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Hi, What did you do with your wedding dress after your wedding? We got married on Saturday and it's just been hanging up on the curtain rail since, I don't really have anywhere to store it so hoping...

Just a thought, what do you reckon happens on the evening itself if someone turns up with a plus one (and they were supposed to be just by themselves). Do the venue clock guests in? I’m sure it won’t...

Hi wondering if anyone has not had bridesmaid to keep wedding cost down? We are looking for ways to cut the cost, up to now we have took wedding favours off and button holes. I would like to have...

Hi all Is anyone planning on having any music live or otherwise played during your wedding breakfast? Someone told me recently this was the best part of their wedding! TIA x

Hi, any advice welcome… I’m unsure what to do the night before my wedding. I’m either staying at the venue or at home with my 2 step daughters, who are teenagers!

How long before the wedding are people having their Hen/Stag Do? I don't want it too close but I don't want it too far before either.

Hello all. Just wondering if anyone is not having speeches and how you feel about them? I know my Dad would hate to do one. I am wondering if h2b and I could do a joint one just to basically thank...

So my top table will be myself & H2B, maid of honour, best maid & my parents. Sadly H2B’s parents have both passed away. I don’t want the top table to look heavily weighted on my side so I’m...

Hi all, Can anyone recommend any good UK websites for wedding invitations please? TIA xx

I am starting to panic that I have too many bridesmaids and will look silly and will cost a bomb in gifts etc. I have 8 bridesmaids, no flower girls just my son as page boy. Is 8 too many or am I...

Has anyone please got any recommendations for where to buy bridesmaid dresses from please??!! I have 5 bridesmaids, 1 of them is our daughter who will be 14 when we get married. I have searched a lot...

Oh well my wedding is of what a horrible 2 weeks its been x

Does anyone have advice on difficult in-laws, especially from a culture/ age group stance?

Hi everyone I'm getting married next year, and think I've found the dress. It's from a designer I've always loved and I'm absolutely blowing the budget, but I've made my peace with that as I love the...

Hi everyone. I’m a bit worried about the fact my dress has been ordered by the shop way too big. So I’m a uk size 10 top and 12 bottom, and have been since around age 13 😬 my ‘made to measure’ dress...

So, we are an older couple getting married and we have all we need. Is it too rude to ask for cash 💸 rather than gift cards that you may not be able to use? I would rather they donate to charity but...

Hey everyone! Firstly thank you for reading. I'd love some advice and inspiration as me and my fiance are feeling a bit 'stuck' planning the order of the day and would love to hear any ideas based on...

Hi all, Apologies for the slightly self-indulgent post (and sorry if this bums anyone out!) but would love any advice / input from anyone else getting married in Autumn / winter this year. I'm having...

My fiancé's ex wife has bought the same wedding dress as me for her wedding next year. I have suddenly gone off it, surprising? Think not! Has this happened to anyone else? Oh well, another fun...

Is there any reason why I shouldn’t get married on good Friday? Will it be difficult find suppliers for a bank holiday or anything like that? Thanks Steph

Hi I’m planning my wedding and really need your opinions. We have decided to have a small ceremony and meal with just immediate family on the day we get married and a big party to celebrate with wider...

Is it normal to feel sick with nerves when planning a wedding (just every now and again) It just feels such a big expensive thing. It makes me nervous. Is it just me 😖

Hi all, After a little guidance. My wedding is taking place on a Beach in the Maldives, which is from photos a Sandy beach. I’m torn what would be the best footwear for the ceremony. I’m a typical...

So here goes… Me and my partner are getting married in 2023 and have been planning our guest list ready to send out save the dates. Well recently we’ve had a lot of important things going on in our...

Hello all, First time poster. So, we are having a relatively small ceremony and wedding breakfast with around 45 people. We are having the ceremony at a registry office then going to my family farm...

I'm really worried about being ill on my wedding day so I've decided I need to become a hermit for the next two weeks. But I live with people who go out often so I'll still be worried...