacie, 10 September, 2024 at 13:50

Hiya We're just over 1 month away from our wedding day and have sent over the final numbers to our venue, however they haven't really reduced our original quote by much. Our estimated numbers were 90...

John, yesterday at 22:23 5 168 1
Nenas
Lottery ticket favours
Nenas, 12 October, 2011 at 20:13

We're planning to get lottery tickets for everyone's favours. We had these at one of our friend's weddings last year and liked the idea. we didn't win anything but it was fun none the less! Anyway,...

SwatchSeries, yesterday at 21:34 60 13,879
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Tiny Wedding Ideas?
Katy, 20 February, 2026 at 13:38

So my partner and I aren't wanting a traditional or big wedding, in fact with us included our entire guest list is a total of 12 people (plus maybe a few friends in the evening potentially, no more...

Suzannastylejournal, yesterday at 20:00 70 801 6
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Venue deposit
ExpensiveIvoryDecor809, 11 September, 2017 at 01:39

I've fallen in love with a wedding venue where we would be for the ceremony, wedding breakfast and reception. It's quite a grand venue and the overall cost comes to just over £10,000. We don't have a...

Julia, yesterday at 15:03 8 9,362
GeordieBarbie
Bride & Bridesmaid Iron on Transfers...?
GeordieBarbie, 1 December, 2009 at 20:34

Anyone bought any or used them? I found these on ebay - what do you think? They're £3 each and around 19cm x 9.cm. Was thinking of getting them for us to wear on the day of the wedding (will get a...

James, yesterday at 15:01 11 6,695
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When to send out Invitations...?
Sapphirebride, 5 May, 2016 at 11:40

I'm in a bit of a dilemma as of when to send out the wedding invites to our day and evening guests. I get married on 17th March 2017 and our venue want the final numbers 6 weeks before, so 3rd Feb.......

Julia, yesterday at 15:00 13 2,293

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