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Firefly0410
Little bit of a MIL / Money moan
Firefly0410, 18 November, 2016 at 13:29

Not a question as such, I just need a little moan really to get it off my chest. My Mother-in-law to be visited last weekend. It's the first time we've seen her since our engagement in September. My...

DreamsComeTrue2015, monday 21-Nov-16 11 2,279
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I feel like nobody cares about our wedding :(
HappyOrangeConfetti548, 17 November, 2016 at 21:56

Hi everyone, My partner and I have been engaged since March and have booked our venue and photographer. We're excited but whenever I talk about our plans with family they're not interested. Family...

haltonmummy, sunday 20-Nov-16 9 2,657
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intimate wedding evening entertainment ideas
Mr&MrsJennings, 13 November, 2016 at 00:22

Hi all, We're still in the very early stages of planning and seeking some advice. To keep costs down We've been thinking of holding a small intimate wedding (parents, grandparents, siblings and close...

NathalieSB, sunday 20-Nov-16 5 2,902
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Top table issues
lucyjo, 15 November, 2016 at 09:34

Is anyone doing anything unusual for their top table? Like a lot of people, mine and OH's family set-up is complicated, so the traditional parents/best man/bridesmaid etc arrangement just won't work...

lucyjo, thursday 17-Nov-16 9 2,446
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Difficult mother and sister in law :(
MrsHadleyToBe2018, 14 November, 2016 at 23:14

Hi guys i just wondered if any of you could give me advice... before me and my OH were planning on getting married i asked his sister if she would be bridesmaid and said possibly maid of honour...

Lilacbouquet, wednesday 16-Nov-16 2 1,013
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Sophia Tolli Robin
Much_ado_about_weddings, 13 November, 2016 at 21:01

Eeek- finally bought my dress today! Went for the Sophia Tolli 'Robin' which I've been eying up for a while! Anyone else worn/planning to wear this dress? Any advice on alterations? Wondering where to...

Chapples, tuesday 15-Nov-16 3 893
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Venue corkage
Kanlak17, 8 November, 2016 at 11:03

I am looking to book my wedding at Froyle Park next year and wondered if anyone had used the venue recently on a dry hire basis? They are telling us that we can provide our own drinks for the meal and...

lucyjo, thursday 10-Nov-16 2 1,359
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Bridesmaid dress for 11yo
Daffodil2017, 27 October, 2016 at 22:05

Hi all! I only have 2 bridesmaids, my little sister (11) and my best friend. My friend is going to wear a bridesmaid dress that she wore to her sister's wedding, as its perfect for ours and will save...

Mrs_Conduct, thursday 10-Nov-16 9 1,866
TrixieSaurus
Still no photos... how long did yours take?
TrixieSaurus, 30 September, 2016 at 13:23

Hi All, We've been super patient with our photographer, but other than the preview collage I posted (which took 3 weeks!) we haven't seen any photos yet. Wedding was 6 weeks ago now, and I'm beginning...

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Thank you gifts?
Lilacbouquet, 16 October, 2016 at 23:26

I am trying to finalise my budget and was wondering do we need to buy thank you gifts for people such as bridesmaids, groomsmen etc? Are you going to and what sort of thing do you get? Thanks in...

jamborina, wednesday 9-Nov-16 13 19,307
MetalBride
Fed up.
MetalBride, 7 November, 2016 at 20:40

Seriously fed up with everything to do with wedding planning, tired of family complaints, tired of the over the top price brackets and fed up that my mother is trying to avoid altering my ivory damn...

MetalBride, tuesday 8-Nov-16 8 1,331
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Afro-Caribbean Brides
Winterflower91, 8 November, 2016 at 18:39

Hi This is my first post. I'm getting married in February 2018 and I know that's ages away but i'm starting to panic about finding someone who will be able to style my afro-caribbean natural hair and...

Winterflower91, tuesday 8-Nov-16 488
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contracts with venue / sound limiters
HappyIvoryConfetti714, 7 November, 2016 at 15:20

Hi Our venue has now installed a sound limiter at the venue and it has been set prohibitively low. Now, this wasn't even mentioned in our contract that and the venue have signed so am I right in...

thespectrumband@hotm, tuesday 8-Nov-16 7 1,409
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Dress shopping - going it alone!?
SoontobeMrsS, 7 November, 2016 at 14:12

I want to go and try on a very particular (floral!) dress I've found online which is in London (so, with tubes, probably only 35 mins from me but still a little bit of a trek). I'll probably try more...

Chapples, tuesday 8-Nov-16 13 2,054
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String quartet - what to do during hymns?
Purplecake, 7 May, 2015 at 15:17

Hi all, We have a string quartet booked for the church ceremony. They will play whilst guests are seated, both ways walking down the aisle, and signing of register. However we also have to have 2...

SunnyBlueCakes703, tuesday 8-Nov-16 7 3,383
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Family drama
SunnyGoldCars700, 5 November, 2016 at 01:38

Hi, I'm really hoping I can get an opinion on what to do in my situation. I've recently gotten engaged to the person I've been with for quite a few years. Unbeknown to me, his sister then announces...

