Discussions I've Participated In

Myself and fiance are planning to get married February 2023! We don't like the idea of a big wedding - it's just not us! But a lot of family and my best friend WILL be very upset and hurt at not...

Hi, I was hoping for some advice, I’m getting married next year and have chosen my bridesmaids, one of them is my cousin (we are four years apart in age) However my other auntie has asked my mum if...

Hi all, Possibly a slightly unique situation but I’m hoping someone might have some ideas to help. I’m having trouble with sorting out the top table. My H2B mum sadly died last year, and one of my...

Hi! Do you think guests really care about welcome drinks and canapés? It would save us £1000 without them!

Hey everyone, When did you all send your save the dates? I've googled it and some say 6 months some say 1 year? I like to be super organised so I want to do mine a year in advance but is that too...

So I’m debating with myself about whether to have bridesmaids or not. We’re planning a wedding without a lot of the tradition, ie no first dance, no speeches, I don’t want my Dad to walk down the...

So ive chosen my dress, it is not until april 2023 but it has been discontinued and loved it so much i didnt want to miss out! It is a bit quirky, white background but has a floral pattern. Our colour...

I've had a lot of people trying to input on my wedding and it's caused so much stress so I thought I'd ask here. My fiancé and I are not wanting the meal after the ceremony due to getting married in...

Okay, so I'm gonna book my appointment in - eek! I have some dresses that I've fallen in love with and my local boutique stocks them so I am excited to try... however... I've heard a rumour that dress...

I'm really struggling to find a venue for 2024. We have agreed a summer wedding but for only 45 guests, however most venues are saying 80 - 100 minimum, we haven't got big families or hundreads of...

Ugh, FMIL. So, FH and I had been talking about getting married for a while - knew exactly where we wanted to get married, when, and pretty much the guestlist. We want fun and intimate, immediate...

Hi, so my OH an I were originally supposed to be getting married in 2020 but then Covid hit and as with lots of couples we had to postpone. We are now booked in to be married on 27th August this year,...

A few days ago my incredible boyfriend proposed to me, he was very focused on keeping it a surprise, which he succeeded however it meant that I ruined my own proposal, I wasn’t feeling well or in a...

Obviously Covid is a major factor when booking travel so we have decided to stay in the UK for our honeymoon. Does anybody have any recommendations? Hopefully we get some lovely weather this summer🤞🏾...

Hi all, I have a dilemma about my bridal party. I am lucky enough to have five very close friends, one of them who I have grown up with and is like a sister and my mums second daughter. Early on I...

Hello bit of a sad complicated one. My little girl passed away and ideal world would have been my flower girl. I don’t plan on having anyone else fill that place. But want to do something in memory at...

Hello! Any suggestions of fantastic places to look at wedding dresses in the west midlands area? Would be amazing if I could get a few places in the same area so we can hit them on the same day!...

What do people normally do?! Is it normal to take out a loan? Family help? Savings? (We have no savings 😞) Just wondering how realistically we would pay for a wedding! Wanting to get married in 2023...

Hi all, We've only been engaged for a month with a wedding date of August 2023. Thinking we had a lot of time to plan and get organised we went to a wedding fair to hear that couple have started...

Hello! We got engaged 2.5 weeks ago but are already looking at venues to book ready for October 2023. With a wedding 2 years away, I'm wondering, how soon is too soon to ask people to be bridesmaids?...