Discussions I've Participated In

We recently had our registrar appointment for our April 24 wedding & were given a copy of the vows that will will have to say. With it being just a few lines of text, I said it just seems that it...

When I booked my notice appointment, it only said first and last name so I did that, naturally. However, I have realised my partner's passport has his middle name alongside his first name. As this is...

Having more of an unconventional wedding. Registry office ceremony and then going to a bar after for a buffet. Guest list is 32 incl me and my fiancé so it’s a little smaller. Ceremony is 2:15 start...

Hi, Recently engaged and thinking about where we want to marry. I’ve read online about a possible change in law where you can marry outside anywhere? We’d love to get married in my parents garden but...

Hi, Realistically, do I need a handbag on my wedding day? I won't need my mobile phone and I am not bothered about touching up make up. What are other people's views please?

Afternoon all! My girlfriend and I are getting married next December and we’re struggling with the walking down the aisle part. Neither of us have parents around to perform this and besides, neither...

Hi all, weve been together since 2009 and our church wedding was originally booked for 11th July 2020 and was cancelled due to covid, no wedding happened in the church in 2021 and in 2022 thu church...

So I was thinking about getting our wedding bands set after Xmas just after the new Yr. Is there any right or wrong time to buy your wedding rings? It does recommend to get them 3-4 months before but...

This might be a daft question but in my venues terms and conditions it states "neither you, nor *venue* is entitled to exclude members of the general public from attending unless the rooms maximum...

Hi all, So we’re getting married March 2024 and we’ve just sent out the first invitations however the mother of the groom has some issues with our guest list. We’re having a smaller wedding, only 55...

Hi everyone, I recently got engaged to my partner of three years. This will be my first marriage (at age 59!) and his second. My partner has a daughter, "Lucy" who is 20 and who asked him two years...

I got married in September but I'm only just getting around to sorting out my driving license and passport. I have read so many stories on here of the DVLA losing marriage certificates, so I planned...

Hello! I'm getting married in late October in London and have five lovely bridesmaids all wearing a Rewritten wrap dress with floaty sleeves falling just above the elbow. I have been toying getting...

Hey so my Husband to be is going on his stag in 3 weeks. I am feeling funny about a lap dance and worried my husband to be won’t tell me. How do I overcome this? I find it so disrespectful and...

So we are having an intimate ceremony (30 guests) in a relatively small room. I paced it the last time we visited, and my "walking in" should take all of 40 seconds What can I do about music? Should I...

I'm filling out the DVLA form now and I'm confused, do I sign it with my old signature with my maiden name, or my new one that I'm changing to? I'm guessing I'll need to use my new one as it will be...

Hi I am looking to move home within the next couple of months. My wedding is 9th March 2024. Myself and my partner are due to give notice on 30th October. 1. Is there a rule with not be allowed to...

Hello! I have only just got engaged, but I’ve always dreamed of getting married abroad in a Villa type thing with about 40 guests. Does anyone have any ideas on if this is an expensive idea before I...

Hey all So, straight to it - the only available slot for the registrar to come out to the hotel to wed us is 10 a.m. (July 2024). The wedding planner at the hotel said 10am is early (no issue) and...

Hi, our ceremony is booked for 11.30am. I've done a quick schedule of how I think the day will play out, but does it feel too stretched? Have I missed anything? I'm not sure how long each thing should...

So I'm planning on booking my wedding for 2025. I'm viewing the venue next week and was just wondering, if I place my deposit down next week do I pay the price for 2025 or this year?

Hi Everyone, just after some opinions on a sweetheart top table?? We’ve come to the part of our wedding planning where we need to sort our table plan and it’s probably the hardest part of planning the...

I had my first dress fitting 4 weeks ago. During the appointment, I got a sharp injury from the pins on the dress . and have a small drop of blood on the dress right in the tummy area . The staff...

Hi everyone, I'm thinking of having my hen party next summer around 12 months before my wedding as my sister is also getting married shortly after our date and I don't want to overshadow her plans....

Hi everyone. I did try and create a post the other day but I can’t find it anywhere, I’m not sure if it was deleted or maybe just ignored. So, sorry for posting again but I’m having quite a hard time....

Hi, we’re having a casual wedding which starts at 4pm with the ceremony followed by the reception around 6pm. There will be a fish and chip and ice cream van which will be serving between 6-9pm. The...

Hello, I know this has been asked previously, however it seemed to be some time ago and I am hoping people have more recent experience of this. I am ready to send my driving licence and D1 change of...

Hi, I've got really fine hair thats hard to style. I've looked a numerous hair stylists but a lot request that the date (of the wedding) is secured before I'm able to book in a hair trial. Is this the...

Hello My partner's last name is Read and mine is Ross.I'd like to get opinions on what people think about the surname Ross-Read or Read-Ross. Does one sound better than the other? Do neither of of...

So, I only just got engaged, I’m talking a few days ago and my fiancés mother is already a nightmare. Making little comment to the point we don’t even want to properly announce it anymore. She’s also...

Hi, My Fiancé and I are getting married in June 2025. We have booked our venue and secured the date. Half of the guests are coming from the USA. Would it be too soon to send save the dates asap to the...