Mrs_Conduct, monday 7-Nov-16 4 1,226
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Worried we made a mistake with guest list
Daffodil2017, 4 November, 2016 at 11:38

Hey all. I've started seriously doubting a decision we made when we sent invites. Our wedding is on quite a small budget, and the venue itself is small too, so we can't invite everyone. Originally we...

SoontobeMrsS, monday 7-Nov-16 8 2,061
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Serving wedding cake
SunnyGreenConfetti675, 4 November, 2016 at 10:15

I always thought cake got served after the speeches or is it before the first dance? Also not sure on the size of the cake to order? I was going to have it just for the day guests. However now I am...

Jayne E, saturday 5-Nov-16 8 2,624
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Dress budget
ExpensiveOrangeCars624, 13 August, 2016 at 15:19

Hi everyone... this is my first post and I'm just wondering how realistic it is that I'll find a dress i LOVE with only a small budget? I have budgeted £1000 for a dress and realistically I can't...

SoontobeMrsS, friday 4-Nov-16 32 5,542
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wedding cake
Lou37, 1 November, 2016 at 12:11

Hi I just dont know what to do about the wedding cake! Never really thought it was a biggy in terms of other things for the wedding. I would like chocolate sponge as hate fruit cake but H2B says if...

SoontobeMrsS, thursday 3-Nov-16 8 1,702
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All done! Our rainy central London wedding - Long!
donkey86, 28 October, 2016 at 12:56

Hi all! I've not been on here much since the wedding as I've had to wean myself off - I got a bit obsessed in the last couple of months beforehand! But now wev'e had our professional photos back I...

NathalieSB, wednesday 2-Nov-16 13 3,577
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Grange barn Coggeshall
willow_rose , 5 September, 2015 at 20:23

Hi all, I have just found this venue online and am obsessed with it. Has any been married or getting married there? I can't get hold of anyone until Monday and the website doesn't have too much...

HappyOrangeHair668, wednesday 2-Nov-16 2 1,513
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What have i missed?
ExpensiveOrangeCars624, 29 October, 2016 at 14:31

Hey everyone I've wrote a list of things I need to arrange for my wedding in Feb 2018 could you guys tell me if I missed anything? Wedding insurance Venue Photographer Dress Suits Bridesaids/flower...

LuxuriousPinkCakes65, tuesday 1-Nov-16 8 1,338
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Bridesmaid numbers
Willows2B, 28 October, 2016 at 13:35

Hi all, wedding planning is coming along nicely for November 2017 ? Next task is asking my bridesmaids to be part of the day, I just have a bit of a dilemma... I have three definite bridesmaids (if...

Willows2B, monday 31-Oct-16 9 2,834
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Sister drama
SunnyGreenConfetti675, 22 October, 2016 at 16:05

I got engaged whilst on holiday, I immediately text and called all close family and friends to let them know. The day after I called my sister who was asking who was the bridesmaids – at which point I...

HappyBlueCars582, saturday 29-Oct-16 23 3,630
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Manzanita Branches - Table Centrepieces
lpowell32, 3 October, 2016 at 15:53

Hey all, I'm starting the search for some manzanita branches which appear to be super hard to come by in the UK (they originate in the USA) and that ones I can find are pretty pricey. This is a...

MadamRed, thursday 27-Oct-16 4 1,154
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Tulle and Chantilly
lpowell32, 26 October, 2016 at 13:02

Hello all, I was just wondering if anyone had any experience with Tulle and Chantilly bridesmaid dresses? I'm a tad paranoid about the quality so some reviews would be great! Concerned about them...

lpowell32, wednesday 26-Oct-16 565
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Mac counter makeover for wedding day
Annaangeluk2016, 21 October, 2016 at 10:24

Hi All, I posted on here a few weeks ago about the disaster's I've been having with MUA's for my wedding! First was my best friend who ruined my hen night and is now uninvited! Second was the mua I...

laurafish, wednesday 26-Oct-16 5 1,647
DreamsComeTrue2015
Wedding Ring From Etsy
DreamsComeTrue2015, 19 October, 2016 at 10:45

I've seen the wedding band I want but the only place I can find it is Etsy but I'm really worried it might be dodgy. Anyone got any positive experiences?

HappyPinkCakes624, tuesday 25-Oct-16 9 1,477
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Surprise Wedding for the Groom...
HappyIvoryDiamonds414, 18 October, 2016 at 15:28

Hi all, This may be an absolutely insane idea, and it may not work from what I have seen in regards to giving notice of marriage (requires both of us to be involved, not just a form filling out haha),...

Lapland2015, tuesday 25-Oct-16 5 4,285
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Too many problems what do I do?
Lilacbouquet, 14 October, 2016 at 17:45

There are so many things going on at the moment! My OH proposed in May on our holiday and it was absolutely perfect. Three weeks later he had a heart attack and was rushed to hospital where 2 days...

MetalBride, tuesday 25-Oct-16 10 1,609
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Bridal separates / min and match skirts and tops
LuxuriousBlueCars619, 23 October, 2016 at 15:09

Hi! Has anyone come across any bridal stores stocking a good selection of bridal separates? I hadn't considered separates until recently, a shop assistant suggested a Watters tulle skirt and lace top...

MetalBride, monday 24-Oct-16 535

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