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Hi I am looking for some advice. I got engaged a couple of weeks ago! I live my fiancé to pieces, and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I absolutely do not want a wedding! He knows how I...

Hi there! I’m new to all of this but I would really like some advice or help from anyone who’s been in a similar situation please ? I was due to get married abroad but Covid messed that up and long...

Hi! We have just booked our wedding for November 2021 and I’m not sure if to have bridesmaids ! Do you really need them? I don’t have any sisters and my OH’ sister isn’t interested , I don’t have w...

I have no relationship with my in laws. It started out badly ( his mum doesn’t want to share her precious son) and well I’m not rich enough or white for his dad. It’s been a host of casual racist...

My fiancé proposed end of August this year. He's 38 and I'm 31 and we have been together 6 years this September. I was in shock at first but now I'm excited and we are planning venues. Our friends and...

Hi everyone! Hoping some of you lovely people can help me as I'm in a real dilemma about my bridal party and could do with some objective advice All things being well next year with the pandemic...

Hi Ladies, Im new to this forum stuff but thought i would give it a go for some help. I am getting married next year abroad and me and my partner wanted to get our family involved as we are really...

Is anyone out there wearing a non-white wedding dress at all? I bought my dream dress in march and absolutely love it to bits, I'd seen in the shop window before we even got engaged and had commented...

We’re getting married in October and I chose my friend of nearly 20 years to be my MOH & only bridesmaid. She got a new boyfriend in December having been single for a long time. Since I asked her...

I'm getting married in 2021 and have been looking briefly at seating plans for our guests. We're allowing kids at the wedding because so many of my close family have young kids (my dad and step mum...

Okay so me and my oh chose our MOH and BestMan a while back, they didn't know each other at all untill my MOH started saying she thought the BM was fit from a facebook profile pic, she was newly...

Hello i hope I don’t sound a bridezilla, We want to keep our wedding private. Neither of us have social media so we will not be uploading any photos. I do not mind at all guests taking photos of...

This may be a strange question, but what does a ceremony look like when you are just meeting an officiant at a chosen location with only your to-be spouse? We wanted to go super simple and planned a...

Hi there! I’m looking for some advice and if anyone else has experienced this. Me and my fiancé sent our wedding invitations back in January and have asked for the rsvps to be sent back by 1st April....

My h2b has said his niece should be a bridesmaid, she will be 13 when we get married. I don't think she should be and don't really want her to be. She is a lovely girl but he isn't close to her nor am...

One of my bridesmaids has been ignoring me for the past week. There was a bit of a disagreement last week about a very petty situation and she has over reacted and taken it out on me (bride). She has...

Hi ladies, I'm in need of your inspiration please.. It's mine and my fiance's second weddings so we're having a simple ceremony in our local town hall and only having our son (7) and my stepdaughter...

Hey! I’m just doing a bit of market research - if you wouldn’t mind giving your opinion it would be greatly appreciated! How would you feel about buying your wedding dress online if it was from a U.K....

I don’t know where to start with this but basically my mum wants to wear a white dress to our wedding. I’ve asked her not to wear a white dress and whilst I understand that there can be a bit of a...

Hi Everyone, I got engaged quite recently and as I'm getting married while still at university budget is a constant worry. My parents have generously offered to contribute but won't say to what or...

Help! Me and my h2b are stuck on who should be coming to the day and who should be coming to the evening! my h2b has a large group of friends. Some we see very often and some we see maybe once or...

Hi guys. Just looking for some input from people who've been to a small wedding of 30-40 people. We want the day to suit us (casual, low-key), but don't want our guests to be bored. We are hosts after...

I am Mother of the groom to a wedding in May. I am divorced from my sons father and he has remarried, we are both still on good terms. I am engaged to my partner of 7 months (11 months by the time of...

Hi there, we are just about to send out our wedding invitations. A few of our bridesmaids and groomsmen have recently got in to new relationships with in the last 2 months. We haven’t met their new...

Hi ladies looking for some perspective here as its causing lots of heated discussion at home ? H2b is wearing a kilt for the big day and we are having a small daytime wedding with only 28 people...

Hi there! me and my partner are the stage in our wedding plans where we are just about to order our invitations. We have all of our guest numbers ready to go and know who we’d like to invite to the...

Hello, We live in the UK.We are getting married next February in walt Disney world resort in Florida. My twin 6 year old daughters will be bridesmaids. My 12 year old son wants to be a bridesmaid...

Need some help. I have recently got engaged and got so excited and rushed in on asking one of my oldest friends (lets call her Sarah) to be one of my bridesmaids... I can only have 6 BMs as my groom...

Ive got 10 bridesmaids, who are wearing open toe shoes. I’ve asked them all to have french polish on hands and toes, but one bridesmaid has had orange gel done and is refusing to change it ?. My...

So my MOH and bridesmaids have started organising my away hen party. As I have a big family the number of people I needed to invite was quite a large number. I’ve sent out a text to everyone to see...

Ok so as I write this I know some of you will already think I am ungrateful. I can assure you I’m not and I love my fiancé very much. We got engaged in Italy 3 months ago and it was the most beautiful...

I am having a small civil ceremony with little planning time because a) we need legalities sorted quickly and b) we will bave a party for everyone next year. So this one is just the paperwork. However...