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Shay

Lake District , Cumbria · From October 2022

Happily married 🎉

20 July, 2024

637days 8hours
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Heavily pregnant wedding guest!
Shay, 2 March, 2025 at 18:56

That guest will be me!! Very very close to our due date. My husband is the best man! It is an hour away from home so we have decided to stay the night before and night of as we don’t want to be apart...

Gared, friday 10-Apr-26 3
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Christmas wedding in November - too early?
Pea, 12 January, 2025 at 16:30

Hey! We had our hearts set on a Christmas wedding this year but missed all December dates at our dream venue. They have confirmed they as standard put their Christmas decorations up on the 22nd...

Tom, yesterday at 17:46 15
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Do i really need Evening food?!?!
Nikita, 9 January, 2025 at 08:24

I’m a South African getting married in Scotland to my Scottish fiancé and I can’t get my head around evening food?!? We have canapés going out at 2:30pm. Our reception dinner meal and dessert for our...

Mini, tuesday 3-Mar-26 153
Alicia
Black wedding dress
Alicia, 17 December, 2024 at 01:49

I'm a bride to be in next 2/3 but iv been struggling to find a nice back dress admittedly iv been picky i want either a black or green dress but it's a struggle since it's common to wear white but I...

Herry, sunday 25-Jan-26 27 2
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Engagement Party
Katherine, 7 November, 2024 at 16:21

My partner and I have been together for 10 years, and we got engaged this weekend. Everyone has asked if there will be an engagement party. It sounds lovely but… I didn’t know they were a thing. What...

Oleksii Savchenko, friday 26-Dec-25 18
Dani
Would you attend a Christmas Day wedding?
Dani, 30 October, 2024 at 11:50

Hey, festive enthusiasts (or grinches!) How about being a guest at a wedding on Christmas Day? Love and festivities in one package! ❄ Let me know in the comments why you voted yes or no! Missed our...

Yes - Sounds fun! 🎅

36%

14 votes

No way! 🙈

64%

25 votes

Why did you choose ""?

Last vote monday 16-Dec-24 9
Niamh
Children or no children?
Niamh, 18 October, 2024 at 17:53

My fiance and i got engaged in January and are expecting our second child Oct 28-31 !! We originally didnt want children at our wedding when we started discussing marriage in 2020, a few months before...

Shay, tuesday 29-Oct-24 1
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Wedding review!!! 😬❤️
Shay, 30 July, 2024 at 15:32

Oh my I already posted this but it did not post for some reason. So I will do it in little sections!!! It is also coming from a very poorly sick lady with food poisoning in Mexico! 🤮 but hopefully...

Dan, monday 17-Nov-25 7 2
Katie
Sax in the evening - yes or no!?
Katie, 21 September, 2024 at 19:19

Hi everyone! Have been thinking about the evening and we have a dj but am trying to decide where to get a sax player for a bit too! What are peoples thoughts on this? Also, if you’ve been to a wedding...

Katrina, thursday 3-Oct-24 2
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Order of Events
Lianne, 21 September, 2024 at 11:18

Hi all. I’m looking to provide my guests with an order of events so they know the timings for everything. How has everyone done this or planning to do this? I’ve seen options where they’ve put it on...

PhotographybyBillHad, tuesday 8-Oct-24 2
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Bridesmaid dress alterations
RomanticBlueCars26663, 1 August, 2024 at 00:03

Hi everyone I'm hoping someone can give me some advice!! I've just visited a seamstress to look at two bridesmaids dresses. Both dresses are the same design and style and need roughly the same...

Dan, thursday 13-Nov-25 2
Lauren
Due to give birth before wedding - help
Lauren, 10 August, 2024 at 16:13

I know I need to postpone the wedding, we’re thinking maybe to the same weekend following year I’m just wondering how do you tell guests? Some have already booked accommodation etc I just feel like...

Shay, tuesday 13-Aug-24 1
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Only 6 months until i say i do :)
Katrina, 12 August, 2024 at 20:28

We got engaged 💍 in December 2023. I can't believe half a year has gone by already. We now have another half a year to go. What things should I be thinking about? I am quite an organised person and...

Trisha, friday 23-Aug-24 26 3
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Should you sell your dress?
Shay, 13 August, 2024 at 22:08

I had the most amazing wedding dress! I loved wearing it. It was a wonderful gift from my Mum. I had it dry cleaned straight away, they done an amazing job but the glitter came off which we knew it...

