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Hi all, I need some advice! I'm getting married November 24 so starting to plan my hen do for September 24. I'm looking at doing a really chilled out glamping weekend with lots of outdoor and hot tub...

AITB… okay, so me and my partner have been together for 6 years. We originally were supposed to get engaged 3 years ago but put it off due to his brother cancelling his wedding last minute....

My partner and myself are due to get married next September. I am really stuck on what wedding songs to choose. I want something unique and a little bit different for walking down the aisle, our first...

Hi there, Does anyone know of any venues in UK that have flexibility on the caterer? We have approx 125-150 guests and we are being quoted £180-£200 per person which is not in our budget. All the...

Hi all quick questions! Before the ceremony do I take my engagement ring off and just wear wedding band? Then also which order do my rings go in? Engagement ring first then wedding ring or is it the...

We are looking at a possibly date for wedding Friday 12th July. The venue has a minimum of a 100 guests on a Saturday so Friday is the only option really if we want this venue (which we both really...

Having just read an article on this very website, it suggests that wedding insurance is something often overlooked by couples planning. After a very brief look into it, I wasn’t able to find any...

Hi all! I'm currently stressing about the vow writing part of our wedding. I have so many things I want to say but would feel awkward saying in front of 50 people- I feel my vows wouldnt be exactly as...

Hi, It’s coming to the time where I need to put down a deposit for a wedding venue. I have one I really like but it’s quite expensive and we’d have to take a loan out to pay it all off. I’ve seen...

Has any one done a full 180 and gone from planning their big dream wedding to realise that it's causing too much stress and costs keep rising, to then doing a much smaller intimate wedding

Hello! I’m looking for some advice. Our wedding is in less than 4 weeks and over the weekend, the best man and my fiancé were at a birthday party together for a friend of theirs. I was on a weekend...

I need some advice my wedding is 2 months away. I am with a private dentist and we talked about doing teeth whitening, i was on board at first as i thought it was included free in my monthly plan....

Hi everyone, I'd really welcome some advice. I went away to get married, just me and hubby back in April. We're having a big party at a nice hotel in Manchester to celebrate in August. I have a bit of...

I am getting married in July 2024 and was wondering when I should be thinking about booking appointments to try on wedding dresses. I was under the impression January 2024 would be okay but my friend...

Hi everyone. Wanting some feedback/opinions please. I get married this year and I have 5 BM which are all in different shades of green and golds. For my flower girls I have 2, should I do matching...

Hello, So I work in a team with 5 other people, 1 invited to the day and three invited to the evening. I have chosen to invite one to the day because they are my best friend. The other three because I...

Hi everyone, Just wanted to ask for help about some wedding terminologies as I am getting confused haha I grew up in asia and the weddings I’ve been to are different to western weddings. In asian...

My wedding is in just over 7 weeks (no idea how that happened - eep!) I'm basically looking for 2 bits of advice... 1. We're still having people drop out....people don't seem to understand that we get...

Hey everyone, I'm new here so apologies if this isn't the right place to post! We're looking at getting married November 2024, but we have a very tight budget, around £2000 or under for the whole...

Morning, Wondering if anyone could offer any advice on how much they believe is affordable for guests to pay for overnight accommodation at the wedding venue itself? We are getting married on a...

My soon to be MIL has told me she’s looking at a white or a beige dress for the wedding - I’ve told her I’m not comfortable with her wearing white but looking for opinions on MOG colour schemes? Our...

Hello all So my husband and I got married in April this year and I wanted to share some tips and thoughts for anyone planning theirs. Not sure how useful this will be but here we go… Focus on...

Hi all I’m on a really tight budget and I can’t afford to decorate my venue with flowers as even silk flowers are costing a bomb. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to decorate my venue...

A family member (grandma’s sister) declined the invite as she didn’t like the menu options (the meat options didn’t work for her dietary requirements, so she’d have to have the vegetarian option). We...

Has anyone ever delt with the loss of someone while planning to get married? My biological dad as never wanted to be a part of my life and a Yr ago my mom's partner passed away due to cancer. Somedays...

Hi, I really need some help with what to do for a Hen do. Where to go and what is a suitable budget. I am happy to do whatever but just have no ideas and feel like the older generation that are coming...

Hi , I’m Chloe I’m getting married April 2024 I am struggling so much with planning but I can’t really afford a wedding planner. I keep second guessing my decisions and I the thought of my wedding...

I have both a maid of honour ( my longest best friend) and a chief bridesmaid (a newer great friend). My maid of honour is so busy as she’s in a doctor so she’s abit slower to respond during the day...

When it comes to transport for your guests who should pay? We are having our ceremony and reception in the same place but, do we provide transportation for day and evening guests or not?

What is the right thing to do? I can’t have everyone at my wedding due to costing a fortune! Would it come across rude if I invite people to my hen that I haven’t invited to the wedding? Or would it...