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Markus
Markus

Rye, South West London · From October 2025

Happily married 🎉

1 December, 2024

526days 21hours

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vintageangel
money behind the bar?
vintageangel, 14 September, 2011 at 21:12

Just had our final meeting at the hotel and they are giving us £250 behind the bar, we were just discussing how to work it out and thought i'd ask on here if you had free drinks how did you work it?...

Markus, tuesday 6-Jan-26 28
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Help! Fiance freaking out over money
Dotty Pants, 6 October, 2011 at 21:20

Hi ladies I'm new to the whole wedding planning experience. We are getting married on 28th April 2012 we've got loads of ideas and I am keen to book things ASAP as only 7 months away. However my...

Willium, saturday 2-May-26 23
skyrocket
Shellac question
skyrocket, 2 December, 2011 at 10:34

I have had my first Shellac yesterday. I decided that regular manicures I always screw up on the drive home and smudge so for the wedding something pretty much welded onto my nails was best. My nails...

Martacmrbz733, friday 24-Apr-26 8
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Heart drop top Guest book
cantwaittobemrsb, 20 January, 2016 at 13:13

Anyone had or having one? Where guests write on a wooden heart and drop it into a frame, which later can be hung up? I've seen quite a few online, and recommendations? Or if you have made your own,...

Markus, monday 15-Dec-25 19
K
Changes to guest list
KevinMJ, 2 September, 2024 at 14:03

Maybe I’m missing something, but is there any way to change what part of the day a guest is invited to? A few of the guests we’ve added, we’ve not clicked the correct options between ceremony, evening...

Arham, friday 17-Apr-26 12 2
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Vendor - any advice, I'd really appreciate it!
Jenny, 4 April, 2025 at 12:36

Hi, I'm getting married in 4 months & we paid a vendor to decorate our wedding venue. Sunday - I emailed with some reimbursement questions, received a bounce back. Checked their website and it's...

Rao, tuesday 27-Jan-26 7
Lea
We finally tied the knot on 1st July 2023!
Lea, 12 July, 2023 at 14:24

We finally got married on the 1st July 2023 after a year of planning. A first for the both of us - a bachelor and a spinster as we would have been called back then! A little bit about how we met. My...

TikTok, friday 23-Jan-26 17 2
UnionJackDream
Hate my wedding ring :-(
UnionJackDream, 13 May, 2012 at 14:27

Grrrr we bought our wedding rings the other day and it turned out to be the most stressful thing to buy! My OH found his easily and I must admit it is beautiful My engagement ring is white gold and...

Markus, monday 17-Nov-25 20
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Wedding venues
Natasha, 6 December, 2024 at 21:13

Hi, Recently engaged and looking for a wedding venue for summer 2026 in south of France, Italy (Florence or Tuscany) or Mallorca. Please can people post suggestions for recommended venues? Looking to...

Markus, monday 17-Nov-25 5
Vicky
Invitation upload issue?!
Vicky, 7 March, 2024 at 15:18

Hi, Does anyone know how to upload a full image size in the online invitation section? It crops most of the image off and I have to zoom in. Any help would be appreciated!

Markus, monday 17-Nov-25 3
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People unable to access wedding website
Francesca, 11 June, 2024 at 21:49

Hi, we have sent links to our website to our guests, but some are having trouble accessing it. The links we sent don't work for some people and it says 'access denied.' Some people can't even access...

Viktor, monday 27-Apr-26 10 1
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Help! Wedding cancellation deposit questions
RomanticBrownDecor177, 15 June, 2015 at 22:25

Hi all, i could really use some advice please! I booked and paid for a wedding venue last August to have our ceremony there in June 2016. Our entire correspondence in relation to the booking was via...

Petter, tuesday 3-Mar-26 20 1
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Wedding planner/coordinator/stylist totally ignoring me
HappyPurpleDiamonds9210, 22 July, 2019 at 15:11

Hi all, I am totally at my wits end and really don't know what to do. We've hired a wedding coordinator/venue stylist for our wedding on 17 August 2019. Initially the service from her was good and she...

Ben, sunday 16-Nov-25 4
SunnyGoldDecor76
Photography Payments
SunnyGoldDecor76, 10 December, 2014 at 15:10

Hi, we are getting married in May, we have booked our photographer. she is a colleague of my partner just wanting to start out her own business. I just wanted to ask, we have paid £100 deposit she is...

James, thursday 13-Nov-25 19
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Unresponsive and problems with photographer
Autumn colours , 1 June, 2014 at 11:05

Hi I'm looking for some advice as the photographer we initially booked is not responding to my phone calls or emails. We met this photographer at the Bluewater wedding exhibition earlier this year. We...

