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Tamsin

Wallingford, Oxfordshire · From February 2021

Happily married 🎉

28 May, 2022

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Month long weather forcasts 😢
Emma, 5 June, 2022 at 09:53

We're getting married on 7th of July and the weather is showing thunderstorms on Accuweather when looking ahead. Does anyone know if you can take these long range forcasts seriously? I don't have much...

Elliothale, thursday 25-Dec-25 17
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Wedding photographers
Natalie, 8 June, 2022 at 14:40

Hi guys, Whats everyone's thoughts on having 2 photographers at the wedding? Do you think this is needed? Thanks Natalie

Dazzle, friday 26-Aug-22 10
Kayleigh
Dyeing the dress
Kayleigh, 31 May, 2022 at 22:18

So. My bestie was going to donate her wedding dress to charity so I asked her if she'd let me have it instead cos its a beautiful dress which she was super happy to do. Now... its white and I'm...

Michelle, sunday 19-Jun-22 12
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Passport
Kim, 19 May, 2022 at 07:59

We get married august but going on holiday do i just book my holiday in my maiden name or do i need to change my passport google is giving me different answers lol

Kim, thursday 19-May-22 4
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Holiday of a lifetime
Zoe, 17 May, 2022 at 12:18

Hi We’re getting married in Portugal next month and will have a week there after as a mini honeymoon. In Feb next year we plan a long haul trip. My partner favours Costa Rica but I don’t feel like...

Zoe, wednesday 25-May-22 3
Charlotte
Rings!!!
Charlotte, 17 May, 2022 at 10:26

Hello again So me and H2B get married mid July. We've had our wedding rings since before Christmas, as I'm one to get everything done with there and then so we quite literally had our rings a year...

Caily, thursday 27-Oct-22 25
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Making your own confetti
parma violets, 28 July, 2014 at 22:03

I had a go at making my own confetti today and thought I would share my experiences. I used a £2:50 bunch of roses from Asda with 10 heads. I separated these, laid them on grease proof paper and then...

NiraStream7, tuesday 7-Apr-26 26 2
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Veil help
Charlotte, 16 May, 2022 at 20:29

Hello! Please could anyone recommend where to look for veils? I went to a bridal shop local to me and a long, single tier simple veil was nearly £400 which feels like a lot! No idea if that’s the...

Lexie, monday 22-Dec-25 10
Rhian
Do we need a table plan?
Rhian, 13 May, 2022 at 22:34

We’re getting married in Gretna Green just the 2 of us and having an evening reception 3 weeks later. We’ve asked for circular tables, but do we need a seating plan. I really can’t see the need for a...

Rhian, wednesday 25-May-22 6
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Wedding venue
Fern, 13 May, 2022 at 22:45

So I had my heart set on a venue near the river by me photos would of been gorgeous but the hotel has struggled with staff shortages and they are no longer booking in future events. I'm now looking...

Fern, friday 5-Aug-22 7
Maria
Two hour canapee's & drinks - what should we do?!
Maria, 11 May, 2022 at 12:04

Our venue has asked that we allow 2 hours for them to set up from the ceremony to the wedding breakfast as we have 120 guests and are getting married in the same room as the ceremony. We're getting...

Sophie, monday 16-May-22 9
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How do i legally change my surname? uk based
Louisa123, 14 May, 2022 at 18:21

I got married last month, how do I legally change my surname? Google has got me so confused

Tamsin, sunday 15-May-22 1
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Glassware and wine
Victoria, 9 May, 2022 at 19:46

Hi all, I am having trouble with my wedding venue they have been messing me about a lot and the last thing they have come to me with (with only 6 weeks to go) is the cost of the wine for the wedding...

Tamsin, monday 9-May-22 2
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Friends whose bfs/partners you’ve not met
Jessica, 8 May, 2022 at 12:00

Hi ladies, I’m wondering what your thoughts are on friends boyfriends or partners husbands etc that you have not met or only met once.. I obviously don’t want to be rude but by not inviting them as a...

Ajx, thursday 12-May-22 12 2
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Service Charge Venue Hire
Danielle, 8 May, 2022 at 12:51

Hello everyone, I have just received my invoice from my wedding venue and have seen that there is a 10% 'Discretionary Service Charge' of £850 on top of my venue hire cost. Is this normal? I had...

Emily, monday 9-May-22 3
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Buying bridesmaid dresses online?
Daniella, 3 May, 2022 at 18:18

Has anyone bought their bridesmaid dresses online and can send me the sites they used please? I have 4 bridesmaids- 2 are adults and then one will be almost 13 and the other will be 8 so ideally a...

Lexie, monday 15-Dec-25 25 1
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Save a the date etiquette
Lisa, 2 May, 2022 at 13:24

When I sent our save the dates I addressed the envelopes to the adults ie Mr & Mrs xxx, the actual cards had no names, just mass printed, its this date, details to follow. I am now worried that...

