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Barcelona Hen Party - Places to Stay
MoorWedding, 14 November, 2014 at 13:10

Hello I am planning my hen party for the end of July (2015) in Barcelona. There will be 15 of us, and I was wondering if anybody has any recommendations for places to stay. Looking for somewhere close...

Steve, 22 minutes ago 91 4,414 1
IanStuartBride
White napkins on an Ivory tablecloth- is it okay?
IanStuartBride, 24 July, 2015 at 08:28

Hi Again, This may sound like a boring topic but I just want some quick advice on whether it's okay to have white napkins on an ivory tablecloth at my wedding? I'm planning on hiring linen because the...

Lucas, an hour ago 5 662
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Cars
Kirsty, 14 February, 2025 at 20:10

Can someone please tell me why wedding cars are massively expensive?! I am happy to pay a high price if I was needing the cars for going to and from destinations but I literally need them to go from a...

Robert, an hour ago 2 13
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Games for family get together!
PenelopeP, 25 September, 2008 at 11:22

We're having a family get together the day before our wedding. Most of our families have never met because mine live abroad. We're getting together in the afternoon for afternoon tea and I was...

JJ JJSEO, 2 hours ago 22 9,190
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Photobooth or Flower wall for guests
Tanya, 11 February, 2025 at 16:49

Hey everyone! I could really use your thoughts on something for my wedding. So, I originally booked a photobooth for fun group shots with all the quirky hats and props. But then I thought – I have...

PhotographybyBillHad, 5 hours ago 2 20
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Content creator or photographer?
Rebecca, 13 February, 2025 at 11:40

Researching content creators and it’s making me question if having a photographer is important if you have one of these. How often do people pull out their photography albums etc? Pros and cons or...

PhotographybyBillHad, 5 hours ago 4 19
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Cars
Kirsty, 15 February, 2025 at 21:42

Do we are getting married in a church and then off to a big house for wedding reception. However they are both on the same estate! We are both getting ready at the site so no need for pickups....

PhotographybyBillHad, 5 hours ago 2 16
Grace
Would you hire high end faux flowers, or buy a preserved bridal bouquet?
Grace, 28 January, 2025 at 14:03

Hello everyone! I am a trained florist and so sick of the expense and unsustainability of fresh flowers! I ONLY work with preserved and high-end naturalistic faux. I am setting up a floral hire...

Victor, 6 hours ago 17 243 3
2b_MrsB
which toast for which speaker ??
2b_MrsB, 3 May, 2013 at 09:03

Hi everyone. I know this is a what ever they want to do question but traditionally who makes which toast ? Am I right in thinking that - Best Man - toasts the bridesmaid FOB - toasts the Bride &...

Henry, 6 hours ago 7 1,628
Joanne
Bridesmaides
Joanne, 20 January, 2025 at 16:41

Hello everyone. I'm having an emotional breakdown. I don't have very many friends let alone a few I would consider close enough to be bridesmaids so I think I'm going to go it alone and not have...

Clare, yesterday at 19:49 33 1,169 3
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Elopement with kids
Cayley, 15 February, 2025 at 21:58

Hi all, my OH and I have been engaged since Christmas 2018, but still haven’t come up with a way to get married that we’re both happy with. Neither of us want anything big at all. Our families are a...

Missreally, yesterday at 18:07 2 17
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How to Discourage Uninvited Guests from Attending Wedding
RomanticGreenStationery27135, 17 November, 2019 at 17:17

We are planning a very small wedding as neither of us is comfortable in large groups, and I'm feeling really nervous being the centre of attention even in front of the few guests we are inviting....

Donald, yesterday at 09:44 15 2,651
Dani
Your top tip for a happy relationship?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:34

Last (& most important) question about your love story... What do you think is the real secret to a happy relationship / marriage? Vote and tell us why in the comments! *** We hope you enjoyed...

Trust

23%

7 votes

Respect

6%

2 votes

Communication

48%

15 votes

Love

6%

2 votes

Intimacy

3%

1 vote

Patience

3%

1 vote

More 👇

6%

2 votes

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Dani
What’s the real reason you argue the most?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:34

We’re dying to know more about your love story, in our Love is in the questionn’air’e... What’s the thing you argue about most? Drop a comment and vote below! ✨ *** 👉 Next up: Your top tip for a happy...

Misunderstandings

29%

7 votes

Stubbornness

25%

6 votes

Nonsense

25%

6 votes

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17%

4 votes

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Dani
What won you over?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:34

Keep it up, we want to know more! Answer our next Love is in the questionn’air’e... What was it that stood out to you first about your partner? Vote and share your thoughts in the comments! ✨ *** 👉...

Kindness

27%

7 votes

Charm

12%

3 votes

Looks

4%

1 vote

Made you laugh

35%

9 votes

More 👇

19%

5 votes

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Dani
Was it love at first sight?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:33

Let’s keep it going with another question in our Love is in the questionn’air’e... So, was it love at first sight or did the sparks fly slowly over time? ⚡️ Vote and share your story in the comments!...

