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ATB
Do you have a dress code/uniform for work?
ATB, 6 September, 2011 at 15:40

When working part time in a department store and supermarket as a student I wore a uniform, in my "grown up" full time jobs I've either been required to wear business dress or worked in a no dress...

Duncan, sunday 27-Apr-25 137 9,131
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Any 2025 brides?
Alisha, 2 January, 2024 at 11:41

Im in the UK, Getting married January 2025.. Hoe far along in the planning process are you? Venue - comes as a package with dj&food ✔️ almost paid offPhotographer ✔️ deposit paidWedding dress ✔️...

Bevis, thursday 24-Apr-25 8 281 2
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Terminally ill mum - wedding not booked yet
Melissa, 17 March, 2025 at 13:00

My mum is terminally ill and has been in hospital for the past 5 weeks and it’s not looking like she will get out. I really don’t want to get married without her so I was wondering if there are...

Mustafa, wednesday 23-Apr-25 5 95
James
Newlywed Couples - What are Some Good Conversation Starters?
James, 17 March, 2025 at 14:58

Hey everyone! 👋 I’m looking for some creative and meaningful conversation starters for newly married couples who might still be getting to know each other. Sometimes, it feels tough to know what to...

Mustafa, wednesday 23-Apr-25 4 146
Mellow_Yellow
Weight...overweight, obese, morbidly obese, etc.
Mellow_Yellow, 12 July, 2013 at 13:58

Just a musing, as weight is discussed a fair bit on here. I was reading a book last week about weight problems, and it suggested that Britain as a nation is desensitised when it comes to obesity. The...

Albert, tuesday 22-Apr-25 62 4,061
John
Managing Chronic Pain While Planning My Wedding: Any Tips?
John, 16 November, 2024 at 10:53

Hi everyone, I’m currently planning my wedding, but I’ve been dealing with chronic pain that’s been making it hard to focus on all the details. I’m trying to balance my health with wedding...

JosephD, tuesday 22-Apr-25 4 51
Lady Muck
Company Car Vs Car Allowances - What are your experiences as employers/employees?
Lady Muck, 6 April, 2009 at 22:19

Q as in title really. My Co is thinking about altering the company car policy as it seems they get taxed quite highly for providing them and it might be cheaper for them and us to provide a car...

Nova, tuesday 22-Apr-25 13 4,587
*Ducky*
Your first car (and car bump/scrape)
*Ducky*, 4 December, 2012 at 11:49

My first car was this: It was soooo uncool. I came home from sixth form one day and my Mum had bought it for me as 'it only had 26,000 miles on the clock' and then proceeeded to tell me how much I...

Nova, tuesday 22-Apr-25 63 12,702
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Getting bmw mini to replace steering pump - steering died whilst I was driving it!
Sparklywug, 23 May, 2009 at 19:43

I was driving my mini cooper today (off to Southend as nice weather!), we were nearly there when I was driving round a roundabout and the steering froze, I couldn't get the car to go anywhere but in a...

Nova, tuesday 22-Apr-25 9 9,372
misselle
So annoyed at myself damaged my car this morning
misselle, 4 December, 2012 at 11:29

I’m really annoyed with myself today. I was running late for work today and had to take the car in because I have a meeting this afternoon in a location that’s 30 minutes away. I had to park the car...

Nova, tuesday 22-Apr-25 9 4,082
Storky
Clothes and jobs and stuff...
Storky, 13 February, 2013 at 10:15

Ladies and the Funkstah, thank you very much for your vibes! You rock! Exciting new challenge secured for me, as of the beginning of March, but it does mean I need to do some serious shopping. Where's...

Mike, monday 21-Apr-25 35 3,277
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Milling Barn Hertfordshire, Accommodation
Sarah, 26 January, 2025 at 09:09

Has anyone got married or stayed as a guest at Milling Barn, Throcking recently? I am concerned about the onsite accommodation as read some bad reviews, but there are never any photos. Some recent...

Joseph, saturday 19-Apr-25 2 27
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Best tech gift ideas for wife
James, 13 September, 2021 at 14:38

Any gift that makes life easy and can be used daily. They are not expensive but very useful .

Jones, friday 18-Apr-25 5 169
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Any NHS workers? Or Employment lawyers - Agenda for change back pay
loopyloo, 9 June, 2008 at 18:50

Hey everyone Any nurses or other NHS workers out there still struggling to get NHS back pay? Im still waiting to get mine, any tactics for hurrying them up?Its driving me insane, i could really do...

VittoCheri, tuesday 15-Apr-25 8 2,066
allymc
Jingle bells, Batman smells, Robin............????
allymc, 6 December, 2008 at 18:53

I was singing this version to our 7 month old yesterday and as far as I'm concerned Robin flew away. H looked at me as if I was demented and said it's 'Robin laid an egg!' I'd never heard of Robin...

Jaime, tuesday 15-Apr-25 48 43,466 1
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Have The One Show at your wedding!
LuxuriousPinkDiamonds7729, 21 March, 2018 at 12:37

The One Show is hoping to film a short segment about wedding music prior to the Royal Wedding in May. We are currently looking for a fun couple who might be happy for us to come along to their wedding...

