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Rima
Hitched Panel & £50 Voucher for You! 💜
Rima, 5 May, 2026 at 09:23

We’re looking for couples currently planning their wedding to take part in a short, friendly online panel taking place this week 💜 We’d love to hear about your experience planning your wedding, how...

JerrySmith, thursday 22-Oct-26 69 1,111 11
Nenas
Lottery ticket favours
Nenas, 12 October, 2011 at 20:13

We're planning to get lottery tickets for everyone's favours. We had these at one of our friend's weddings last year and liked the idea. we didn't win anything but it was fun none the less! Anyway,...

Brocoflix, an hour ago 61 13,886
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Street food
Kelly, 29 July, 2023 at 16:07

Hi, we are looking at having street food vans for our food at the reception. Does anyone have experience of this, like what works/doesn’t? Do I need more than one van? Do I need ‘inside’ food as well?...

Practice, 2 hours ago 41 445
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Advice on garden/backyard reception, please!
joobs85, 31 July, 2014 at 17:28

Hi all, new member here. Me and my boyfriend are in the very early stages of planning a low key, low budget wedding for next year (May or September). Neither of us are particularly fancy people and my...

Wikay, 3 hours ago 33 3,571 1
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11.30am ceremony help!
HappyPurpleDiamonds4245, 15 February, 2018 at 17:43

Hi all, I’m looking for some advice. Me and my H2B have decided to have a bit of a last minute wedding and get married this September. We’ve found a beautiful venue at a considerable discount so I’m...

Garedol, 4 hours ago 4 868
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Hen Do London
Joanna, 27 February, 2025 at 12:29

Hi all! We have a couple of activities in London booked for my hen do, but trying to find a good restaurant for in between. Can anyone recommend anything, for around 8pm near the Waterloo side of...

Terry, yesterday at 23:13 2 22
Elixia
giving notice 4 1/2 months before isn't too late is it?
Elixia, 9 October, 2013 at 19:40

I just need a slap in the face, but i know how councils are .... sloooooooooooooooooow

Aspire, yesterday at 22:05 13 1,628
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Urgently looking for student videographer in Central Scotland
HappyBlueBridesmaid714, 11 September, 2018 at 00:17

Hi I wonder if you can point me in the right direction. I’m getting married in 3 and a half weeks and have been unfortunately let down my my videographer at the last minute. I am now unable to get one...

Carson, yesterday at 21:19 555
Charliebob
Expectations Vs. Reality - Selling Wedding Items On..
Charliebob, 8 April, 2016 at 09:22

I just wanted to start a discussion about it and see what other views and opinions other people have. I am not intending to upset anyone, but it's just something I have noticed whilst wedding...

Jimmy, yesterday at 21:16 14 2,408
lc93
Meeting with the vicar this evening!
lc93, 19 March, 2014 at 12:31

Hi all, we have our meeting with the vicar at the church we want to marry in this evening. I'm quite nervous!!! Could anyone who's done this already maybe advise what you think I should be wearing and...

UncommonGuy, yesterday at 20:29 5 1,937
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wedding cake
Lou37, 1 November, 2016 at 12:11

Hi I just dont know what to do about the wedding cake! Never really thought it was a biggy in terms of other things for the wedding. I would like chocolate sponge as hate fruit cake but H2B says if...

Kennath, yesterday at 20:19 19 1,753 1
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Wedding entertainment
Jaison, 20 November, 2023 at 18:46

First time posting here but of a long post, and this is so far from tradition, so my fiancée actually proposed to me, so me the groom is currently planning out wedding, I’m trying so hard I feel like...

Sezonios, yesterday at 20:17 8 447 2
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Help...No Speeches - Ideas please?
ExpensivePinkStationery301, 22 May, 2015 at 01:16

Hi All! I am the groom to the wedding and I will be totally honest I am a total wreck about making a speech, I suffer with social anxiety. My wedding is over 12 months away and I already cant sleep...

UncommonGuy, yesterday at 18:03 12 4,277
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What should Father of the bride wear?
Stephanie, 15 October, 2024 at 12:17

Hi All - currently discussing what my dad should wear to the wedding! He's retired military so offered to wear his RAF number ones, but we're not sure if he should wear that or match the groomsman??...

UncommonGuy, yesterday at 18:01 3 169
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How far in advance to book?
HappyBlueHair179, 16 August, 2015 at 22:12

Hi all. How far in advance did everyone book in advance for their weddings? In wondering how long is too long. Thankyou.

UncommonGuy, yesterday at 17:36 14 5,454
Catherine
Servers
Catherine, 12 December, 2023 at 21:14

Does anyone know of any servers in the Hertfordshire area. We have caterers but no one to serve the food and drink. Wedding is May 26 2024. TIA

Hamilton, yesterday at 17:15 1 51
Ben
I'm looking for simple and fun games
Ben, 25 October, 2025 at 18:26

I'm looking for simple and fun games to pass the evening and cheer myself up.

