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Valyria
Valyria

Sharpthorne, West Sussex · From June 2023

Pale Victorian ghost child vibe, dark sense of humour, not your average bride type.

🕐 Wedding Countdown...

27 October, 2026

192days 3hours : 13min
Aimee
Bridesmaids
Aimee, 20 February, 2025 at 17:03

Hi, Me and my partner are getting married in May next year and we are stuck on bridesmaid costs. Does anyone have advice on who pays for dresses/hair/makeup? Thanks,Aimee

Momina, thursday 16-Apr-26 22 1
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Brides maids Dressed
Anya, 26 January, 2025 at 01:29

Hi, Has anyone tried the company Ever Pretty to get brides maids dresses? Any suggestions of other places with similar styles would also be appreciated

Lexie, thursday 25-Dec-25 7
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Do i really need Evening food?!?!
Nikita, 9 January, 2025 at 08:24

I’m a South African getting married in Scotland to my Scottish fiancé and I can’t get my head around evening food?!? We have canapés going out at 2:30pm. Our reception dinner meal and dessert for our...

Mini, tuesday 3-Mar-26 153
Valyria
Dress Code - Polite request
Valyria, 7 February, 2025 at 08:32

Hi Everyone, I just need some advice for a moment as myself and my FH have a difference of opinion on this. We are getting married around Halloween 2026 and having what I am calling an 'opulent...

Mohsin, tuesday 7-Apr-26 45 1
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Would you hire high end faux flowers, or buy a preserved bridal bouquet?
Grace, 28 January, 2025 at 14:03

Hello everyone! I am a trained florist and so sick of the expense and unsustainability of fresh flowers! I ONLY work with preserved and high-end naturalistic faux. I am setting up a floral hire...

Aylinalily, thursday 20-Feb-25 19 3
Alice
Help in finding a black dress!
Alice, 16 February, 2025 at 20:58

Hi everyone - I’d love your help! I get married next May, and I’ve started the journey of finding an outfit for the big day. I’m not an ultra-feminine person, but I’m 90% sure it’ll be a dress I’ll be...

Block, friday 28-Nov-25 10
Valyria
Not having wedding favours
Valyria, 16 July, 2023 at 20:24

Hi All, Is it unusual to not have wedding favours on the tables for guests? if I am being honest it just seems like an unnecessary expense after everything else we're having to pay out for. We're not...

Duncan, wednesday 12-Mar-25 24
Lucy
Save the Date’s
Lucy, 13 October, 2024 at 14:54

Hi all, I’m getting married in March 2026, and wondering when would be the best time to send the Save the Dates? It’s so exciting so I feel as though I want to send them as soon as I can, but the...

Kubby, thursday 21-Nov-24 11 1
Jazmyn
2026 Wedding
Jazmyn, 15 May, 2024 at 15:25

Hi All, we booked our wedding venue for October 2026 and I am so super excited to start planning. Is it too soon to start booking our suppliers? We have our DJ and currently on the search for a...

Haily5, thursday 19-Mar-26 18 1
Sara
Toxic friendship
Sara, 13 May, 2024 at 00:23

Evening so I’m getting married in 14 days, and I haven’t spoken to this friend for a month, I’ve known this friend for 35 years we been to the same schools, collage, we had the same friends, Ive been...

Jeffrey, monday 26-Jan-26 30 1
Chantelle
Alternative Dresses!
Chantelle, 13 May, 2024 at 13:08

Hi, I'm getting married Halloween 2026 and looking for an alternative wedding dress that is plus size and it seems to be impossible! I don't want a black dress, I want something white but with some...

Chantelle, monday 15-Dec-25 22
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Speeches - no best man/bridesmaids
Isabel, 18 December, 2023 at 15:07

Have just started wedding planning and my partner and I aren’t planning on having bridesmaids/groomsmen. I know my partner is pretty self conscious about this. I’ve suggested that we both invite...

Electric, monday 5-Jan-26 5
Valyria
Dried Flowers
Valyria, 29 December, 2023 at 19:14

Hey everyone! I was wondering if anyone has done dried flowers for their weddings, and if so who you went to for them? I've seen a company called hidden botanics online, but just wanted to see if...

Valyria, friday 29-Dec-23 28
Vanessa
Double-barrelled surname
Vanessa, 12 October, 2023 at 15:26

Hi everyone, I'm getting married and I'm thinking of having a double-barrelled surname to keep my current surname and also have the surname of my husband to be. My surname is Richter and his surname...

Thomas, friday 30-Jan-26 8
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Feeling let down by friends
Jessica, 18 September, 2023 at 13:50

Hello all, Hope you are all well. First time posting! Bit of a longer read. Sorry I got engaged on the 11th of August 2023, was over the moon, taken by surprise, but it was all pretty perfect. Of...

