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Hayley
Hayley

Norwich, Norfolk · From August 2021

Happily married 🎉

3 of September of 2022

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Wedding ring metal
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 30 of December of 2021 at 18:52

Hello all. Just wondering if anyone is going for a different metal for their wedding ring to their engagement ring? My engagement ring is an unusual shape and I have decided I will likely only wear it...

Sarah, monday 31-Jul-23 11 319
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Gifts
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 18 of June of 2022 at 13:02

Hello, is everyone getting gifts for parents, bridesmaids and best men? Just looking for some ideas please. Thanks.

Anonbride, tuesday 13-Sep-22 6 264
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Meeting with photographer
Hayley of Planning, 10 of August of 2022 at 08:41

We are meeting up with our photographer at our reception venue (just land at the moment as we are hiring a marquee etc). We obviously had the initial zoom meeting start of last year. Wedding is 3rd...

Hayley, wednesday 10-Aug-22 9 130
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Monsoon Sale
Hayley of Wedding Attire, 9 of July of 2022 at 14:23

I've just noticed Monsoon have a 50% off sale on at the moment. Might be worth a look for anyone still looking for bridesmaid dresses.

Hayley, saturday 9-Jul-22 41
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Witness
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 18 of June of 2022 at 13:10

Hello all. Just trying to work out who to have as witnesses. We've got 2 bridesmaids and 2 best men. We had thought about asking Mums before they changed to being on the certificate anyway. So then we...

Anonbride, tuesday 21-Jun-22 5 144
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First dance. Yes or no?
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 20 of June of 2022 at 07:58

So, we are now wondering if we'd rather not have a first dance. It's really not very us. Neither of us particularly enjoy dancing, or being the centre of attention. The only issue is we put "arrive by...

Hayley, monday 20-Jun-22 6 187
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Ceremony music
Hayley of Planning, 18 of June of 2022 at 14:44

We're having a registry office ceremony and need to supply our own music. It seems putting it on a CD is going to be the best way as they will play it for us then (we'd have to ask a guest to play if...

Yorkshirelass, sunday 19-Jun-22 1 79
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Cake serving
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 18 of June of 2022 at 14:06

Just wondering if you think napkins to serve cake on is enough? Do we need plates? Do we need forks? We're diying and have suppliers for the meals who bring their own crockery and cutlery so we won't...

Hayley, sunday 19-Jun-22 5 117
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Feeding suppliers
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 27 of May of 2022 at 06:41

We'll be feeding our photographer all day. We will also have staff for a bar we are hiring and band members in the bands we have playing. What's the custom/everyone's thoughts on who we should feed?...

Hayley, tuesday 31-May-22 7 211
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Hair
Hayley of Beauty & Wellbeing, 3 of May of 2022 at 21:43

What's a normal price for bride and trial? Thanks.

Ana, thursday 5-May-22 7 205
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Menus
Hayley of Feedback to Hitched, 8 of April of 2022 at 06:17

Hello all, we have had to switch our food about so I need to change the menus for both day and evening guests. Can someone remind me how to do this please?

Miff, sunday 1-May-22 3 126
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Chairs
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 22 of April of 2022 at 21:53

Do you think beechwood folding chairs will be okay, without cushions, or are we going to need something more comfortable? We're having rustic trestle tables in a sailcloth marquee. Thanks.

Hayley, saturday 23-Apr-22 7 85
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Upgrading from evening to day guests
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 12 of February of 2022 at 12:43

How would you feel if you were "upgraded" to a day guest at a wedding? We might have space to upgrade a few. Has anyone done this and how did you go about it? Thanks.

RomanticGreenStation, monday 11-Apr-22 12 418
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Veils
Hayley of Wedding Attire, 21 of March of 2022 at 22:11

Who is having a veil? Where is good to get a white one? My dress is white with some colour in. I'd really like to wear a flower crown and am wondering about having a very simple, plain white veil to...

Hayley, wednesday 23-Mar-22 15 230
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Rings at the ceremony
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 7 of March of 2022 at 06:12

Hello all, I was just wondering what you had/will have your rings in at the ceremony? They came in their own boxes of course. Is it worth getting a 2 ring box or does the best man just have them in...

Hayley, saturday 19-Mar-22 21 303
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Suede shoes
Hayley of Wedding Attire, 16 of March of 2022 at 10:40

Would you risk it with a wedding that will involve quite a lot of time outdoors on grass?