Rachel, saturday 12-Apr-25 2 411
Becca
Healthcare workers - do you stay off for full 48hrs after D+V?
Becca, 3 August, 2009 at 20:15

If your colleagues really need you back at work, do you still wait out the full 48hrs after the last D or V before returning to work?

Duncan, saturday 12-Apr-25 7 9,360
ooh la la
Eurovision Song Contest
ooh la la, 16 May, 2009 at 19:42

Will anyone be watching tonight? I may be subjecting my OH to it as payback for him polishing his car ALL day!

Mediarept, friday 11-Apr-25 356 11,110
RuthG
Moving house - packing tips?
RuthG, 23 March, 2009 at 16:33

We're (hopefully) moving house a week on friday (it's only taken 18 months!) I've not really moved house before, other than moving out of my parents and into this house, but that was only 1 bedroom of...

Parin, friday 11-Apr-25 30 2,726
francesca
There are slugs in my house
francesca, 16 August, 2008 at 11:33

I've not seen the bastards but there are trails on the kitchen floor and on H's shoes. I feel ill, how did they get in? How can I kill them if I can't see them? I can't really do slug pellets because...

Sebt, sunday 6-Apr-25 12 1,926
Knownowt
Photobox photobooks
Knownowt, 14 October, 2008 at 15:05

Has anyone ordered one of these before? What is the quality like? I'm imagining something like a magazine but with thicker pages and hardcovers- is that right? (what a rubbish description ?) What I'm...

Amudala, wednesday 2-Apr-25 12 1,579
Buzzee
Pimp my bathroom!
Buzzee, 24 November, 2012 at 17:02

So, all being well we should be completing on our sale/purchase in 2 weeks (after a 5 month long conveyencing process - argh!) the new house is rather dated, but in good condition. Long term we'll get...

Berton, sunday 30-Mar-25 29 1,331
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Early menopause????
amee, 10 July, 2009 at 15:13

Has anyone any advice they can give about the implications of the above? Heard from the doc today that my blood tests results have shown that I'm in early menopause. Have to go in on Monday to discuss...

Sue, monday 24-Mar-25 8 2,100
Gryfon
Can dogs have the rinds off cheese?
Gryfon, 15 April, 2008 at 21:43

Eating some Comte cheese and I was thinking about giving the dog the rind if she wants it but don't want to if it's harmful. Anyone know? ?

Beardpet, monday 24-Mar-25 13 15,431
baublegirl
Bathroom cleaning - with what/how often/what makes it easier etc (boring, sorry)
baublegirl, 8 April, 2009 at 15:13

OK - have just thoroughly cleaned our bathrooms, and that was a grim job. I feel like I don't really know the best way to keep on top of things (years of shared bathrooms where we emplyed a cleaner...

Ronald, friday 21-Mar-25 22 3,160
Stephisaur
IKEA Duvets anyone?
Stephisaur, 15 June, 2016 at 12:29

Hi All I was just wondering whether anybody had bought a Duvet from IKEA? Long story short, our Bed broke (ahem) and we've ordered a new one. However, we've ordered a 160cm x 200cm bed (slightly...

Lucas, friday 21-Mar-25 8 2,616
Sare
Bellini..where can I get the peach bit?
Sare, 15 May, 2008 at 20:54

I'm going to a friend's house for a "Cocktail Sleepover" tommorrow and I said I'd make Bellini's. I have Prosecco but I know the proper version is made with white peach puree, which I can't get hold...

Lucas, friday 21-Mar-25 21 27,366
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Tomato bread (bread maker) recipes?
londonbride, 13 April, 2008 at 10:56

Does anyone have a recipe I can use for tomato bread in a breadmaker. Just any one would be good im having trouble finding one! We have a Kenwood breadmaker but no recipes! Thanks

Aidan, sunday 16-Mar-25 4 259
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Wedding dress shopping
El, 2 February, 2025 at 22:04

Since the engagement, I found out my mum wanted to go dress shopping with me and my sister only. She even said in front of my fiancée “your mum has her own daughter she can go dress shopping with”,...

Duncan, wednesday 12-Mar-25 6 109 1
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How do i change the design of my wedding website?
Clare, 11 July, 2024 at 11:21

I picked a design thinking I could change the colour scheme of the flowers but I can't, and now I can't see a way to change the design or start from scratch at all, can anyone help?

Brucebanner, wednesday 12-Mar-25 3 170
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We’re to start
Daniel, 16 February, 2025 at 10:33

Hi everyone so we decided to say enough is enough it’s time settle down only down fall is none of us are the wisest and have no clue we’re to start and how much it’s going to cost ect

Sharna, tuesday 11-Mar-25 5 78 1
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Free wedding witness
Lily, 24 June, 2022 at 23:36

I know wedding season is here, so I thought I’d offer myself as free witness for anyone in London (North, West or Central areas) who are looking for a wedding witness. I’m just starting in in event...

George, monday 10-Mar-25 6 194

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