Hannah, friday 6-May-22 8
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Videographer needed!!
RomanticYellowConfetti93312, 27 April, 2022 at 10:35

Our videographer has let us down and it’s one month until our wedding!! Help!! Can anyone recommend a videographer that will travel?? Willing to pay whatever!!

Tamsin, wednesday 27-Apr-22 1
Hayley
Chairs
Hayley, 22 April, 2022 at 21:53

Do you think beechwood folding chairs will be okay, without cushions, or are we going to need something more comfortable? We're having rustic trestle tables in a sailcloth marquee. Thanks.

Ronald, sunday 17-Aug-25 8
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Wedding websites?
Clare, 21 April, 2022 at 12:14

Hi all Has anyone made a wedding website and if so, do you have any recommendations? (something simple ideally / pre-made templates). I've seen hitched has one obviously haha but just curious if...

sahilverma3, tuesday 17-Feb-26 16
Saphireangel
Bridesmaid gifts
Saphireangel, 20 April, 2022 at 10:09

Hi all, so I'm Malaysian but getting married in London. I'm still trying to figure out what's the customs here in the UK. Is it customary to buy gifts for my bridesmaids to thank them? I bought them...

Sinéad, thursday 21-Apr-22 13
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Anxiety about no-shows on the day? Or did this happen to you!
Louisa123, 20 April, 2022 at 22:05

3 days to go! We had 2 people who RSVP’s pull out last month (understandable reasons) and I’ve just had a friend come over to say her, her partner and her child are now going on a last minute holiday...

SoftBunny, thursday 4-Jan-24 3 1
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Tips for wedding suppliers?
snowshine123, 19 April, 2022 at 20:13

Hi, just wondering if anyone knows/aware of giving tips out to the wedding suppliers on the wedding day? One of my close friends got married a few years ago and she had cash tips for her wedding...

snowshine123, friday 22-Apr-22 8
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Affordable honeymoon?
MAUD, 18 April, 2022 at 13:34

Hello! We are getting married in July and would like to go on honeymoon straight after. We’d like somewhere sunny and warm by the sea. We looked at Greek islands, but we’ve been quoted between £3000...

Charlotte, friday 22-Apr-22 3
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Telling work friends they aren’t invited 😬
Ajx, 18 April, 2022 at 11:58

I need help!! We had our engagement party this weekend and my office colleagues came and although we had a good time my fiancé and I have now decided that we want a smaller wedding with only family...

Jessica, friday 22-Apr-22 17
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Bridesmaid Dresses
RomanticOrangeDecor531, 18 April, 2022 at 10:55

Hello! I'm struggling to find bridesmaid dresses. Please can anyone suggest where they have found theirs or seen any that you'd recommend? I'm based in Manchester. Thanks!

Lexie, monday 15-Dec-25 7
RomanticIvoryBridesmaid128
Black Bridesmaid Dresses
RomanticIvoryBridesmaid128, 17 April, 2022 at 22:13

I am having a Great Gatsby theme wedding and originally wanted gold bridesmaid dresses. After waiting for a restock that feels like it is never going to happen I have changed plans and I am now...

Km86, saturday 23-Apr-22 5 1
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Unwanted tan marks - sun caught me off guard!
Kirsty, 18 April, 2022 at 08:24

Hi everyone! Hope you’ve all had a lovely Easter! After some advice or tips please. Wedding is next weekend. The sunshine has got the better of me over the weekend (I stupidly didn’t even think about...

Anonbride, friday 22-Apr-22 8
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Help! Adding guests song choice
Luxuriouspinkcars60789, 13 April, 2022 at 12:16

On my rsvp cards I gave my guests the option to choose a song that would get them on the dance floor. Now they have started coming in I can’t find anywhere suitable to put it. Is there somewhere I can...

Luxuriouspinkcars607, sunday 17-Apr-22 5
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Hotel rooms for guests
Sara, 12 April, 2022 at 16:56

Hi all! I'm asking you because my OH is winding me up We have sourced a hotel near our venue and reserved 20 rooms for them to book. We've realised that with the people we know are coming, those rooms...

Henry, friday 5-Dec-25 14
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diy fairy lights
Katie, 12 April, 2022 at 18:21

Has anyone DIY’d fairy lights at their wedding? I’m getting married in a barn and have been quoted £495 for fairy light canopy. This doesn’t sit within our budget so I would like to hear if people...

Tamsin, wednesday 13-Apr-22 2
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Inviting teachers - during term time
Josh, 12 April, 2022 at 22:35

Me and my SO are planning our wedding, we’ve found our dream venue and have a date that has somewhat of a significance to us. The only problem, it’s the Thursday before the end of the school term. We...

Melissa, thursday 13-Apr-23 35

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