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Caserne1830

London Bridge, East Central London · From January 2026

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7 August, 2026

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Bridesmaids? Ushers?
Amnesia180, 1 March, 2011 at 09:18

Hi All, I am new to the forums and have joined after finding lots of useful information here. I have a question regarding the roles of Bridesmaids and Ushers because I have been getting a lot of...

Blufx, yesterday at 23:26 6
I am starting to hate my house
, 12 May, 2009 at 13:04

Has anyone else fallen out of love with their house? Our house needed a lot of work doing to it when we bought it and for that reason we got it for a good price, otherwise we could never have afforded...

Ishaa, 3 hours ago 16
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OM's How long did you wait for your photographs - getting impatient!!
Kilner, 28 August, 2015 at 17:11

Hi Our photographer said we should receive the photos in 4 weeks. It has been 4 and a half weeks now although she did email me today and say we should get them by 18th September!! She has been...

Mich12, tuesday 15-Sep-26 14
MrsBoo
How long to give guests to RSVP?
MrsBoo, 4 May, 2014 at 16:33

Our final details meeting at the venue won't be until about 4 weeks before the wedding so the end of October but our invitations are going out the beginning of July. How long are you all giving your...

Danielparker, saturday 19-Sep-26 20
VikingPrincess
Invites wording when reception is at the same location as ceremony - help!
VikingPrincess, 2 January, 2011 at 00:53

Hi all, As it says above -how do you word it? All the samples I have read say "...to celebrate their marriage at xx:xx, on xx xxx xxxx, at XXXXXXXXXXXX followed by a reception at XXXXXXXX" or similar....

Caserne1830, saturday 5-Sep-26 17
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How long to wait for a reply?
Christine, 6 September, 2023 at 12:24

Myself and my partner really want this particular band to play at our wedding. My partner contacted them through an online enquiry form which they replied to promptly, my partner however wasn't so...

Julia, sunday 6-Sep-26 22
blossom1985
Sending out invitations and RSVP Deadline
blossom1985, 22 August, 2011 at 23:00

I am trying to get organised and give myself some time frames. My wedding is 29th January 2012 which is a Sunday so I want to send out my invitations to give people plenty of time to make arrangements...

Bhata, thursday 24-Sep-26 23
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Cake maker not responding
Future Mrs J, 21 April, 2024 at 21:08

Hi, we’re getting married in less than 3 weeks and we’re getting a little worried about our cake. We booked with our cake maker in summer last year. At the time of booking they were a little slow to...

Anderson, saturday 22-Aug-26 16
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Wedding venue won't respond to me!
a-cheap-date, 15 November, 2013 at 13:30

We thought we had found our dream venue in Cheshire - lovely barn and for 100 day guests having 3-courses and the usual drinks plus 130 evening guests all catered for it came in at £4,450!!! I don't...

Ikw12, saturday 15-Aug-26 23
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Traditional Wedding Ceremony
Abi, 1 February, 2026 at 22:57

I’m sure I’m not the only one looking for threads specifically related to the different ceremonies that take place in the Yoruba (Nigerian) culture. There’s so much to think about, considering there’s...

Speaker, monday 7-Sep-26 12
momai
Photographers
momai, 22 February, 2024 at 10:28

Photographers - how do you know that they are good and that your not going to get ripped off with a rubbish one?

Malik, wednesday 16-Sep-26 23
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Please HELP!! How do you have 3 people giving you away?????
zo-bud, 29 March, 2012 at 10:48

This is something that is causing me alot of stress and upset at the moment! Basically my initial senario was - I have a Dad, a step Dad and my grandad, and I made the initial decision of asking my...

Sabir, wednesday 16-Sep-26 23
missqueenvee
Advice for slow replying venues etc
missqueenvee, 23 July, 2015 at 18:56

Hi ! Just wanted some quick advice, ive booked my venue, my reception venue and my room dresser. The reception venue take AGES to reply to emails, sometimes up to a month. Would you class this as...

Beetv, thursday 10-Sep-26 35
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Assumption of a 'Plus One'
homespunbride, 16 May, 2014 at 17:31

I have a bit of a problem which I need serious help in approaching without offending anyone. I've just sent out our wedding invitations, one of which is an old friend of mine whom lives a good 3 hour...

Jerry Jacks, sunday 23-Aug-26 27
Secret Lemonade Drinker
Help with responding to interview feedback
Secret Lemonade Drinker, 29 January, 2009 at 17:34

I've just received possibly the best rejection letter in the world. I went for a job interview on Tuesday afternoon for a role that I really, really wanted (it was my dream job, quite literally). I'm...

Nancy, wednesday 19-Aug-26 25
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RSVPs - how to ask for menu choices?
Purplecake, 17 February, 2015 at 12:02

Hiya, i know there's been a lot of invitation Qs recently so i hope not to bore you..but how do you stipulate you need menu choices for all the guests invited on that invite when they send their...