Katrina, friday 29-Dec-23 27 5
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My perfect wedding venue
Jodie, 29 November, 2023 at 12:03

Hi I’m struggling to find my perfect venue, I would like something that looks like a Manor House with a marquee but big enough to hold 300 guest I would love to get married outside also

Katrina, sunday 4-Feb-24 19 1
Abigail
Getting Started
Abigail, 1 December, 2023 at 14:42

Hi! My fiancé and I have been together 6 1/2 years and are only recently engaged. We think it’ll be a few years until we finally have a wedding but would like to be prepared. I know it must sound...

Valyria, saturday 2-Dec-23 1
Jessica
Alternative Wedding Dress
Jessica, 10 September, 2023 at 19:48

Hello I was wondering if anyone had any recommendations on where I could go to find a black wedding dress. I don’t want a traditional white wedding & set on the dress being black. Any other...

KATHRYN, thursday 9-Nov-23 15 2
Sarah
Wedding insurance
Sarah, 6 October, 2023 at 12:37

Hi everyone, We have recently booked our venue for July 2026 I'm struggling to find wedding insurance because of the length of time until the wedding. Has anyone found insurance that covers over 2...

Mr David, wednesday 25-Feb-26 4
April
Bridesmaid can only come solo to overseas wedding and just for wedding day not welcome party or after party
April, 21 October, 2023 at 08:38

Am I in my rights to feel upset?

Burtion, wednesday 8-Nov-23 9 2
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Best man’s fiancé not invited to wedding
Blake, 24 October, 2023 at 07:58

Hello all. I need some brutally honest opinions. If you were the finance of a best man, but not invited to the said wedding, would you be happy inviting that couple that snubbed you to your own...

Lisa, monday 6-Nov-23 6
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Selling wedding dress
Chantelle, 30 September, 2023 at 20:53

Where’s best to sell my wedding dress?

Andriy, monday 12-Aug-24 1
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Photographer - Lack of communication
Hannah&Andrew, 31 October, 2023 at 09:21

Hi everyone! After a bit of advice, we are getting married in September 2025 and have booked our photographer. However, we've realised that the photographer lacks communication. We have emailed and...

Sophie, tuesday 14-Apr-26 11
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Venue question- budget related.
Poppy-Florence, 21 January, 2023 at 08:23

Morning everyone! I hope you don't mind me jumping in with both feet. I want to ask those who have already booked or chosen their venue- is your venue your dream venue? I live in an expensive part of...

Vicky, monday 11-Sep-23 10 1
Charlie
1 room venue decorating
Charlie, 8 September, 2023 at 12:18

Hi all, I need some help please. My Fiancé and I have booked our reception venue this will be used for our wedding breakfast and our evening celebrations as we hope to get married in a church. The...

SL WaltonJones, tuesday 7-Nov-23 3
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Table Number
Louise, 8 September, 2023 at 21:12

Hey everyone! Wondered if you could help! I’ve found these table numbers whilst i was endlessly scrolling instragram and wondered if anyone could tell me what they are are called, it’s a solid wood...

PhotographybyBillHad, friday 8-Sep-23 2
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Bridesmaid dresses
Tish, 7 July, 2022 at 13:04

Hi all, Has anyone had experience with buying bridesmaid dresses online? These particular shops, Stacees, Cincinia, Mix Bridal, are overseas and I’ve seen a lot of mixed reviews which is a pain. Our...

Lexie, wednesday 24-Dec-25 9
Kate
Wedding Insurance
Kate, 22 July, 2023 at 13:31

Having just read an article on this very website, it suggests that wedding insurance is something often overlooked by couples planning. After a very brief look into it, I wasn’t able to find any...

Trinh56, thursday 22-Jan-26 10 2
Chantelle
Lgbtq+ Halloween Wedding!
Chantelle, 8 August, 2023 at 15:11

Hi Everyone, I'm Chantelle (she/her) & engaged to Kirsty (they/them). We're planning on getting married on Halloween 2026 which feels ages away but I know it's going to fly by so I'm already...

Valyria, monday 14-Aug-23 7
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Sister in Law Dilema
Romanticgoldconfetti36665, 1 August, 2023 at 16:22

AITB… okay, so me and my partner have been together for 6 years. We originally were supposed to get engaged 3 years ago but put it off due to his brother cancelling his wedding last minute....

Sophie, sunday 20-Aug-23 11 1
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Has anyone bought a veil from lovespell bridal full price and how much did it cost?
Adele, 25 July, 2023 at 10:55

If you havnt , how much have you spent on your wedding veil?

Hectoramuts, thursday 27-Jul-23 1

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