Shay, tuesday 13-Aug-24 53
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Bridesmaids selection
Holly, 24 July, 2024 at 19:16

I've been asked to be bridesmaids for someone... but i wouldn't choose them as my bridesmaid. I get married couple of years after them but how can I not ask them to be bridesmaid when I am there's......

Shay, tuesday 13-Aug-24 2 1
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Wedding Invites
Louise, 5 August, 2024 at 21:44

Just wondering if anyone else has been in this situation as I'm getting stressed and anxious, I sent out my wedding invitations over a week ago, I understand they have a while to RSVP by but I really...

Shay, tuesday 13-Aug-24 2
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Getting ready attire
Kelly, 24 July, 2024 at 18:42

Hello. I have a beautiful backless dress for my wedding with a hidden bra built in. I have just realised that wearing a normal bra all morning, when getting ready, will leave me with marks on my back....

Mohsin, monday 6-Apr-26 47 1
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Wedding dress cleaning and boxing
T S, 13 June, 2024 at 08:11

Hello fellow newly-weds! It's been two weeks since the wedding and I'm just getting around to having my dress cleaned. I don't think it got that dirty but it does need some minor repairs as both...

Sarah, tuesday 20-Jan-26 7
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5 days to go!!!
Shay, 15 July, 2024 at 22:38

I am just laying in bed having a little rest! It’s only Monday and it’s been so manic since going off on holiday Friday evening! Only waiting on the food bill and we are good to go. All my beauty...

RomanticGreenStation, monday 22-Jul-24 11
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Hen Party Group Chat
Daisy, 13 July, 2024 at 19:19

I'm getting married next May and have been asked by my MoH to create a WhatsApp group chat of all the people I'd like to invite to my hen party, then leave the group chat so that she and the...

Pooja, saturday 7-Mar-26 10
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Scottish heritage, looking for ideas!
Daria, 7 July, 2024 at 15:25

I'm Polish my partner is of Scottish Heritage. Apart from him wearing a tartan, how else can we incorporate his Scottish heritage ?

Davis, saturday 17-Aug-24 20
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My Wedding Dress has arrived in store :).
Katrina, 19 June, 2024 at 15:31

I went to find my dream dress at the end of March I got a message yesterday to say that it had NOW arrived. I thought it would not be ready till about September/ October time. They told me up to 3-6...

Dan, friday 14-Nov-25 77
Harriet
Time to dress shop?
Harriet, 27 April, 2024 at 18:17

Hi, I’m getting married in October 2025 and was wondering when is the right time to start dress shopping? I have been looking at the styles I like already but I’ve heard mixed messages about when to...

Edward, thursday 4-Dec-25 17
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Sun beds…
Shay, 24 September, 2023 at 22:08

I have never been on one nor ever considered one until now. In the summer if we get some sun ofcourse I have lovely glowing bronzed skin. The last few years I have gotten very sensitive skin that I...

Dan, friday 14-Nov-25 5
Charly
Bridesmaid dresses
Charly, 20 June, 2024 at 21:38

Hey ladies, can you recommend places to find bridesmaid dresses from please. My maids range from sizes 8 - 22 so I'm struggling to find the same design across multiple sizes. Every time I search it...

Lexie, thursday 25-Dec-25 28 6
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Bridesmaids..
Lauren, 10 June, 2024 at 20:23

I have chosen my bridesmaids and have made the decision not to include my SIL as part of the bridal team. There has been issues in the past with my SIL and her husband but we have now moved on and can...

Shay, wednesday 19-Jun-24 4
Sandie
Seating plan for buffet receptiin
Sandie, 31 May, 2024 at 18:45

Do I do a seating plan for a buffet reception?

Shay, monday 3-Jun-24 2
Caitlin
Social media uploads on wedding day
Caitlin, 1 June, 2024 at 19:05

Hello girls Has anyone had to navigate through the fine line of guests posting pictures of you on social media on your wedding day?!! I don’t have a problem with people taking pictures together or of...

Hooria, saturday 11-Apr-26 55 1
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Hair dye
Mrsswain2Beagin, 30 May, 2024 at 08:28

Hi, I'm renewing our vows in September and I'm wanting to have my hair dyed for it. How long in advance would be safe to do it so it still looks fresh on the day? TIA

Shay, saturday 1-Jun-24 1

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