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Music - Inspirational Thread
WinterBride14, 2 April, 2014 at 08:13

Hi My OH & I sat last night trying to find music for 1) the guests to go into 2) music for the bridal party 3) the signing of the register & 4) the recessional & it got me thinking that it...

epeczek, sunday 1-Jun-14 39 4,266
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bridesmaid dresses who pays?
sme33, 1 June, 2014 at 00:28

So were not the richest of people and were looking for paying the majority of the wedding ourselves and trying to save up atm not very successfully so far though but i thought it would be a great...

snow bride, sunday 1-Jun-14 17 3,275
RizzieRazzle
Hello there everyone :) (help?!)
RizzieRazzle, 1 June, 2014 at 00:51

Hi, I'm pretty new around here... set to get married in July 2015, but OH doesn't exactly think I need to be thinking about things "this far in advance"! How did you guys tell them it had to be done...

Minna Rossi Photogra, sunday 1-Jun-14 7 1,389
MissNataliee
Peacock Feathers - Bad Luck???
MissNataliee, 1 June, 2014 at 00:52

Hi all! Since peacocks are a wild bird where I live (and I love the colours), I wanted to use the colours from a peacock feather; Gold, teal, purple, blue and green. My groom told me that he'd heard...

Rosco298, sunday 1-Jun-14 13 37,160
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Pale grey/stone suit
Sbtime, 6 April, 2014 at 09:53

Hi guys, Not sure if anyone can help, but I'm looking for light suits for a summer wedding. I don't want tails etc. - looking for a slightly more informal (but still smart) 3 piece tailored suit in a...

vincent@kmlowry.co.u, saturday 31-May-14 4 6,254
kharding2014
What are you wearing/did you wear to your hen do?
kharding2014, 30 May, 2014 at 13:46

I just received my STD for my Hen Do!! It's a weekend so I'm really hoping that they haven't gone too over the top pr expensive. I've just left them to it. I'm pretty sure that part of the hen will be...

H3LEN, saturday 31-May-14 29 5,738
kharding2014
Reading bad reviews on a venue you have already booked :-(
kharding2014, 30 May, 2014 at 11:02

My venue is already booked, invites are ready to go and suppliers have been booked to come/deliver to our venue so why oh why do I think it's a good idea to read the trip advisor reviews! They aren't...

Superhanka, saturday 31-May-14 17 2,713
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Formal giving away
Kayleymo, 30 May, 2014 at 13:42

I'm having a civil ceremony and in a form I have to complete it's asking if we are having a formal giving away....what is this?

Kayleymo, saturday 31-May-14 7 11,936
alyj66
Modesty panel...update.
alyj66, 8 May, 2014 at 19:34

I had my dress converted from zip to lace up. I prefer the back but wasn't happy with having no modesty panel as it's a bit gaping and it's been niggling away at me. I had a revelation today regarding...

kimiu, saturday 31-May-14 18 3,798
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Cash bar no card payments
SunnyYellowConfetti64, 29 May, 2014 at 13:19

Hi there, We're providing arrival, table and toast drinks but after that guests will pay for their own drinks. I'm trying to find a way of wording that our venue will only take cash payments at the...

nemi, friday 30-May-14 5 2,829
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Petticoats - help please!
nixy3, 30 May, 2014 at 09:10

We bought our girls bridesmaids dresses yesterday, but they need an underskirt/petticoat underneath them to fluff them up a bit. Would prefer not to use hoops as they drive them mad enough in their...

nixy3, friday 30-May-14 6 1,405
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Make your own sundae bar -- HELP NEEDED!!!
lauren_448, 24 May, 2014 at 22:03

Hi everyone, I am planning to have a 'make your own sundae bar' as dessert for our summer wedding (28th July) however am really having problems finding tall ice cream sundae glasses to hire. I need...

lauren_448, thursday 29-May-14 22 5,478
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help - struggling with colour and hunt/shooting theme
ExpensiveBrownDiamonds61, 28 May, 2014 at 14:15

Hi i am really struggling to choose a colour for my wedding in september. i was looking at sage green with possibly a royal blue and maybe use some sunflowers but not sure they go together. my...

ExpensiveBrownDiamon, thursday 29-May-14 28 3,517
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Wearing The Dress Twice? Be seen in it Before the 'Real' Wedding?
CristaMB, 28 May, 2014 at 17:36

Hi there,. I've posted on here already about how my partner and I are from different countries (so our families live in 2 different European countries) and my FIL2B is very ill. At first we were going...

yorkshirekiwi, thursday 29-May-14 11 2,699
mooshy
** Mooshy's wedding report **
mooshy, 27 May, 2014 at 20:31

I apologize in advance for the fact that I waffle, swear and probably flash too much! I understand if you just look at the photos and skip the reading. If any of you want the short version it's on...

Lorns, thursday 29-May-14 31 4,429
EdenNI
Where did you get your bridesmaid dresses?
EdenNI, 28 May, 2014 at 21:10

Hi ladies, I'm having real trouble finding bridesmaid dresses for my sister, friend and 13 year old niece! My dress is the Jenny Packham Eden dress in platinum and is pretty vintage looking so lots of...