Markus, monday 10-Nov-25 12
Sam
Help with photographer
Sam, 5 October, 2023 at 08:36

We’re getting married next September and have hired a photographer. Initially we purchased a lower package but after considering it want to upgrade to the top package. We’ve emailed our photographer...

Markus, monday 10-Nov-25 6
Cassie
Reviews
Cassie, 7 September, 2023 at 09:49

Hiya, I left a company a review after my sister in laws wedding. I left it through hitched. I didn't say my sister in laws name or any details of her wedding. The company are now telling my sister in...

Andriy, sunday 18-Jan-26 9 1
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Engagement Photos
Amber, 11 September, 2025 at 00:25

Recently started planning mine and my other half’s wedding - however, I’m worried that because we don’t have any engagement photos, that I’m missing out on something. I was thinking about taking some...

Voocccie, tuesday 14-Apr-26 6
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Changing rsvp event name
Hayley, 4 May, 2025 at 07:41

Hi, I have 2 events for guests to RSVP to. Currently set as ceremony and evening reception. Am I able to change the terminology to day guest and evening guest? Or are they fixed. Thank you

MUZAMMIL, wednesday 6-May-26 9 1
Lucy
Skylark country club administration
Lucy, 16 July, 2023 at 11:08

Anyone getting married there next year? Have you heard anything about your date from them yet? What are your thoughts with everything going on recently?

Harry, wednesday 25-Mar-26 8
David
Adding Hotel links
David, 27 January, 2024 at 13:02

Can you add a link for guests to click on to an external hotel website?

Brandy, friday 17-Apr-26 11
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Photographer - Lack of communication
Hannah&Andrew, 31 October, 2023 at 09:21

Hi everyone! After a bit of advice, we are getting married in September 2025 and have booked our photographer. However, we've realised that the photographer lacks communication. We have emailed and...

Sophie, tuesday 14-Apr-26 11
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Asking for contribution towards wedding album as gift?
loopylou1980, 18 November, 2010 at 11:46

Hi all, I am new to this site, and newly engaged! Woo hoo! We have just booked our photographer and are considering asking for contributions towards our album for our wedding gift. Does this sound...

Markus, thursday 30-Oct-25 10
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Honeymoon donations
Lisa, 19 February, 2024 at 16:52

Hi, wondering if someone can help. We get married April this year after being together 10 years. Instead of gifts we were thinking of asking for donations to a honeymoon instead. Which site is best to...

Diego, friday 21-Nov-25 13
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Changed my mind about my wedding dress
ExpensiveBlueHair44854, 6 July, 2020 at 21:24

Hi, Could I have some advice please? I put a 50% deposit (£800) down on a wedding dress 5 days ago mostly due to feeling pressure. I do really like the dress but it just isn’t me and I feel like it...

Onion09, friday 31-Oct-25 9
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How to ask for wedding gift contributions
Missmeeru, 16 December, 2010 at 19:00

Hi I would just like to know how to word how to ask for honeymoon contributions as a wedding gift without sounding cheeky as myself and Husband to be live together and we dont require any bottom...

Markus, wednesday 29-Oct-25 14
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Hen weekend that I wish I had never booked !!!!!! **UPDATE** last page
LittleMissB, 1 February, 2012 at 11:01

So as the title says, I have had to plan and book my own hen weekend (long story), I put down my deposit of £149 and told everyone that their payments are due by the 14th. Ive been chasing them all up...

Markus, thursday 23-Oct-25 31
cford09
Honeymoon gift list wording - HELP!!!
cford09, 18 March, 2012 at 14:41

We have decided to go for a honeymoon gift list for our wedding as we already live together and thought this would be a nice idea rather than the slightly embarrassing option of asking people for cold...

Markus, thursday 23-Oct-25 14
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Gift List wording help please
machollie85, 13 January, 2014 at 14:51

Can anyone help please: I have looked over poems but none really say what we want it to say. We don't want a gift list as don't anything we would rather have the cash to use towards things. NOT VERY...

Andriy, sunday 18-Jan-26 18
vivalasvegas
Asking for contributions towards honeymoon
vivalasvegas, 15 April, 2012 at 08:30

Hi everyone, my H2B and I would like to ask people to contribute towards our honeymoon, rather than buy us gifts, as a) we have lived together for years and have everything we need, and b) live...

Melody, saturday 20-Dec-25 31
Foddette
How do we collect monetary donations from guests? (no gift list)
Foddette, 13 August, 2009 at 12:41

So I've sent out the invites & reminded more distant relatives that H2B & I have lived together for 2.5 years & so won't be needing bits for a new home but would like money towards...

Markus, thursday 23-Oct-25 22
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Celebrant wedding
Shelley, 27 January, 2024 at 22:35

Hello, I like the idea of a celebrant wedding, but do you have to do the legal bit before hand, or can you have a celebrant wedding and get married after ?

Era, saturday 9-May-26 40

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