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Did anyone reach out to their guests for a second time after getting the first RSVP? We sent out our Invites in January and our wedding is in October. We have invited 120 people and so far 100 have...

Hi, We have got our songs planned for our ceremony but was wondering what people found the best way to play them? I feel burning a CD is quite old fashioned now but is the Bluetooth option reliable?...

Hi all What is the appropriate etiquette for providing food for people you have hired? We have two photographers and a videographer (or two, not sure yet). The photographers have said they don't...

FHs usher was in a relationship up until quite recently. His previous partner was very much invited to our wedding. When they split up and she said she wasn’t coming anymore we were able to invite...

Hi, I am due to get married in June. I have previously been married 2, I have the decree absolute from the second marriage. When we go to give notice does anyone know if I have to have a copy of the...

My passport has expired, would it best to apply for a new one after we're married before going on our honeymoon as otherwise I'd have the wrong name on it?

I have asked my groom to wear a buttonhole to tie him nicely into the wedding party and help it look cohesive My groom has thrown a hissy fit about how much he hates buttonholes, he doesn't get the...

Hey all, I recently got engaged in may, we have started wedding planning and have the date set for May 2025. Just wondering when people suggest sending out save the dates and wedding invitations? We...

We don't have many of our guests emails. We were hoping to share the RSVP via whatsapp with guests and they would be able to enter their email when they RSVP and then we could send updates via that...

Hi all, recently got engaged and got straight to planning because we are so excited (especially me!) we don’t plan on getting married until 2026 but really want to get a venue booked in far in...

Hey lovely brides, I am looking for advice on venues. Am I unrealistic to think I can host and feed 60-70 people in a nice looking venue for less than £15k? Everything I have seen is at least 9-12k...

Hey guys! I will be paying corkage for a few bottles of wine and champagne for my wedding..Putting some money behind the bar for beer/cider.. I don't know if it's rude to ask the guests to "go dutch"...

Hi everyone, I recently got engaged to my partner of three years. This will be my first marriage (at age 59!) and his second. My partner has a daughter, "Lucy" who is 20 and who asked him two years...

Hello, Does anyone have any ideas for something to entertain children throughout the evening please? I was thinking something like a ball pond. Somewhere that they could entertain themselves and have...

Hi all, So we’re getting married March 2024 and we’ve just sent out the first invitations however the mother of the groom has some issues with our guest list. We’re having a smaller wedding, only 55...

Anyone getting married there next year? Have you heard anything about your date from them yet? What are your thoughts with everything going on recently?

I’m trying to get some kind of budget in my head, when I’m asking venues for their packages if they don’t mention about a DJ does that mean we have to get one and pay as I’ve had a few responses where...

Hi, My Fiancé and I are getting married in June 2025. We have booked our venue and secured the date. Half of the guests are coming from the USA. Would it be too soon to send save the dates asap to the...

Hi, We're having a modest wedding (90 In the day & about 170 in the evening) I'm happy having kids at the day & night but not sure how to sayIf you fancy a day / night off that's fine just let...

Hi, just started to plan the wedding. We would like a cival ceremony followed by a drinks reception with canapés. Its a small wedding. Would it be appropriate to just do this and no reception after....

Hey, I just wondered what time everyone is having their ceremony. The only times the registrar has available is 12:30pm or 2:30pm. I wanted to get the most out of the day and worried 2:30pm will be...

We've done two sets of invites, one for the day guests and one for the night guests however both of them have a QR code on to our wedding website. They're due to be delivered tomorrow and I'm now...

This is how my other half has described what he has imagined 😂 We’ve been engaged since Christmas 2018, but due to babies, Covid, and moving house since then, we haven’t planned anything! We do,...

Hi Everyone, We are supplying our own alcohol for welcome drinks, toast and wedding breakfast; we have worked out our quantities but wondered when is the best time to start buying the alcohol for an...

Hi everyone, We are having a black tie wedding with tuxedos. I’m building up my group of people we will buy / rent suits for. This will include groom (my) dad, brides dad, best man, 4 groomsmen and...

Hey everyone, I need your opinions and insights regarding a situation my fiancé and I are currently facing. We have our hearts set on a specific venue for our wedding in September/October 2024, but...

He has gone back on his word about the work and deadlines. He has already taken all the payment. We tried to purse legal action and he threatened to delete everything. We feel so helpless.. He was so...