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Just wondering what to expect from the venue in terms of planning meetings. I asked my venue if we could arrange a meeting and they said July/August when my wedding is in September 2023 and then...

When one of my closest friends got engaged and she told everyone she knew straight away over message. When I got engaged a month later (this was always going to happen, we've both been with our...

Hi, Our guests have options to choose what to eat for each course at the wedding breakfast (2 starters, 2 mains and 2 desserts) but I cant only see an option for one meal choice. Is there a way to add...

Hi, Im sorry in advance if this isn't in the right place, I just was hoping for some completely independent advice! My partner and I have found our dream wedding venue, but my parents are concerned...

Okay so bear with me here, this might be a long one.... My OH and I are getting married next year and we were always opposite in terms of wedding size - me being a northerner wanting every family...

We are not having a wedding party with official parents/MOH/BM roles so we are not having men in matching suits. At my Dad's request we showed him what suit my OH was wearing but we were clear that we...

My fiance and I are having some trouble deciding whether or not we want an open bar at our wedding. So far we've got close relatives on both sides pressuring us to keep the bar open but at the same...

We’ve just booked our wedding venue for 50 people. We’ve decided not to invite aunts and uncles, and not get bogged down in “if we invite x person we have to invite the whole group”, which I do want...

Hi everyone! I’m about to book our wedding venue that’s 55 minutes away which we’ve fell in love with. My question is, if you were invited as an evening guest, would you feel offended at the 55 minute...

Hi, Im trying to sort our budget and have booked hair and make-up artists for myself for our big day but what is acceptable for bridesmaids. When I've been a bridesmaid before the bride paid for my...

What do people normally do?! Is it normal to take out a loan? Family help? Savings? (We have no savings 😞) Just wondering how realistically we would pay for a wedding! Wanting to get married in 2023...

We’ve provisionally booked our venue for 6th July 2023, and they are holding the date whilst we talk to caterers and book the registrar. They have said they will hold for 14 days. However, I’ve...

Hi everyone, I’m having a bit of a headache predicting the stress that will inevitably come from my family! We are having a small wedding of 50 guests, so this means some members of our family’s will...

Hiya, I get married in Oct 2022, so need to sort out insurance. Can anyone recommend a company to use and also advise on the prices they've been quoted? Just want to make sure I'm getting a good deal...

Me and my fiance have a few ideas for the evening of our wedding. I was wondering what all you other beautiful brides think. Firstly were having a summer wedding with a garden type theme by...

Hiya, I’ve been having a hard time picking a colour scheme and now I’m starting to think maybe I don’t want one at all! I know I will want some blues and pinks in my wedding as my FH wants to wear a...

I would love to hear how far everyone has got with 2023 weddings? Our venue won’t let us put a deposit down yet as their diary isn’t open but we have pre-reserved.

Hi… a dilemma. Our venue hire has increased £500 since we saw it last week. Do you think it’s acceptable to try and reason for the price we were quoted when we saw it? It’s what’s on the brochure we...

Just found out my aunty got married in a small low key affair (nobody new) and has planned a celebration in a couple of months. I planned to give my save the dates out next week. Been told that it may...

Hi everyone, We don't have a massive budget for flowers for our wedding, but as we are getting married in a barn and want simple rustic arrangements I hoped that we could get all the flowers done for...

Im having 80 guests would u do enough favours for the full 80 people or do less like 50 ?

Am I turning into a bridezilla for telling one of my bridesmaids to F off if she doesn’t like the bridesmaids dress I chose or not help me ladies

Hi all, just wondering what everyone’s experiences are in relation to wedding planning with your fiancées. I am the one searching for venues, caterers, etc and making arrangements. He cannot even be...