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We are meeting up with our photographer at our reception venue (just land at the moment as we are hiring a marquee etc). We obviously had the initial zoom meeting start of last year. Wedding is 3rd...

Hello, is everyone getting gifts for parents, bridesmaids and best men? Just looking for some ideas please. Thanks.

Is anyone using coloured smoke bombs at their wedding? I see lots of pictures of the bridal party holding them but have noticed these ones say not to...

I've just noticed Monsoon have a 50% off sale on at the moment. Might be worth a look for anyone still looking for bridesmaid dresses.

Does anyone know where I can find a affordable modest wedding dress? I don’t want my cleavage or back out. Most dresses appear to be low cut front and back. I want it to look simple and classy, whilst...

Hello! I’m supposed to be getting married in December 2022, and after reading these forums I’ve realized I’ve left it too late. I didn’t realize how long it would take to sort the dress out. Urm… What...

So, we are now wondering if we'd rather not have a first dance. It's really not very us. Neither of us particularly enjoy dancing, or being the centre of attention. The only issue is we put "arrive by...

Hello all. Just trying to work out who to have as witnesses. We've got 2 bridesmaids and 2 best men. We had thought about asking Mums before they changed to being on the certificate anyway. So then we...

Just wondering if you think napkins to serve cake on is enough? Do we need plates? Do we need forks? We're diying and have suppliers for the meals who bring their own crockery and cutlery so we won't...

We're having a registry office ceremony and need to supply our own music. It seems putting it on a CD is going to be the best way as they will play it for us then (we'd have to ask a guest to play if...

What would you have at your wedding if money was no object?

We'll be feeding our photographer all day. We will also have staff for a bar we are hiring and band members in the bands we have playing. What's the custom/everyone's thoughts on who we should feed?...

Hello! Please could anyone recommend where to look for veils? I went to a bridal shop local to me and a long, single tier simple veil was nearly £400 which feels like a lot! No idea if that’s the...

Hi all, we have recently been to an event and met a lovely photographer and her work is amazing. I've not a clue what the going rates are for photographers so needed advice! For £995 she is offering...

Hey ladies, looking for some inspiration for wedding favours… what’s everyone else planning??

What's a normal price for bride and trial? Thanks.

Do you think beechwood folding chairs will be okay, without cushions, or are we going to need something more comfortable? We're having rustic trestle tables in a sailcloth marquee. Thanks.

How would you feel if you were "upgraded" to a day guest at a wedding? We might have space to upgrade a few. Has anyone done this and how did you go about it? Thanks.

Hello all, we have had to switch our food about so I need to change the menus for both day and evening guests. Can someone remind me how to do this please?

Who is having a veil? Where is good to get a white one? My dress is white with some colour in. I'd really like to wear a flower crown and am wondering about having a very simple, plain white veil to...

Hello all, I was just wondering what you had/will have your rings in at the ceremony? They came in their own boxes of course. Is it worth getting a 2 ring box or does the best man just have them in...