Hayley, wednesday 16-Mar-22 13 80
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Timings
Hayley of Planning, 1 of March of 2022 at 06:57

Our ceremony is midday then our reception venue is 30-45 minutes away. We plan on having welcome drinks, before food (fish and chips and icecream) at 3pm. Our evening guests are arriving at 6pm and we...

Hayley, tuesday 1-Mar-22 2 99
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Who speaks first
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 26 of February of 2022 at 12:28

Hello all, just wondering if you know who traditionally speaks first during the wedding ceremony please? Bride or groom. Many thanks.

Hayley, saturday 26-Feb-22 4 115
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Best way to walk in a wedding dress without tripping over it?
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 9 of February of 2022 at 10:36

Any tips. Thanks.

RomanticGreenStation, friday 11-Feb-22 19 704
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Wedding choices
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 5 of February of 2022 at 08:58

Hello all, I've just been looking at an example of ceremony choices, for words, rings etc. Do you know if we have to remember any of it ourselves or if it's all "repeat after me"? Will affect which we...

Hayley, monday 7-Feb-22 6 148
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Gifts
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 2 of February of 2022 at 09:18

Who is everyone buying gifts for? I was thinking best men and bridesmaids, but my partner mentioned parents the other day as they're paying about a third of the wedding each. I am thinking they'd...

Charlotte, thursday 3-Feb-22 14 221
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Bunting
Hayley of Wanted, 23 of January of 2022 at 08:18

Hello, we're looking for some bright, fabric bunting. Just wondering if any of you have found any and can recommend somewhere good to get some please? Thanks.

Charlotte, monday 24-Jan-22 1 44
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Best colours with dusty blue
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 1 of November of 2021 at 18:27

Just wondering opinions on the above 😊

Hayley, saturday 22-Jan-22 26 224
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Speeches
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 5 of September of 2021 at 15:11

Hello all. Just wondering if anyone is not having speeches and how you feel about them? I know my Dad would hate to do one. I am wondering if h2b and I could do a joint one just to basically thank...

Hayley, wednesday 19-Jan-22 16 430 1
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Wedding insurance
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 17 of January of 2022 at 19:42

Best place to get it? And does it matter when? Thanks

Tamsin, tuesday 18-Jan-22 1 114
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Confetti
Hayley of Planning, 16 of January of 2022 at 08:07

We're getting married in a registry office inside a castle. We are hoping our guests can throw confetti on us as we walk over the bridge outside it after the ceremony. Does anyone know if we'd (I...

PhotographybyBillHad, monday 17-Jan-22 29 286
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Getting ready
Hayley of Planning, 14 of January of 2022 at 06:34

Hello, I was just wondering if anyone can advise how long getting ready will take please? We will likely need to leave around 11am to head to the ceremony. I am having 2 bridesmaids but they are doing...

Hayley, monday 17-Jan-22 10 250
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Dress cold feet
Hayley of Wedding Attire, 31 of December of 2021 at 03:35

Hello all. I was just wondering if it's normal to get dress cold feet? I ordered mine a while back and it's something a bit different, rather than the traditional all white. I am now wondering if I...

Hayley, friday 31-Dec-21 2 132
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Cutlery and crockery
Hayley of Planning, 17 of August of 2021 at 07:52

We're having a laid back, festival style, marquee wedding reception. We're having fish and chips and Ice-cream for the wedding breakfast so all sorted there. However, we're having a buffet in the...

My Little Panda, wednesday 29-Dec-21 3 138
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Where to stop with guests
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 19 of December of 2021 at 14:36

We are undecided whether to invite colleagues to the evening. I think for my work it would end up being an extra 25ish people as I'm not sure how to choose between them. My partner was talking about...

Hayley, wednesday 22-Dec-21 8 189
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Suits
Hayley of Wedding Attire, 27 of November of 2021 at 18:39

Okay, I think I might have posted something before. Anyway, we've seen a really good deal on suits. Would it be okay for my h2b, the two best men and the two Dads to all wear the same suits or is this...

Hayley, sunday 28-Nov-21 2 135
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Witnesses
Hayley of Etiquette and Advice, 20 of November of 2021 at 21:59

Who is everyone having as their witnesses? My partner is having 2 best men and no other groomsmen, and I'm just having 2 bridesmaids. We are wondering about asking our next closest friends to be the...

Hayley, monday 22-Nov-21 3 128

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