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All inclusive drinks or not?
HappyPinkStationery692, 27 December, 2016 at 20:50

We have the option of booking all inclusive drinks from the end of our ceremony to the end of the meal. It's £22 per adult and half per child, it included fizz for the toasts, red, white & rose...

ExpensiveYellowStati, friday 6-Jan-17 5 1,661
disneyfanatic95
Mother of the bride/stepmother of the bride
disneyfanatic95, 6 January, 2017 at 01:24

So my parents are split up and my father remarried and is now separated from my stepmother but she has been in my life since I was 7 years old. I still see her as my mother/stepmother. now her and my...

Mrs_Conduct, friday 6-Jan-17 1 1,344
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PP John Lewis Gift List Inserts
Mrs_Conduct, 4 January, 2017 at 22:03

So seeing as how we are getting married in 5 months (EEK!!) I thought I best get a wriggle on with the invites. I've sent more ideas to the person making them, but thought I should start my part....

Chapples, thursday 5-Jan-17 4 789
MrsScott2be2018
Bridesmaid Dresses from Ebay/China
MrsScott2be2018, 1 January, 2017 at 23:19

Hello, I have quite a few bridesmaids and not a huge budget. Has anyone got their bridesmaids dresses from Ebay/ China and had a success? I want to have good quality dresses for my ladies. Thanks for...

MrsScott2be2018, thursday 5-Jan-17 5 3,400
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The perfect barn venue
LuxuriousIvoryHair610, 2 January, 2017 at 18:13

Hi All, I got engaged in September 2016 and have been searching for the perfect venue since, but struggling to find somewhere that ticks all the boxes. I would be really grateful for any...

Chapples, wednesday 4-Jan-17 6 1,423
BellaxXx
Change of mind on booked wedding venue.... god help me
BellaxXx, 30 December, 2016 at 23:56

Evening, please tell me I'm not the only one who has gone through this??? I am getting married September 2017, and while sorting through the guest list once again i am now sitting here thinking is...

MrsW2017, sunday 1-Jan-17 4 1,566
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Evening food stuck for ideas
HappyPinkStationery692, 27 December, 2016 at 19:57

I really need some inspiration for evening food at our wedding. For the day we are having afternoon tea, so I really want to have something hot for the evening. Your ideas will be greatly appreciated!...

OneHartOrTwo, saturday 31-Dec-16 6 1,777
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Wedding venue for just the 2 of us in Cornwall ??
RomanticRedCars739, 29 December, 2016 at 22:39

Hiya, I'm looking for a venue in Cornwall that we can get married at, spend a few nights, a small intimate affair as it will just be the two of us ! Dont want to spend loads as be just us but I'm...

Paula @ Ollievision, friday 30-Dec-16 397
disneyfanatic95
Wedding gift list
disneyfanatic95, 9 December, 2016 at 16:51

Hey, im in the process of starting my wedding gift list as invites will be sent out soon and figured these will need to be put on there. i came across this website called marriagegiftlist and was not...

DreamsComeTrue2015, wednesday 21-Dec-16 12 2,532
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Help! Venues that allow own catering - Birmingham
RomanticGoldConfetti701, 20 December, 2016 at 11:04

We have decided that we want to have our own catering for our wedding reception but are struggling to find venues which allow own food/alcohol in Birmingham! Trying to keep it all as cheap as...

Anna Zofka Photograp, tuesday 20-Dec-16 1 1,346
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Why do people have pre-wedding shoots?
sophiesofa, 2 March, 2014 at 12:51

Genuine question. Why do people choose to have a pre-wedding shoot? I genuinely don't know what they are for - is it a practice in being in front of a camera or do you just like photos of yourselves...

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Has anyone else found out they are pregnant shortly before their wedding?
, 19 December, 2016 at 21:10

So, my fiancé and I found out yesterday that we are expecting ? We get married in 96 days so I'll be about 17 weeks at the wedding. Has anyone else been in this situation? I think I'll be fine with my...

DreamsComeTrue2015, tuesday 20-Dec-16 4 1,148
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Food for the evening party
lucyjo, 16 December, 2016 at 13:44

Has anybody had bacon rolls for their evening food? That's our plan at the moment, but I'm worrying that they won't be enough to fill up the evening guests. The day guests will have just had a big...

Mrs_Conduct, tuesday 20-Dec-16 9 1,776
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Wedding Planning Thread 03/06/2017
Mrs_Conduct, 25 June, 2016 at 18:01

I've read lots of these and couldn't resist doing my own, hope you enjoy and feel free to share ideas Just a little bit about me and the OH. We met through a friend and started 'going steady' (the...

Mrs_Conduct, thursday 15-Dec-16 6 3,343
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Father Daughter Dance Advice Needed
katie_1818, 14 December, 2016 at 07:35

Hi everyone can you tell me your thoughts on the father daughter dance please? When do you usually do it? Is it before or after the first dance? Our first dance is quite a fast song and we want...

thespectrumband@hotm, thursday 15-Dec-16 5 2,111
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Essex Barn Wedding Venues
SunnyBlueConfetti755, 15 November, 2016 at 14:01

Hi everyone, Please bear with me as I'm very newly engaged (November 2016) and am just starting out with my Wedding Planning, eeeekkkk! Ideally we'd like to hire a barn in Essex where we can do...

