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Jess

Clitheroe, Lancashire · From October 2020

Happily married 🎉

15 November, 2021

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diy flowers ?
Jess of Planning, 24 January, 2021 at 16:17

Hello ! I’ve recently got a couple of quotes for my wedding flowers and they’re just so expensive for what I’m wanting ! Has anyone ever done or plan on doing their own flowers ? I used to work in a...

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Evening dress!
Jess of Planning, 14 January, 2021 at 09:49

Hello again! I’ve decided I want an evening dress but I don’t know where to look! I don’t want to get a traditional wedding dress , I want something lighter and sparkly ! My wedding dress is heavy...

Maria, friday 2-Jun-23 5 242
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No photos or social media
Jess of Planning, 19 May, 2021 at 09:42

Hello everyone! We really don’t want our wedding to be full of people on their phones or uploading sntrginf to social media but how do we politely ask? Do we put something on the invites but how do we...

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Size 12 dress for sale!
Jess of For Sale, 3 August, 2021 at 09:11

Hello! I bought my dress in a sample sale during lockdown back In January and now it’s closer to the day I’ve realised it just isn’t ‘ the one’! Completely open to offers .

Rosa, saturday 6-Nov-21 4 468
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Surname help!
Jess of Planning, 16 October, 2021 at 18:26

Hello! I have decided I don’t want to take my oh surname for several reasons but he isn’t sure over taking mine. He has admitted he prefers my surname but I think he’s concerned over what his family...

Charlotte, sunday 17-Oct-21 4 222
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Honeymoon recommendations
Jess of Planning, 5 August, 2021 at 09:38

Hi everyone ! We’re looking to book our honeymoon , we find somewhere that looks perfect until you look it up on trip advisor and read the horror stories ! We would love an all inclusive resort next...

Angharad, monday 9-Aug-21 6 155
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Mother in law nightmare !!
Jess of Planning, 7 April, 2021 at 07:59

Hi everyone! We are having an absolute nightmare , our wedding is booked for November but we are so close to cancelling and loosing all our deposits because of his mum! His parents have recently...

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November colour scheme
Jess of Planning, 15 April, 2021 at 10:59

We were originally going for blush pink and navy blue but I’ve changed my mind and I just don’t know what I want ! I really don’t want burnt orange or burgundy , I do like dusty blue and maybe peach...

Jess, tuesday 20-Apr-21 6 179
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Converse wedding shoes ?
Jess of Planning, 13 January, 2021 at 12:44

Hello! I’m just wondering what shoes everyone decided on for their wedding , I’ve never wore heels so I don’t know what to look for ! I’m very tempted to just buy a new pair of converse or vans but my...

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Wedding photos !
Jess of Planning, 18 January, 2021 at 07:52

Help! We are having a small relaxed wedding with just closest friends and family and we don’t want people constantly taking photos or sharing anything on social media before we do but how do we nicely...

PhotographybyBillHad, monday 18-Jan-21 4 129
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Dress help!
Jess of Planning, 14 January, 2021 at 22:03

Help! I’ve decided I’d like a ceremony dress and want one that’s still slightly bridal but more of a party dress and come across one that I love but I can’t find one like it anywhere! Has anyone see a...

Sarah, thursday 14-Jan-21 1 194
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Wedding dress help!
Jess of Planning, 10 December, 2020 at 12:16

Hello! I’m having a nightmare wedding dress shopping , I can’t find anything I like and if I do i just can’t justify the cost! I want to ideally spend £1000 or less , I’ve thought about second hand...

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November Honeymoon Destinations?
Jess of Honeymoons & Getting Married Abroad, 17 November, 2020 at 11:30

Hi everyone ! We are getting married in November 2021 but we’re unsure we to go on our honeymoon! We’d like to go somewhere we wouldn’t usually go abroad with nice Sandy beaches but unsure of where is...

Robyn, friday 1-Jan-21 8 233
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Wedding dress nightmares!
Jess of Planning, 22 December, 2020 at 10:19

Hello! I have booked an appointment for the 21st of January to try on wedding dresses and now I’m that worried they won’t fit in giving myself nightmares! I aim to be down to a size 8-10 by the time I...

Jess, tuesday 22-Dec-20 6 159
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Uk honeymoon destinations?
Jess of Planning, 11 December, 2020 at 20:59

Hello! We have decided to either go on our honeymoon a few months before our wedding or at a later date so we could like to find some where to just go to relax for a few days after ! Ideally a nice...

Jess, tuesday 15-Dec-20 6 232
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Honeymoon before wedding?!
Jess of Planning, 10 December, 2020 at 19:21

Hello! We are getting married in November but I have found the perfect place for our honeymoon in Greece but the weather isn’t great until June onwards and we are struggling to find anywhere in...

Jess, saturday 12-Dec-20 6 112
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Top table!
Jess of Planning, 30 November, 2020 at 14:07

Help! We are starting to roughly plan our seating plan and we’re stuck over the top table as my OH mum and dad are separated , he isn't particularly close to either and would prefer his dad on the top...

Nathalie, thursday 3-Dec-20 5 189
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Wedding cake help!
Jess of Planning, 30 November, 2020 at 13:52

Hello! We have just booked our wedding cake but I’m unsure if to go for 2 tier or 3! We are only having 35 day guests so we would probably be fine with 2 but I’m not sure if 3 looks more ‘ wedding...

Jess, wednesday 2-Dec-20 6 144
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Wrong photographer !
Jess of Planning, 1 December, 2020 at 10:17

Hello! We are just about to book our photographer and we were torn between a few , I thought we had decided and have had a contract sent over ready to book and pay a deposit but I feel hesitant ! I...

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Bridal party
Jess of Planning, 17 November, 2020 at 10:58

Hello! I’ve decided against bridesmaids as I just don’t want to go down the traditional route and the extra cost and hassle and I don’t have a close group of friends so I have decided I’d like to...

Jess, sunday 29-Nov-20 5 181
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Save the dates for evening guests ?
Jess of Planning, 3 November, 2020 at 14:35

Hi, We have decided we want to send save the dates as we have guests who need to book time off work and travel but we don’t know if to send them to the evening guests too, some of which will be...

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Bridesmaids or no bridesmaids ?
Jess of Planning, 27 October, 2020 at 07:12

Hi! We have just booked our wedding for November 2021 and I’m not sure if to have bridesmaids ! Do you really need them? I don’t have any sisters and my OH’ sister isn’t interested , I don’t have w...

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