Sanchizes, thursday 27-Aug-26 21
Meabh
How do i send my Rsvp's now, and then send a menu and get responses at a later date?
Meabh, 27 May, 2024 at 22:08

Hi there I am getting married in a year but want to send my RSVP's now as the wedding is abroad. However, I can't see a way of sending RSVP's now, and sending a menu for people to choose from in lets...

Alexander, friday 4-Sep-26 28
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6 month meeting!!! need advice !!!
Mrs2014, 9 May, 2014 at 10:43

Morning Everyone, i have been really poorly last couple of months, however i have literally just had a reminder call that im meant to be having my 6 month meeting with the venue tomorrow!!! i have...

Julia, saturday 12-Sep-26 12
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Marks and Spencer wedding cake
Shikaka1984, 1 October, 2014 at 14:10

Hello all. My H2B and I love the look of the create your own cake from M&S. We are on a tight budget so this appears to be a great way of getting a beautiful cake for a fraction of the price. I...

Violet, monday 24-Aug-26 24
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Unresponsive bridesmaids - help
Sondy, 13 August, 2015 at 23:39

Hi, It's almost a year until we wed (21st) and today I went to visit the venue for the first time- really exciting. I'm having a bit of trouble with contact from my 5 bridesmaids. I set up a facebook...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 24
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Poems and Readings
meggles24, 28 February, 2010 at 10:53

Hey girls- not seen any of these types of posts in a while.. Has anyone chosen their poems or readings for their big day? Need some inspiration! XX

Work, thursday 25-Jun-26 19
doodlegram
Unusual Themes - Maths/Physics
doodlegram, 7 September, 2012 at 14:18

Good Afternoon hitchers! Now after several unsuccessful forum searches, there appears to be no one with a Maths/Physics Wedding Theme on hitched, and not any unusual theme posts... (unless I'm using...

Sam, friday 4-Sep-26 30
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How long to wait for suppliers to reply?
mkw, 15 April, 2015 at 19:37

How long should I wait after sending an initial inquiry for them to reply? I sent emails to a couple of florists over two weeks ago and no response as yet. I know Easter weekend is a very busy time...

Julia, sunday 6-Sep-26 19
Elixia
does anyone regret not filming their wedding?
Elixia, 4 April, 2014 at 08:35

Its one of those things people tell you you'll regret not getting a VOG .... but I dont :/ I'm thinking i can't be the only one that doesn't regret not filming my wedding. I hate the sound my own...

Hans, sunday 6-Sep-26 26
Roller Disco
Cat/Kitten people - have yours ever 'gone off' certain brands of food?
Roller Disco, 29 January, 2009 at 09:21

My cat/kitten is 7 months old and has had the same 'complete' biscuits (TechniCal Complete) for young cats since he was born. Over the past few weeks we've been mixing in some wet food or tuna every...

Chrome, saturday 16-May-26 21
Smith
Planning a Wedding Abroad: Tips for Stress-free Travel
Smith, 5 September, 2025 at 14:44

Planning a wedding abroad sounds so exciting One thing that really helped us was arriving a few days early it gave us time to settle in fix any last minute things and actually enjoy the moment Also...

Apna, friday 18-Sep-26 41
xoxoxo2017
Flat shoes for your bridesmaids
xoxoxo2017, 15 July, 2014 at 15:14

So it seems the common thing is to put your BMs (and yourself!) in heeled shoes! My BMs, like me, aren’t really “heel” girls and much prefer our flats. (I can cope with heels until a point though so I...

Caserne1830, thursday 7-May-26 7
Sophie
Moving home!
Sophie, 5 September, 2023 at 10:19

Hi I am looking to move home within the next couple of months. My wedding is 9th March 2024. Myself and my partner are due to give notice on 30th October. 1. Is there a rule with not be allowed to...

Kaufen, friday 28-Aug-26 19
Dancing-Peanut
Photo Sharing
Dancing-Peanut, 22 January, 2020 at 15:17

Hi I am looking at ideas for guests to upload photos of the day. There are loads of apps - but most you have to take the photos through the app, and not just simply on the phone and then upload. Does...

Paula, thursday 20-Aug-26 20
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Food truck venue - North West!
Kenzie, 9 April, 2025 at 08:22

Hi all! I'm wondering if anyone has any recommendations or ideas for venues that are open to food trucks/street food type carering, rather than a sit down meal for the wedding breakfast? Ideally I'd...

Thomas, friday 18-Sep-26 25
Tatiana
Latino Food Truck
Tatiana, 4 October, 2025 at 10:05

Hey everyone, I’m Colombian and my partner English. We are getting married around surrey in December and I wanted to bring for the evening food a Latino food truck. Anyone knows any food trucks? Thank...

Bakma, wednesday 2-Sep-26 5
Abbie-Lea
Free Wedding Content Creator
Abbie-Lea, 20 August, 2025 at 21:58

Hi everyone! I’m a content creator looking to branch out into the wedding space after 5 years of creating social media content for brands (mainly in the travel industry). To help build my wedding...

Roben, friday 31-Jul-26 34 5

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