ExpensiveGoldConfett, thursday 8-Dec-16 10 1,550
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Bridesmaid due around wedding date
RomanticBrownCars693, 2 December, 2016 at 12:31

Hello everyone, I am looking for some advice. My bridesmaid has just told me she is pregnant and by the calculations she will be due around the wedding date. I don't know what to do as I already have...

DreamsComeTrue2015, tuesday 6-Dec-16 5 4,012
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Foam flowers or real flowers - discuss...
Nic78, 5 December, 2012 at 22:12

I am about to order my wedding flowers which are red foam roses, I have always planned on having artificial flowers as we live in the Midlands but are getting married in Ilfracombe and so just wanted...

LuxuriousBrownDiamon, tuesday 6-Dec-16 11 8,759
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Sound limiter at venue (Northbrook Park)
MayBohoBride, 30 November, 2016 at 12:22

Hello! I am newly engaged and this is my first post We are hunting for venues at the moment and keep finding places which unfortunately have a 'sound limiter' for music in the evening. One of our...

Bands For Hire, monday 5-Dec-16 3 2,811
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Need a veil for a beaded dress
MrsTtobe22717, 23 November, 2016 at 16:20

I'm getting married in this gorgeous dress - https://www.justinalexanderbridal.com/wedding_dresses/8799 and I'm so excited!! Only problem is, I've got my heart set on a cathedral or chapel length veil...

Lilacbouquet, monday 5-Dec-16 3 1,092
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Dress Shopping in Newcastle upon Tyne
LisBee, 26 September, 2012 at 21:27

Hi could anyone recommend good bridal shops in Newcastle please? We have a very tight budget so looking for bargains! Thanks. ?

BrideintheToon, saturday 3-Dec-16 19 8,284
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Struggling to afford - advice needed!
HappyRedStationery700, 28 November, 2016 at 16:57

So this is my first post here, and I really need some advice! We had originally planned our wedding for May 2016, but due to health issues and time off work after the surgery I needed, we ended up...

HappyRedStationery70, friday 2-Dec-16 21 4,555
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Newbie needing help with wedding venue
MrsPennyfathertoB, 9 August, 2016 at 22:29

Hi everyone I am newly engaged and this is my first post on the forum. So I guess the first thing I need to do is find somewhere to get married, but that seems easier said than done. I have a list of...

NathalieSB, friday 2-Dec-16 7 2,067
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Prosecco instead of champagne for toast??
FutureMrsCC, 28 November, 2016 at 16:59

Hi, Is it ok to have prosecco instead of champagne for the toasts and speeches? I don't really like champagne and prosecco is much cheaper. Just wondered if anyone else had done this? Thanks, Nic ...

LuxuriousOrangeStati, wednesday 30-Nov-16 10 3,359
BrideintheToon
Altering a dress 2 sizes?
BrideintheToon, 27 November, 2016 at 23:25

Hello fellow brides to be! I had an appointment at a bridal shop at the weekend and found the dress I want - this Essense of Australia one -...

BrideintheToon, wednesday 30-Nov-16 4 2,687
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Wedding wine - how much to buy and red/white split
FutureMrsCC, 29 November, 2016 at 10:06

Hi, We're buying all the wine for our wedding breakfast and i'm just trying to work out quantities. I've estimated 3 glasses per person, based on 6 glasses from 1 bottle. Then 2 glasses of prosecco...

Chapples, tuesday 29-Nov-16 1,286
Sweeties
All done and dusted
Sweeties, 22 November, 2016 at 20:08

Hi all, just wanted to drop by and say thanks for all the help you guys provided. We were married on 5th November and it was a wonderful day. We actually met around 2001, but we didn't start dating...

Chapples, monday 28-Nov-16 11 3,430
Firefly0410
Filling out a large venue space
Firefly0410, 23 November, 2016 at 13:17

I think we've picked out venue (Ashbourne Hotel near Grimsby if anyone has been), and we love it, only problem is we're wondering if we won't have enough guests! We're looking at a total of about 40...

Firefly0410, saturday 26-Nov-16 4 1,164
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Stag do disaster please help x
royalcouple, 22 November, 2016 at 22:39

OK. I'm new here please be gentle!! ? (& I'm sorry this is so long!!) It was my fiancé's stag do this last weekend. His best men promised casino, bierkeller and a few bars... which technically, is...

Jayne E, thursday 24-Nov-16 5 3,511
Bacchant
Dress + accessories dilemma
Bacchant, 21 November, 2016 at 11:26

I’m having a bit of a dilemma about my accessories, and whether to go for an overskirt or a veil. When looking at dresses I wanted one which was a fitted mermaid but with a thin overskirt (like the...

Bacchant, thursday 24-Nov-16 5 1,804
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Davids bridal - bridesmaid dresses
vgbride, 27 October, 2016 at 13:47

Hi, Just wondered if anyone has been to David's bridal for bridesmaid dresses? Am planning to visit the Stratford store but have seen a few bad reviews Thanks

MrsTtobe22717, wednesday 23-Nov-16 4 2,136
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Help - Ceremony music ideas needed!
, 21 November, 2016 at 09:53

Hi everyone! I am having an issue coming up with songs for my ceremony. We need one for walking down the aisle, two for signing the registar and one for walking up the aisle. I know what I am walking...

Tidal Wave, wednesday 23-Nov-16 11 1,790

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