Love at first sight

64%

16 votes

Gradually fell in love

32%

8 votes

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Dani
Where did you meet?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:33

💌 Kicking things off with the first question in our Love is in the questionn’air’e... Where did you and your partner first cross paths? Give us the details! Vote now & share more in the comments...

School

14%

8 votes

Bar/party

16%

9 votes

Online

31%

18 votes

Work

10%

6 votes

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28%

16 votes

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Amy
Has anyone used Glamlora?
Amy, 26 August, 2024 at 16:47

Has anyone used glamlora? I am getting married on the 20th of next month. I saw a wedding dress on glamlora that I really like, but I don't often order a wedding dress online. This wedding dress is...

Stasha, yesterday at 08:02 24 3,477 1
Amy
Registrar vs Celebrant & Owl ring bearer
Amy, 28 August, 2024 at 11:26

Hey, I was wondering if anyone would be able to help. So, my Fiance and I both love owls and were thinking about having one deliver the rings during the ceremony. (We've asked our venue and they love...

Vivian, yesterday at 07:42 9 248 1
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Apostille on birth certificate?
onlytook10years, 13 April, 2011 at 11:50

Can any of you lovely ladies help me please? My OH and I are flying to St. Kitts to get married at the end of June, but I can't find my birth certificate ? So, I need to order a new one, but a site...

Albert, monday 17-Feb-25 7 1,844
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Casino table vs photo booth
Lou37, 15 September, 2015 at 21:02

We went to the wedding fair in Sunday and saw casino tables we both thought it was a great idea and never been to a wedding with them before. We decided to opt for two tables, our hotel was at the...

Алексей, monday 17-Feb-25 11 950
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Small wedding
Jessica, 13 February, 2025 at 16:05

Hello, so I’ve never posted on here but I’ve been feeling something is missing and I’m not sure what. Background, I am getting married in 4 months and most things are organised, we are having a very...

RomanticGreenStation, monday 17-Feb-25 1 18
Dani
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Dani, 2 January, 2025 at 09:15

Hey engaged couples, You heard that right!! Hitched are giving away another £25,000 this year to one lucky couple* So... Are you ready to make your dream wedding a reality?! Silly question, of course...

Kath, monday 17-Feb-25 33 2,198 23
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South east london venue - help!
Louise, 17 February, 2025 at 12:32

Hi everyone, I have recently got engaged and finding the first steps of planning very overwhelming!! We are looking for a ceremony and meal for 50 and they an evening celebration of 120 ish. I'm...

Louise, monday 17-Feb-25 7
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Wedding website private pages - help please!
Beth, 10 July, 2023 at 16:17

Hi, I am trying to create a page on my website which is password protected for some guests who are staying with us at the venue. I click on private but it doesn’t ask me to put in a password and the...

Ali, monday 17-Feb-25 8 376
Fiona
Inspo for inspo!
Fiona, 16 February, 2025 at 19:37

Hi! I’m a new fiancée! Haha. Literally don’t know where to start but keen to get on the bridal bus… Top tips and suggestions please for general places to start! Living in Yorkshire

Fiona, sunday 16-Feb-25 5
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Betting/Gambling Wedding Favour Ideas
LuxuriousRedHair663, 5 February, 2018 at 19:47

My fiancé and I love betting - football coupons, betting at the races etc! Looking to do a few different things! Iv heard of football coupons, single bets on horses...! Just wanting something bit more...

Th Bes, sunday 16-Feb-25 19 2,107
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I want to purchase a Wedding Planner book... Help!
HappyPinkCakes669, 30 September, 2016 at 14:41

Hi everyone, I'm getting married next year and I am just beginning the planning process.... I have no idea where to start! My best friend suggested to get a wedding planner organiser thingy which will...

Ali, sunday 16-Feb-25 14 2,778
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Games to play at a Hen Party Weekend??
BrogstarBride, 22 February, 2013 at 12:55

We are going to a Spa for the weekend and I want to play some fun games in the evening and ideas? x

Kihec24, saturday 15-Feb-25 11 7,494
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Do i really need Evening food?!?!
Nikita, 9 January, 2025 at 08:24

I’m a South African getting married in Scotland to my Scottish fiancé and I can’t get my head around evening food?!? We have canapés going out at 2:30pm. Our reception dinner meal and dessert for our...

Liam, saturday 15-Feb-25 13 482
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Is anyone NOT having a disco or band?
annie2000, 28 November, 2011 at 18:04

We are thinking that a disco or band with just 30 guests will be a bit much, trying to find ideas of alternative evening entertainment alongside background music. Has anyone else not had disco or...

Ali, saturday 15-Feb-25 11 1,291
Carolyn
Invites via text / whattsapp
Carolyn, 14 February, 2025 at 21:07

Hi - anyone know if I can send invites out via text? I can't get my head round it...I've uploaded the spreadsheet with all names and mobile numbers...Thanks in advance for any help!

Carolyn, friday 14-Feb-25 5

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