Daily, yesterday at 16:29 326 3,369 8
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Help please! Grandma problems
HollyHavisham, 11 January, 2018 at 21:37

Hello all! I'm going you can advise. Our wedding is set for March 2020 but I'm already having sleepless nights about my grandma (mum's side) Long story short, my parents are divorced and my maternal...

Emma, yesterday at 15:44 6 1,394
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Hi all
Dawn, 30 March, 2024 at 20:21

Is everyone partners getting involved with all the prep

Emma, yesterday at 15:43 9 253
Caroline
Electronic Invites
Caroline, 9 April, 2025 at 17:28

Hi I've recently set up our website, I'm trying to understand how to send electronic invites and if I can customise them . I can see how you add names to the guest list and it provides a generic...

Yaseen, yesterday at 15:08 29 211 1
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Wedding Favours
Natalie_G123, 29 June, 2017 at 10:52

Hi everyone, Is anybody doing wedding favours for the tables? Struggling to think of different favours that my guests will actually enjoy receiving!! Any help and ideas would be very much appreciated!...

Emma, yesterday at 14:56 24 4,326
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reply slips/wedding food choices wording help wanted!
beckyakabetty, 13 September, 2008 at 14:48

I have a menu for the reception and need to tell guests the choices of food available also want to incorporate music requests, reply slip (eg if they are coming or not). Has anyone got any examples...

Project, yesterday at 14:53 48 3,619
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Not Invited to a cousin's wedding when we've invited them
Tegfan, 25 March, 2018 at 21:37

Hi All, We sent out our Save the Dates very early on in the wedding planning as I was very excited and we're getting married on a Sunday and my H2B's family will all have to travel for it so we wanted...

UncommonGuy, yesterday at 14:19 7 3,491
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Village hall reception
RomanticGingerDesire, 26 October, 2015 at 11:41

Is anyone planning their reception in a village hall We are trying to keep costs low Our wedding is next November & want to go for an afternoon tea/vintage theme serving traditional pie &...

Garedol, yesterday at 14:07 15 1,641
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Church door arch flowers
Nibbler, 24 January, 2018 at 09:18

Hello! First post here, hope someone can help. I am over a year into planning for my August 2018 wedding. We are getting married in a little Victorian re-styled Norman CoE church near our home. It's a...

Davina, yesterday at 13:28 2 2,037
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Altering neckline of dress?
PengAly, 2 September, 2016 at 11:27

Hi everyone! I have found THE DRESS (Yaaay!) I got if "off the peg" from Wed2B so I took it home that same day but wedding isn't until May 2017 so it is safety being stored in the bag until I get it...

Garedol, yesterday at 13:25 6 6,127
LeedsBride
Poem for my husband-to-be
LeedsBride, 26 September, 2012 at 20:11

I just wanted to share this poem I'm putting inside my card to H2B, I found most of it on another site, but have tweaked and written a bit myself so its personal to us. My darling --------, we shall...

Garedol, yesterday at 13:14 1 3,245
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Not too riske hen party game ideas
Sparkly, 25 February, 2010 at 20:46

Hi all! Not a regular hitcher here - am usually found on Babytalk. It's my sister's hen party this weekend and as chief BM I guess I am responsible for the event. I was looking for some not too riske...

Nathalia, yesterday at 13:11 164 34,550
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Furniture hire for diy reception
glaelia, 27 September, 2010 at 22:49

Hi there, looking for some advice re hiring chairs, tables, linens and crockery/cutlery etc for my wedding on 01/10/11. We're doing a DIY reception at a lovely village hall, and looking to be able to...

Harry, yesterday at 12:50 262 2,439
1stBaby
Canapes...how many per guest?
1stBaby, 1 November, 2008 at 18:59

As the post really...how many canapes should we allow for each guest? Thanks in advance =0)

Elara, yesterday at 12:19 29 14,571
Hannah
Is Your Dog Attending Your Wedding?!
Hannah, 18 March, 2022 at 10:08

Morning all! I'm Hannah the Community Manager At Hitched! Wanted to jump on and wish everyone a great weekend! We are currently doing some research on dogs at weddings (we've seen a HUGE trend in...

Emma, yesterday at 12:14 11 161
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Is it feasible to alter Justin Alexander 8878?
DebbieW, 25 December, 2017 at 07:44

I'm in love with JA 8878 online (https://www.justinalexander.com/en/justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/8878/) and found a good bargain on Ebay. I'm usually UK size 8 but I think the dress I...

Sneha, yesterday at 12:08 1 591

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