Sazzle24, wednesday 28-May-14 6 1,374
pink & glitz
bridesmaid turning into a nightmare!
pink & glitz, 13 May, 2014 at 18:49

I thought the whole process of organising my wedding was going to be easy, if only! I showed my bridesmaid a photo of the colour of dress I want her to wear, length doesn't really matter and explained...

Sazzle24, wednesday 28-May-14 26 3,951
lovelaurajane
Midweek wedding negatives
lovelaurajane, 26 May, 2014 at 14:26

Hi all, We were really shocked at how far ahead everything is booked... and so have thought that we'll go for a Thursday wedding as we want to get married next year. I can only really see positives...

SillyWrong, wednesday 28-May-14 24 3,197
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How many songs for registry office?
thewanderingwebster, 28 May, 2014 at 11:12

We'll be putting our songs together soon and are getting married in a registry office. Do you know how many songs we'll need? I'm guessing it's for guests waiting, walking in, signing register,...

Trish2014, wednesday 28-May-14 1 2,672
lovelaurajane
Wedding insurance recommendations
lovelaurajane, 26 May, 2014 at 14:23

Hi all! My first purchase of course is going to be wedding insurance! I'm looking and they all seem pretty similar, any to avoid? Any recommendations? Thank you! Laura

MartinC Photography, wednesday 28-May-14 3 1,866
MadamRed
If money was no object
MadamRed, 27 May, 2014 at 14:39

OH and I were having a chat about how we'd love to win the lottery so we didn't have to worry about money for the Big Day, and I realised that, actually, if money was no object there's very little...

MrsBurton2015, wednesday 28-May-14 24 2,436
InkedDoll
Bouquet Photo Charms
InkedDoll, 27 May, 2014 at 10:59

Can anyone who's having/had a photo charm in their bouquet please post where they got/are getting them from? I've tried a forum search in case this has been covered recently, but searching for a two...

Melancholie, wednesday 28-May-14 7 3,824
MrsBoo
Surprise Hen do reveal!
MrsBoo, 27 May, 2014 at 17:55

So excited...my 3 bridesmaids are on there way over for a catch up...and they have my hen do all booked and paid for so are going to tell me when and what it is!! ?

donnyette, tuesday 27-May-14 6 2,080
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Personalised pack of tissues...opinions please
Mrsbushelltobe, 27 May, 2014 at 17:10

I've been thinking of getting personalised packs of tissues made up, and put on each chair for the ceremony. Cute or Cringey? Should i only bother with close family or the whole wedding party???

Mrsbushelltobe, tuesday 27-May-14 9 3,389
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Planning a Wedding When Family Member Diagnosed Terminally Ill
CristaMB, 16 May, 2014 at 17:49

Hello, I wonder if anyone can relate or offer advice. My father-in-law2B who lives abroad was diagnosed with a brain tumour 6 months ago. My fiance had proposed and in our minds we'd planned a short...

kimiu, tuesday 27-May-14 23 16,851
smokesignal
Is Lightinthebox.com horribly unethical?
smokesignal, 26 May, 2014 at 11:53

I've heard quite good things about light in the box, quality wise, and I really like the idea of having either the same bridesmaid dress in lots of different shades, or different dresses in exactly...

MOMB, tuesday 27-May-14 13 6,639
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Hen party bags
future.mrs.c, 25 May, 2014 at 20:09

Hi everyone, Anyone who's done hen party bags, did they go down well? What has everyone put in them? Thank you

Chucklevision, monday 26-May-14 5 1,157 1
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How did you choose your venue....HELP!!
MrsW2b2016, 25 May, 2014 at 18:19

Hey everyone, Me and OH went looking at venue's yesterday and fell in love with one of them At the time OH told me he doesn't want to look at the rest we have booked (quite a few over the next couple...

MrsBurton2015, monday 26-May-14 6 1,014
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wedding night with kids
conway13, 24 May, 2014 at 22:54

Hi everyone, me and fiancée were just having a discussion about our wedding night and what we will do with our 3 kids aged 8,6 & 2 on that night. We having our reception at an hotel and we have a...

becca030713, sunday 25-May-14 8 4,317
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Paying for Bridesmaids?!! **Updated**
Brooksy, 19 May, 2014 at 16:38

I am going to be a bridesmaid for my brothers partner later this year, she has asked us to buy our own bridesmaids dresses, which in theory I am fine with as my logic was 'I would be buying a new...

RoseArcana, sunday 25-May-14 53 5,518
SakuraYuna
Venues with an extra room?
SakuraYuna, 24 May, 2014 at 09:59

Hi I haven't really started planning my wedding yet, we're looking at 2017! I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice on this though. I love the idea of having a main room, and then a small...

MOMB, sunday 25-May-14 8 1,407
Mrs.K2b
Who gets a buttonhole??
Mrs.K2b, 24 May, 2014 at 22:10

So after having a few weeks off from wedding planning, I've thrown myself back into it to try and get the rest of the main things booked - florist, cake, band and cars. I emailed the florist with our...

MrsGreen-27/9/14, sunday 25-May-14 10 4,445

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