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Dani
Would you get married on Christmas Day?
Dani, 30 October, 2024 at 11:50

Hey, wedding planning elves! With Christmas around the corner, would you say ‘I do’ while Santa’s on his way? 🎅 Let me know in the comments why you voted a hard no or an easy yes! Next poll: Click to...

No - Festive fun only! 🎉

67%

30 votes

Yes - So magical! 🎄

31%

14 votes

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Dani
What flowers will you have at your wedding? 🌸
Dani, 1 November, 2024 at 14:29

Hey everyone, Happy 1st of November 🌟 We’re kicking off the month with a new Hitched Marketplace highlight, and this time we’re celebrating our incredible florists! From elegant arrangements to bold,...

Bold & bright 💛

6%

1 vote

Classic & simple 🤍

38%

6 votes

Pastel & romantic 💗

50%

8 votes

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Dani
What trend are you’re most excited to see in 2025?
Dani, 8 November, 2024 at 13:39

Here are our top 5 from the 10 wedding trends set to take over in 2025! Want to see what else made the list? Check out our official 2025 Wedding Trends Report here 👇 Vote for your fave or drop a...

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25%

2 votes

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5 votes

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Dani
Sweet tooth calling! What’s your go-to cake flavour? 🍰
Dani, 10 December, 2024 at 11:22

Vote below or suggest flavours in the comments 👇 * * Here’s the icing on the cake: when you reach out to a wedding baker or book through Hitched, you’ll earn entries towards Hitched Rewards - putting...

Strawberries & cream 🍓

12%

3 votes

Carrot cake 🥕

12%

3 votes

Double chocolate 🍫

4%

1 vote

Lemon cake 🍋

32%

8 votes

Salted caramel 🤎

12%

3 votes

Red velvet ❤

24%

6 votes

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Dani
What bridesmaid flowers would you pick for your bestie? 💐
Dani, 14 November, 2024 at 14:50

Hey! Looking for some floral inspo? 🌸 Check out this video for all these dreamy options 👇 Don't forget the Hitched Marketplace is blooming with floral pros! You’re sure to find the perfect match for...

Dried Flowers

0%

0 votes

Baby's Breath

25%

2 votes

Clashing Colours

0%

0 votes

Bright Colours

38%

3 votes

Flower Baskets

25%

2 votes

Bouquet + Bows

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0 votes

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Dani
Have you checked out our deals yet? 👀 Get up to 50% off your wedding!
Dani, 26 November, 2024 at 16:30

Hey savvy savers 💸 Everyone’s talking Black Friday deals, but what about saving BIG on your wedding? Now’s the perfect time to book your vendors - don’t wait, they won’t last! 🖤 Where to find our...

YES! Saved big 💸

40%

2 votes

Not yet! On my way 🏃‍♀️

40%

2 votes

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Dani
Was it love at first sight?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:33

Let’s keep it going with another question in our Love is in the questionn’air’e... So, was it love at first sight or did the sparks fly slowly over time? ⚡️ Vote and share your story in the comments!...

Love at first sight

58%

19 votes

Gradually fell in love

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13 votes

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Dani
Where did you meet?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:33

💌 Kicking things off with the first question in our Love is in the questionn’air’e... Where did you and your partner first cross paths? Give us the details! Vote now & share more in the comments...

School

16%

10 votes

Bar/party

14%

9 votes

Online

31%

20 votes

Work

9%

6 votes

More 👇

28%

18 votes

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Dani
Would you fire a bridesmaid? 👀
Dani, 20 February, 2025 at 10:17

Catch the rest of the Hitched Podcast by clicking the banner below... *** So, is it okay to sack a bridesmaid? 🤔 Vote below and share you thoughts in the comments 👇

Yes, sometimes...

15%

2 votes

No, too harsh!

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0 votes

Depends on the drama

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10 votes

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Dani
What’s the real reason you argue the most?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:34

We’re dying to know more about your love story, in our Love is in the questionn’air’e... What’s the thing you argue about most? Drop a comment and vote below! ✨ *** 👉 Next up: Your top tip for a happy...

Misunderstandings

35%

11 votes

Stubbornness

19%

6 votes

Nonsense

23%

7 votes

More 👇

19%

6 votes

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Dani
What won you over?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:34

Keep it up, we want to know more! Answer our next Love is in the questionn’air’e... What was it that stood out to you first about your partner? Vote and share your thoughts in the comments! ✨ *** 👉...

Kindness

31%

10 votes

Charm

13%

4 votes

Looks

3%

1 vote

Made you laugh

34%

11 votes

More 👇

16%

5 votes

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Dani
Not too late to win! Have you doubled your chances?
Dani, 21 February, 2025 at 15:51

🚨 Time’s running out to win a £25,000 wedding! 🚨 Our biggest competition of the year is still ON, with just over 1 week left! 💜 First things first… have you entered? If not, where have you been?! No...

Yes! I have the app

94%

16 votes

Not yet! Downloading now

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0 votes

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Dani
Which *award-winning* vendor is next on your checklist? 🏆
Dani, Today at 13:54

📣 Listen up, couples! Our biggest Wedding Awards of the year are here, and the winners are in! 🎉 We’re celebrating the best of the best! Top-rated venues and suppliers, chosen by couples like you 🖤...

Venue

33%

1 vote

Photographer

33%

1 vote

Caterer

0%

0 votes

Entertainment

0%

0 votes

Still deciding!

0%

0 votes

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Dani
Your top tip for a happy relationship?
Dani, 14 February, 2025 at 11:34

Last (& most important) question about your love story... What do you think is the real secret to a happy relationship / marriage? Vote and tell us why in the comments! *** We hope you enjoyed...

Trust

26%

11 votes

Respect

12%

5 votes

Communication

40%

17 votes

Love

7%

3 votes

Intimacy

2%

1 vote

Patience

2%

1 vote

More 👇

7%

3 votes

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Barcelona Hen Party - Places to Stay
MoorWedding, 14 November, 2014 at 13:10

Hello I am planning my hen party for the end of July (2015) in Barcelona. There will be 15 of us, and I was wondering if anybody has any recommendations for places to stay. Looking for somewhere close...

Wardah, 3 hours ago 98 4,458 1
Rebecca
Dilemma…
Rebecca, 20 February, 2025 at 17:36

Heyyy all! This is my first post, so I’m hoping to get some help with this dilemma. I am from the UK but my fiancée is from Poland. How do we organise a wedding to incorporate all family as much as...

Mitra, 19 hours ago 3 28
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Photobooth or Flower wall for guests
Tanya, 11 February, 2025 at 16:49

Hey everyone! I could really use your thoughts on something for my wedding. So, I originally booked a photobooth for fun group shots with all the quirky hats and props. But then I thought – I have...

Tanya, yesterday at 16:46 4 46
bliss_balloons
Garden games
bliss_balloons , 21 May, 2015 at 09:45

I can't find anywhere decent to hire them so I've been buying a few but trying to get one's that aren't too expensive and people will actually want to use. Those of you who are are having them what...

Jennifer, saturday 22-Feb-25 7 1,087
charliejack
Wash hair the morning of the wedding?
charliejack, 13 July, 2014 at 15:19

Bit of a no brainer really as i have long fine hair which doesnt hold a curl for long. I wash it every other day and condition only a couple of those times as it weighs my hair down. only problem is...

Dora, saturday 22-Feb-25 26 5,897
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Which one is your favorite wedding dress from Glamlora?
Stasha, 18 February, 2025 at 08:13

I have so many choices of the wedding dress that I can't make a decison, which dress is more attractive? It will be a classic church wedding.

RomanticGreenStation, friday 21-Feb-25 3 18
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Games for family get together!
PenelopeP, 25 September, 2008 at 11:22

We're having a family get together the day before our wedding. Most of our families have never met because mine live abroad. We're getting together in the afternoon for afternoon tea and I was...

Bochenek, friday 21-Feb-25 24 9,200
Veronica
Too cold in Spain in October??
Veronica, 21 February, 2025 at 15:39

Hello, Just need some advice, I was planning to get married in August but it doesn’t look like that’s happening now. I am happy to push back to October but I just wonder if it might be a bit too...

Veronica, friday 21-Feb-25 5
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Do i really need Evening food?!?!
Nikita, 9 January, 2025 at 08:24

I’m a South African getting married in Scotland to my Scottish fiancé and I can’t get my head around evening food?!? We have canapés going out at 2:30pm. Our reception dinner meal and dessert for our...

Aiphotography, friday 21-Feb-25 14 507
miss_winter14
feeling for grooms and best men; written my ruby wedding speech :/
miss_winter14, 10 February, 2015 at 14:25

So i now know how grooms and best men and fobs etc feel. i've written my speech for my parents ruby wedding and i'm convinced it's poo. so i need opinions. please? here it is for you to pick apart for...

Quintan, friday 21-Feb-25 6 1,784
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Hair extensions?
thatlassoverthere, 10 June, 2018 at 17:16

Hi everyone, I'm getting married in Italy this September and want to give some extra length to my shoulder length hair. My hair is quite thick so I'm not worried about volume, but am completely new to...

Insta, friday 21-Feb-25 13 1,308
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2024 Wedding Abroad - Groom/groomsmen help needed!
Audrey, 15 January, 2024 at 15:15

Hi all, looking for help please! We are getting married abroad in 2024 and I am thinking a dark green blazer for the groom with beige/cream trousers. Initially we were thinking all beige suits for the...

Anna, friday 21-Feb-25 3 125
Shantelle
Planning a wedding last minute
Shantelle, 30 January, 2025 at 17:15

Has anyone had experience planning a wedding last minute on a small budget? Very stressed all tips welcome! (Family member very ill with cancer reason for the rush)

Tammy, friday 21-Feb-25 2 34
becca030713
People with school age children getting married on a week day/term time
becca030713, 25 November, 2013 at 13:48

Hi everyone, Is anyone else with children getting married on a week day during term time? To cut a long story short we're getting married on a Thursday and we have a 4 year old son in reception year...

Albert, thursday 20-Feb-25 27 8,222
Joanne
Bridesmaides
Joanne, 20 January, 2025 at 16:41

Hello everyone. I'm having an emotional breakdown. I don't have very many friends let alone a few I would consider close enough to be bridesmaids so I think I'm going to go it alone and not have...

Gillian, thursday 20-Feb-25 36 1,329 3
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Content creator or photographer?
Rebecca, 13 February, 2025 at 11:40

Researching content creators and it’s making me question if having a photographer is important if you have one of these. How often do people pull out their photography albums etc? Pros and cons or...

Hannah, thursday 20-Feb-25 8 66
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How many musicians did you have?
Annabelle, 31 January, 2025 at 13:53

Hi all, I’m trying to work out how many musicians we’d need for our day. We’re having a DJ in the evening (our venue isn’t the best for live bands apparently) but I’d like a live singer or potentially...

Hannah, thursday 20-Feb-25 5 71 1
Fiona
Inspo for inspo!
Fiona, 16 February, 2025 at 19:37

Hi! I’m a new fiancée! Haha. Literally don’t know where to start but keen to get on the bridal bus… Top tips and suggestions please for general places to start! Living in Yorkshire

Hannah, thursday 20-Feb-25 1 12

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